Ngokuvamile, i-ultrasound ayikwazi ukuthola ubulili bomntwana, futhi umama nazo zonke izihlobo zakhe sebefuna ukuqala ukusungula igama, ukukhetha amaphinithi nezinye izinqubo ezimnandi. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Kulula. Ngokuqondene nendlela yokuthola ukuthi ingane izoba yimuphi ocansini, kunezibonakaliso eziningi eziningi ezakhiwe lapho i-ultrasound yayingekho ngisho nalapho.
Ubani ozozalwa?
Ngempela, abantu sebelokhu benesifiso sokuthola ukuthi ubani ozozalwa: isisebenzi somfana noma intombazane elahlekile. Emndenini ohluphekayo, indodana iyisizi sikababa, umlimi, umdali wezomnotho. Kuwo wonke umnotho oletha inzuzo: ukuzingela, isinkwa esikhulayo. Owesifazane ungumgcini, kufanele asekele kuphela lokho lo mthengi athengile: lungiselela ukudla okuvela emikhiqizweni eyilethwe nguye, unakekele izinkomo, njalonjalo. Indodana izosebenzela umndeni, imenzele imali engenayo, kanti indodakazi izoya komunye umndeni, isebenzele abanye, futhi imnike ngisho ne-dowry: incithakalo ephelele! Ngakho-ke kwakubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ubani okhona: umfana noma intombazane nokuthi wazi kanjani ubulili bomntwana.
Ukuhlukaniswa yisisu sowesifazane okhulelwe
Kwakukhona izindlela eziningana zokuthola ubulili bomntwana ngezibonakaliso : ngokuma kwesisu, ukubukeka komama, isimo sezulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, njalonjalo. Isibonelo, indlela yokwazi ubulili bomntwana ngesimo sesisu. Lena yindlela ejwayelekile kunazo zonke, futhi manje abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi uma isisu somama okhulelwe sivulekile, singacacile, khona-ke kukhona intombazane ngaphakathi, futhi uma ibukhali, "iyigugu", kuzomele ulinde umfana. Bathi futhi uma izinwele ezengeziwe zivela esiswini, kusho ukuthi owesifazane uzoba nomfana, futhi uma kunezikhukhula ezikhulayo esiswini, umuntu kufanele abe nethemba lentombazane. Futhi uthi umfana uvame "ukukhahlela" ngakwesokudla, nentombazane - ngakwesobunxele.
Isimo somama nomoya
Ubulili bomntwana, ngokusho kwabantu, bungathonya ukubonakala, ukuziphatha kanye nempilo kamama. Isibonelo, ungabeka kanjani olunye ulwazi ngocansi lomntwana ngezibonakaliso ezidumile? Uma lona wesifazane ehle kakhulu futhi eqhakaza, wabe esegqoka umfana, uma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukubukeka kwakhe kuye kwahlupheka, khona-ke intombazane. Ngokuqondene nalesi sibonakaliso, odokotela abathile bavumelana naye. Bakholelwa ukuthi kunjalo, kungaba njalo, kodwa imbangela yamahomoni, okwenziwa ngokungafani emzimbeni wesifazane okhulelwe, kuye ngokuthi ungubani. Phela, ama-hormone asithinta kakhulu ukubonakala komuntu. Kodwa okungenani ayithinta isimo sengqondo sowesifazane. Lokhu, mhlawumbe, kuchazwa ukuthi umama ogqoke umfana ujabule futhi unethemba, kanti lowo olindele le ntombazane uvame ukuba nesimo esibuhlungu, esicindezelekile.
Ngokuvamile bakholelwa ukuthi i- toxicosis inamandla futhi ihlala isikhathi eside, ngezinye izikhathi usuku lonke, kumfazi olindele umntwana wesilisa.
Izimpawu ezihlobene nokudla
Uma sicabanga ngezindlela ezahlukene zokubona ukuthi ubulili bomntwana ngezindlela ezidumile, umuntu angabona iqembu labantu abanjalo abahlotshaniswa nokudla okuthandayo nokudla.
Ezinsukwini zakudala, owesifazane okhulelwe wanikezwa isinkwa. Uma ethatha i-crumpet, bakholelwa ukuthi umfana wayezozalwa uma ethanda i-crumb - intombazane. Yiba noma kunjalo, konke ukungabaza kuzoxazululwa lapho lesi simangaliso esikhulu senzeka futhi ingane isivele isesandleni sayo. Futhi uyayithanda ngeke kube yinto yokuthi ungumfana noma intombazane, kodwa ngoba kuyigazi langokwemvelo, ukubukeka okwakulindelwe kakhulu.