Izimpawu ezisekhona esikhathini sethu zingasho ukuthi ziye zahlolwa amakhulu eminyaka. Okhokho bethu bathola uxhumano oluthile phakathi kwezinguquko zamanje nezenzakalo zekusasa. Ukwaziswa kudlula emlonyeni kuya emlonyeni, kuyilapho kugcizelela ukuthi liyiqiniso. Izinkolelo-ze ezichaza izilinganiso zezingxenye ezahlukene zomzimba zithandwa eminyakeni engaphezu kwekhulu. Cishe wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi uma itshaka, kusho ukuthi kuyoba mnandi, futhi uma isandla sokunxele, ulindele inzuzo, njll. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi uma ukuzama ukungaqhubeki isikhathi eside, kufanele nakanjani uthintane nodokotela, ngoba lokhu kungase kube uphawu lwezinkinga ezithile zempilo.
Iyini ikhanda elikhanyisiwe?
Ukubuthwa kule ndawo kuyisimo sezinkinga ezingalindelekile. Kukhona nombono wokuthi isibonakaliso esinjalo sisho ukuthi ngalolu suku kubalulekile ukubingelela umuntu noma ukukhothama, okungukuthi, ukubuza okuthile. Ubulili bomuntu bunganqunywa kunoma yikuphi uhlangothi lwe-itch ebonakalayo: ngakwesokudla - kwesilisa, nangakwesobunxele - yowesifazane. Ama-Esoterics ahumusha lo mqondiso ngendlela yawo lapho ikhanda lihlungiwe. Bathi umuntu kufanele akhulume nommeleli wobulili obuhlukile. Kubalulekile ukuthi le ngxoxo izobangela imicabango eminingi. Kuneminye imibono ehlukene ngekhadi, ngokusho ukuthi ikhanda likhishwa yini ngenxa yokuthi othandekayo uthola imizwelo emibi. Abantu babekholelwa kakhulu ukuthi ukuhlambalaza ebunzini kusho ukuthi "izimpondo" ziyanda, okungukuthi, umlingani uyashintsha.
Okunye okuhlukile kokuchazwa kwesibonakaliso kungabhekwa njengesincoma ukuthi kulezi zinsuku awukwazi ukuphuza utshwala, ngoba lokhu kungaholela ekwenzeni umuthi, isibonelo, ungakwazi ukushaya ebunzini elifanayo emnyango. Uma ukuzamazama kwenzeka ngesikhathi umuntu ephupha ngento ethile, khona-ke isifiso siyogcwaliseka ngokuqinisekile futhi sizokwenzeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Ukuchazwa kwesibonakaliso kuyahlukahluka ngokuya kwendawo yokubamba:
- Uma ikhanda lishaya ibhuloho ekhaleni, khona-ke izinkinga ezinkulu zizoxazululwa. Ukuqina kwe-itch, isikhathi esiningi namandla okuchitha. Isibonakaliso sithi akufanele uthukuthele, ngenxa yalokho uzokwazi ukuthola isinqumo esifanele.
- Uma ukungabonakali kubonakala endaweni eduze kwezinwele, kufanele ulindele ukukhishwa engxenyeni yothandekayo.
- Uma ikhanda lishaya endaweni ephakathi, kusho, kungekudala kuyoba nomhlangano nomuntu onethonya, ngaphambi kokuthi kudingeke ukuthi "aguqe" futhi.
- Uma ukuxoshwa kubonakala ngaphezu kweshiya elilungile, ngokushesha kuzodingeka ukuthi uhlupheke ngenxa yokugxekwa okungenasisekelo ngenxa yezitha nabantu abanomona.
- Uma ikhanda lishaya phezu kweshiya kwesobunxele, esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakho, izihlobo eziseduze zizohlupheka. Esikhathini esizayo, ukudabuka kuza ngenxa yokuthi amazwi athi, kodwa akukho lutho oluzobuya.
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