Yiqiniso, zonke izizwe zinezibonakaliso zabantu, ezenza kube lula ukucacisa ubulili bezingane ezizayo . Ngezansi sizokutshela okujwayelekile, okuqondiswa emazweni ahlukene. Khumbula ukuthi ukunemba kwabo akuyona ngaphezu kuka-50%, ngakho ungathathi umphumela enhliziyweni.
Izimpawu zokunquma ubulili bomntwana
Ukuze ufunde ubulili bomntwana ngezibonakaliso zamamama zesikhathi esizayo zizama futhi esikhathini sethu, naphezu kokuthi indlela enokwethenjelwa kakhulu yi-ultrasound , lapho ungabona khona izibonakaliso zesisu zomntwana. Kodwa-ke, kuyathakazelisa ukwazi ukuthi umphumela we-ultrasound uhambelana nobuni bomntwana ekukhulelweni.
- uma isisu somfazi okhulelwe sinzima, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso somfana, kodwa uma sekuyindilinga, unayo intombazane;
- uma owesifazane okhulelwe evuvuka emilenzeni yakhe phakathi nezinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye zemilingo - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso somfana;
- uma owesifazane okhulelwe edla isinkwa sokulinda indodakazi;
- abesifazane, bakha futhi bahle ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, bavame ukuzala amadodana;
- abesifazane abaqala ukudla okunambitheka kakhulu, babelethe amantombazane, uma badonsela emanzini anosawoti, inyama kanye noshizi - linda umuntu omncane;
- Kukholelwa ukuthi uma indoda ithanda umkakhe ngaphezu kwalokho akwenzayo, khona-ke umfana uzozalwa, futhi uma kunjalo - kuyoba nentombazane;
- uma umama wesikhathi esizayo ukwandise izinwele emilenzeni yakhe, mhlawumbe ugqoke umfana, kungenjalo ulinde ummeleli wesifo obuthakathaka;
- lapho owesifazane okhulelwe edla okuningi futhi ejwayele ukulinda umfana;
- unqume ukuthi ubulili bomntwana ngezibonakaliso bungakwazi futhi ngosizo lwezingubo zomlingani: uma umuntu ethanda ukugqoka izingubo ezingenasici, ulindele indodakazi, uma ikhetha izigqoko zokubhukuda eziqinile-kuyoba khona umfana;
- lapho izinyawo zabesifazane abakhulelwe zibandayo, kusho ukuthi uzoba nendodana;
- uma izingono zomama wesikhathi esizayo ziba mnyama - emndenini wesisu, futhi uma ama-areoles ekhanyayo - umfana;
- Izitshalo ezingaphezu kwesisu zavela esiswini sakhe - lokhu kuyisignali yendodana;
- i-toxicosis ebuthakathaka, noma ukungabikho kwayo - i-harbingers yendodakazi;
- Abafana banesisindo senhliziyo esheshayo kunamantombazane.
Ubulili besane ngokusho kwezimpawu zikazwelonke
Ungakwazi futhi ukunquma ubulili bomntwana ngokusho kwezibonakaliso ezithandwayo ngosizo lokubhula okulandelayo:
Thatha ucingo olude, ubeke indandatho kuso. Yibambe ngentendeni yesokunxele yowesifazane okhulelwe. Uma indandatho izohamba ngendlela eqondile - ungakhetha igama lomuntu, futhi uma ukunyakaza kudabula embuthanweni - cabanga ngegama lendodakazi.
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Lezi zibonakaliso kubesifazane abakhulelwe ngezocansi zengane zidume kakhulu futhi zivamile, kodwa ukuthi zithembekile kangakanani ukuthi unqume. Into ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele uyikhumbule ngayo - ukuzalwa komuntu omusha - kuyinjabulo enkulu, isenzakalo esibaluleke kakhulu futhi esibalulekile ekuphileni kwabesifazane bonke. Yilokhu okumele ucabange ngakho kuqala, ngakho-ke, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho kufanele izalwe futhi ikhule iphilile, futhi umbuzo othi "umfana noma intombazane" kufanele uhambe ngemuva.