Izimo ezinjalo aziyikukhulula ingane ekuzibophezelweni ukusiza ngokwezezimali ngisho nokugcina umzali onganaki ngemva kokuba engakwazi ukusebenza kahle. Lesi sizathu esivame ukuqhubekisa umama noma ubaba, obambe iqhaza ekukhuliseni imvuthu, ukufaka icala ngezinkantolo mayelana nokunqotshwa kwamalungelo omzali womzali ongenangqondo wezivuno. Kodwa-ke, ezinye izici zingashaya lolu cala.
Isampula sesitatimende sesimangalo sokunqotshwa kwamalungelo omzali kamama noma ubaba
Ukwenza isimangalo sokunqotshwa kwamalungelo womzali noma ubaba wengane encane, ungasebenzisa esinye sezifanekiso ezitholakalayo kwi-Inthanethi emphakathini, noma uzibhale ngokwakho. Nakuba iningi labantu likhetha ukufaka isicelo kubameli abaqeqeshiwe ukuze benze imibhalo enjalo, empeleni, akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi ekubhalweni kwabo.
Ukuqala isimangalo sokunqotshwa kwamalungelo omzali, landela ikhanda ngakwesokudla phezulu kwephepha lephepha le-A4. Kufanele ikhombise igama lenkantolo ephathelene nokubhaliswa kwangempela kommangalelwa noma indawo yakhe yokuhlala unomphela, ngokusekelwe enkambeni yamandla, kanye negama eliphelele, ikheli lokuhlala kanye nemininingwane yepasipoti yomuntu ngokubhekelwa kwamalungelo omzali kanye ngqo nomfakisicelo. Kule cap, kuyoba okungekho okucacile ukukhombisa ikheli lendawo yokugcinwa kwamasosha kanye nehhovisi lomshushisi wesifunda, ngoba lezi zidumbu ziba ngabahlanganyeli abanesithakazelo ezimweni ezinjalo.
Khona-ke, maphakathi neshidi, kufanele ucacise igama lwedokhumenti. Okuqukethwe kwesimangalo kungachazwa efomu lamahhala. Nakhu kuyadingeka ukuthi ukhulume ngokuningiliziwe ngesimo somndeni, ukuchaza ukuthi ngabe ummangalelwa uthinte ukuthini ukubamba iqhaza ekwakhiweni nasekuhlinzekeni kwengane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wasiza ekuqaleni, nokuthi iziphi izimo ekuphileni kwakhe ezishintshile.
Kumele kuqondwe ukuthi ukulahla noma yimuphi umuntu ngamalungelo omzali ngokuphathelene nendodana yakhe noma indodakazi yakhe kungenzeka kuphela ezimweni ezithile, ezichazwe ngokucacile ngumthetho wombuso ngamunye. Ikakhulukazi, eRussia nase-Ukraine ukuze kutholakale lesi silinganiso, lezi zizathu ezilandelayo zihlinzekwa:
- ukuvinjelwa okungalungile nokuhlala isikhathi eside sokukhokhwa kwezingane, uma nje lo msebenzi wawunikwe umzali iziphathimandla zezomthetho ngaphambilini;
- ushiye umntwana esibhedlela noma kunoma yimuphi omunye isikhungo, eqinisekisiwe ukwenqaba kwengane;
- ukuphathwa kabi kwemvuthu, ubudlova ngokomzimba;
- isigaba esinzima sokudakwa ngokweqile noma ukulutha izidakamizwa, uma nje ukuxilongwa kuqinisekiswa udokotela ochwepheshe;
- ukukhokhwa kobugebengu obulungisiwe obuqondiswe kubantwana noma kumzali wesibili;
- ukuqedela ukuhlukumezeka nokungafezeki kwemithwalo yemfanelo yabazali.
Isizathu esisodwa noma ngaphezulu kufanele sibonwe ngokucacile emibhalweni yesimangalo futhi siboniswe ngezibonelo ezitholakala empilweni yomndeni othile. Okokugcina, ekuxhaseni kwesitatimende sesimangalo, kuyadingeka ukuthi usho izimfuno zokwehliswa kwamalungelo omzali kamama noma ubaba, ukudluliselwa kwengane noma izingane ekukhulisweni komzali wesibili noma umlondolozi, futhi futhi, uma kudingekile, ukukhokhelwa kwe-alimony.
Ukuqoqa ngokucophelela idokhumenti efanayo kuzokusiza ukuthi ugcwalise isitatimende sesimangalo sokushiywa kwamalungelo omzali, okuhlongozwayo esihlokweni sethu:
