Akekho oyomangala ngolwazi lomuntu oshiye emndenini, futhi izizathu zalokhu zingase zihluke ngokuphelele. Abesifazane basabela ezenzweni ezinjalo ngezindlela ezahlukene: umuntu ujabulela ukuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside, kanti abanye benza yonke imizamo yokugcina umndeni. Kulokhu, ungasebenzisa umlingo bese ucela usizo oluvela eMandleni aphezulu.
Indlela yokubuyisela umyeni emndenini ngemithandazo?
Njengoba wazi, amagama anamandla amakhulu namandla, okungaba nomlingiswa owonayo nokudala. Kunemithandazo ekhethekile evumela ukuthi ubuyele othandekayo wakho, kodwa udinga ukuwafunda kuphela uma unokholo emphumela omuhle. Umlingo wesonto uthathwa njengempumelelo ngempumelelo ekuxazululeni izinkinga zomndeni, kodwa zonke izenzo kufanele zibe kuhle.
Kunomthandazo oqinile wokubuyisela umyeni emndenini, okumele ufunde ngemva kokushona kwelanga. Kudingeka ukuthatha isithombe somlingani noma into ethile. Kuwo udinga ukubeka isandla sakho sobunxele bese uthi la mazwi:
"Njengoba ilanga lacaca esibhakabhakeni, alizange lithole indawo, ngakho-ke, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni), awukwazi ukuthola indawo ngaphandle kwami. Ekuseni ilanga liyovuka futhi futhi kusihlwa futhi esihlahleni salo ukubuyela. Kanjalo nakwezinye izindlela - emndenini, kumfazi, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama). Yiba njalo. Amen. "
Uma Amandla Aphakeme Akhetha ukuthi indoda ehambayo akufanele isondele, akukho mithandazo eyomsiza ukuba abuyele. Imikhuba yokubuyisela usizo isuse izithiyo ezikuvimbela ukuthi ungahlangani nomthandekayo wakho. Nsuku zonke udinga ukufunda umthandazo kuPeter noFevronia, othi:
"Abangcwele nabasebenzi bemangaliso,
UNkulunkulu Omkhulu uPetru Nenkosikazi Fevronia!
Ngibuyela kuwe, ngithandaza ngokudabuka,
Letha imithandazo yami eNkosini uNkulunkulu,
Mcele kimi ukholo, iqiniso, ithemba, umusa, nothando olukhulu!
Ngisize, nceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lakho),
Ngenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni) ukuhlangana kuze kube phakade futhi siphile ndawonye konke ukuphila kwakhe!
Amen! Amen! Amen! "
Enye indlela ephumelelayo yokubuyisela ngokushesha umyeni emndenini ngemithandazo, ihilela ukusetshenziswa kwamadonki, okwenziwe ngamakhandlela noma izinto ezingalungile. Umkhuba kufanele wenziwe ngenyanga edlulayo. Idoli, ehlonipha umyeni, kumele ukuthi ibe nezitho zobulili zesilisa, futhi esifubeni kubalulekile ukubhala incwadi yokuqala yegama lakhe. On the doll emele owesifazane, incwadi yokuqala yegama lakhe kufanele ibhalwe. Kudingeka ukuba ihlotshwe ubuso nobuso futhi iboshwe nge-tape ebomvu. Ngalokhu kudingekile ukuthi umthandazo onjalo:
"Izinceku zikaNkulunkulu (igama lakho nomkakho) zihlukaniswe njengezulu nomhlaba, njengezinwele ezihlanganiswe uthando nothando. Akekho oyosihlukanisa, akekho ozophula lawo mazwi. Uqhinga luqinile, njengoba ngishilo, kanjalo kuyoba njalo. Amen. "
Khona-ke amadonsa kufanele ahlanganiswe ngendwangu yemvelo futhi ahlanganiswe ngentambo ebomvu.
Ezimweni eziningi, indoda evela emndenini iya kwesinye isifazane, kodwa ungayisingatha lesi simo. Amandla amakhulu anomthandazo wokubuyisela umyeni wakhe emndenini kunkosikazi wakhe. Kubalulekile ukuyisebenzisa kuphela uma kukhona ukuqiniseka okuphelele ukuthi nale ndoda ufuna ukuphila impilo yakho yonke. Nsuku zonke, ngokuhlekisayo, funda lo mthandazo :
"Nkosi, mvikeli wami, ngithembela kuwe, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), nakuMama kaNkulunkulu, iTheotokos Engcwele kakhulu nabo bonke abangcwele. Ngikulethela umkhuleko wami ongafanelwe ngesicelo sosizo ngehora elinzima. Ngisize ngibuyele umlingani wami emndenini wami (igama). Phinda uhlangane nami othandekayo wami, masinamathelane komunye nomunye.
O Nkosi, Theotokos Engcwele Engcwele, Abangcwele, bakha isimangaliso esikhulu futhi babuyisele inceku kaNkulunkulu engiyithandayo (igama), mmsindise ekufisweni kwesilingo esinamandla nesidemoni. Amen "ukuze ufunde umthandazo izikhathi ezintathu ngosuku ngesonto."
Kunomunye umkhuba osebenzayo womlingo wesonto ozovumela oshade naye ukuba abuyele emndenini uma ehamba nenkosikazi yakhe. Kungcono ukuqala ngoLwesibili, ngoLwesine noma ngoMgqibelo phakathi kwamabili. Ukuqhuba umkhuba akudingeki ukwenze, ngaphandle kobucwebe, ngaphandle kwesiphambano, futhi kusuka ezingutsheni kufanele kube khona ubusuku bokugcina kuphela. Isimo esisodwa - vula iwindi. Kuyadingeka ukuthatha ingilazi yamanzi angcwele bese ubeka indandatho yakhe yomshado kuwo futhi kathathu ukusho ugobe olunjalo:
"Wena, manzi, uvela endandeni yomshado phezulu, phansi uzophuma, ukuze umyeni wami (igama) avela encekwini kaNkulunkulu (igama lomphikisana) waphuma, wangena endlini yami. Egameni likaYise neNdodana noMoya oNgcwele. Amen. "
Ngemuva kwalokho, uphuze amanzi amane ngamasips amancane.
Bayiyoletha kanjani umyeni ophikisayo emndenini?
Abesifazane abaningi ukuthola indoda abayithandayo bayilungele okuningi, nakuba eshadile. Ukusebenzisa izinhlamvu ezihlukahlukene kanye nezinhlelo ezihlukahlukene zomlingo omnyama, ziyakwazi ukufakela into yokubonga bese zikhipha emndenini. Izinkolelo ezivamile, izinyembezi nezinsongo azilungiseleli isimo, kodwa ungasebenzisa amasiko omlingo omhlophe.
Kubalulekile ukuqhuba umkhosi ngobungani bodwa futhi kubalulekile ukuthi akukho lutho olufanele luphazamise lokhu. Kudingekile ukuba ubhekane empumalanga, ukucwila emadolweni ofanele, nokufaka izandla e-castle, futhi ukhulume ngokuzwakalayo ugobe olunjalo:
"Inyoka yenezela endlini yethu, yabuhlungu, emzimbeni wayo yonke into eyayizondayo. Manje ukhuluma, umyalo, ugoba ikhanda phambi kwakhe. Kukhona uKristu uMsindisi ePhaladesi lesigodlo, futhi kuleso sihlalo ubuhle besikhwama esingabhalwanga. Kuyafaneleka, sekumi isikhathi eside, kugcina i-saber engcwele. Isibambo saleso saber igolide, i-saber ngokwayo ayilula. O, Ingelosi kaNkulunkulu, woza, futhi uthathe leyo nkemba ezandleni zakho. Uhudula ikhanda lenyoka, uyayiphonsa. Makungabhubhisi ingqondo yenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni), ukuze idemoni evuthayo ingabe isabayala. Ungamvumeli ukuba ahlukumeze, acele inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni wayo). Yibani - ngemuva, umnyango oneminyango, isiphambano nesiphambano. Izwi lami liqinile, ibhizinisi lami liqinile! Isihluthulelo! Castle! Ulimi! Amen! "
Kukhona omunye umkhuba ozophoqa umyeni ukuba akhumbule ngomndeni. Udinga ukuyisebenzisa ekushoneni kwelanga. Thela amanzi epanini kusukela emthonjeni bese ufaka umlilo omncane ukuze ubilise. Uma ubheka ukuthi ama-bubbles akhuphukela kanjani emanzini, tshela la mazwi:
"Yeka indlela lawa manzi abilayo ngayo namathumba - amathumba,
Phinda ulandele isakhiwo kathathu, futhi emva kokuthulula amanzi abilayo eceleni, lapho umyeni enomunye owesifazane.