Njengoba wazi, inja ngumngane womuntu, kodwa uma isilwane sibi, ungalindela noma yini kuso. Ngokuvamile izinja ezihlukumezayo zenza abantu bafe. Ngakho-ke akumangalisi ukuthi amaphupho aqondene nezilwane ezinjalo ashiye ukuzwa okungajabulisi. Ukuqinisekisa noma ukuphikisa ukubikezela kwakho, kufanelekile ukusebenzisa izincazelo ezihlongozwayo.
Iyini inja embi ephuphayo?
Izilwane ezinonya ziyisibonakaliso sokuthi isitha sakho maduzane sishintshe isimo sakhe sengqondo futhi sibe umngane weqiniso. Uma ephusheni wabona ijaji lezinja ezimbi ezifuna ukukuhlasela - lokhu kuyincoma ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuphumula nokuxazulula ngokuthula zonke izinkinga eziqoqiwe. Ukuze uphuphe inja encane embi, kusho, phambi kwakho kulindele ukungezwani okuncane, ongakwazi ukuxazulula ngokushesha. Umbono ebusuku lapho ubona khona inja ehlukumezayo, imidwebo ukuthi maduzane kuyodingeka uphile ngehlazo, futhi izobangelwa ukuhleba nokumangalelwa okungenasisekelo.
Iphupho lapho inja ethukuthele ikukhawula khona uyinkinga yezinkinga ezizoxazululwa ngesikhathi esifushane. Ngisho nephupho elinjalo lingasho ukuthi akufanele ubeke phansi izitha zakho, njengoba zikulungele ukufeza umgomo oyifunayo. Kukhona nolwazi lokuthi ukulunywa kwenja kuyisixwayiso sokuthi akufanele unikeze abangani bakho imali ekukhokheni isikweletu, ngoba lokhu kungabangela ukuhlazeka okukhulu. Uma inja embi ekhononda ephusheni kuyisignali engavumelekile ukuthi ibikezela ukuhleka nokuphikisana nabantu abakuzungezile. Iphupho oyilondla inja elibi, lizokutshela ukuthi abantu abaseduze abajabuli nezenzo zakho, okubangela ukuhlukunyezwa ngokweqile. Inja embi emnyama ephusheni ithembisa ukudumala okukhulu kumuntu oseduze.
Uma isilwane esihlaselayo sihlasela wena - kuyinkimbinkimbi yezinkinga ezizobangelwa abangane abaseduze noma izihlobo. Uma ukwazi ukubulala inja embi ephusheni, khona-ke ungakwazi ukubhekana kalula nezinkinga ezikhona.