Kubantwana abancane, umbuso udlala indima enkulu, kuyisihluthulelo sokuthula kwabo, ukulinganisela kwengqondo. Ngakho-ke, uma umbuso uphukile, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi ungasungula kanjani umbuso wengane, futhi, ikakhulukazi, indlela yokubuyisela ukulala nokuvuka kwengane uma iphulwa.
Izici zombuso wezingane ezincane
Izingane ezineminyaka engu-3-4 ubudala zidinga ukulala kancane kunana wengane yokuqala yokuphila. Kubalulekile ukuvumelanisa nalombuso ngesikhathi. Ingane izoboleka ngaphezulu futhi ijabule ntambama, ukuze ilale kangcono ebusuku.
Embusweni wosuku lomntwana, kubalulekile ukufaka ukuhamba kwansuku zonke amahora angu-3-4 kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isimo sezulu siyini, ngoba umoya omuhle wamaphaphu wengane awuyisibopho sokulala okuhle kuphela, kodwa futhi nenhlalakahle yonke.
Buka ukudla komntwana. Yondla ingane izikhathi ezingu 4-5 ngosuku futhi kuyoba ngcono uma ukudla kwenziwa ngezinye izikhathi. Ngeke kube lula kuphela kubazali bomntwana, kodwa futhi kuyasiza kakhulu ohlelweni lokugaya ingane.
Indlela yokufundisa ingane esanda kuzalwa embusweni?
- Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi imisebenzi eyinhloko ebalulekile ukuba ingane ivele ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ukulala, ukudla, ukugeza - zonke lezi zenzo kufanele zibe izimpawu zengane, lapho ezohlukanisa khona phakathi kokuhlwa nokusa, imini nobusuku.
- Ukubeka ingane ukulala ngesikhathi esithile, phikelela futhi ungabathetheleli ekunciphiseni kwengane. Ngisho noma ingane ifuna ukukushintsha "ngendlela yakhe", ikucela ukuba udlale, uxoxe naye, unike ingane yakho konke, leso sikhathi sokuhlwa yisikhathi sokulungiselela umbhede nokudlala naye, njengasemini, ngeke. Ungabeki kuphela ngokukhuthazela, kodwa futhi ngokuthula. Izwi elizolile, elithambile lizonikeza ingane yakho isignali yokuthula, futhi yileyo ndlela azokuqonda ngokushesha ukuthi uzama ukufeza kuye.
- Ungalandeli umthetho wokudla okudingekayo ebusuku, ngoba lokhu kuyinkinga enkulu kumama wengane. Umama okhulelwe, ukuphumula ebusuku kubaluleke kakhulu, futhi uma evuka njalo ebusuku ekuceleni kokuqala kwengane, emva kwesonto lombuso onjalo angase akhathazeke ngokweqile futhi aphelelwe amandla. Akuzuzisi ingane ngokwayo.
- Ngesikhathi kusungulwa umbuso, gwema isimemo senani elikhulu lezivakashi. Njengoba ukwazi ubuso obusha kungabangela ukucindezeleka kakhulu kwengane. Vumela ingane ngalesi sikhathi ukuxhumana kuphela nalabo bantu abahlala nabo nsuku zonke.
- Buka ukuvinjelwa kokulala kwengane emini, njengoba ukulala isikhathi eside kakhulu ngosuku kungonakalisa ukuphumula komntwana kanye nabazali bakhe.
- Qaphela ukuthi ukudla komntwana kuqukethe ukudla okwanele okune-calcium. Ukuntuleka kwalesi sici kungaphazamisa ukuziphatha kwengane, ngenxa yalokhu, kungaba nokwesaba kakhulu futhi kungenasisekelo, okuyinto eqinisile kuyokwenza kube nzima ukwenza umsebenzi wokubamba ingane embusweni.
- Ukwandisa isikhathi sokuhamba, faka ukugezela nsuku zonke nsuku zonke embusweni wengane yengane. Uzobe lukhulu kakhulu usuku
umntwana, kuyoba lula ukumbeka embhedeni. Noma kunjalo, khumbula ukuthi le misebenzi kufanele futhi yenzeke ngesikhathi esithile. - Zama ukwenza impilo yengane ibe nokuthula njengoba kungenzeka. Njengoba isimo sengxabano esivela emndenini asikwazi ukusiza ekuthuthukiseni induduzo yengqondo yomuntu ngamunye kanye nokuthuthukiswa kombuso wakhe.
Uma kwenzeka ukuthi imisebenzi ebhaliwe inganele ngokwanele kwengane, thintana nesazi sengqondo sezobuchwepheshe sokuqokwa. Ukuhlaziya izici zomuntu ngamunye zomndeni wakho, anganikeza iseluleko esithile esithile sokuthi ungashintsha kanjani umbuso wengane yakho. Phela, imithetho yokuhlela umbuso wezingane ezincane akuzona zonke izindawo.