Kuzo zonke izimeleli zesigamu esihle sesintu esibhekene nezimo ezingathandeki ezenzekayo, futhi uma ungeza kulokhu ukukhathala okungapheli, kukhona ukucindezeleka okungaqedwa futhi kuphele ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kuya ezinyangeni eziningana. Imithi inikeza zonke izinhlobo zezindlela, kodwa ungakwazi ukubhekana nalokhu ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amakhemikhali, isimo sengqondo esifanele!
Kukhona amandla afanele kuwo wonke umuntu, vumela ukuthi kuphume futhi isimangaliso sangempela sizokwenzeka! Umuntu ongathandwayo uzoqala ukushintshanisa leli gama endaweni yonke futhi wonke owesifazane angase ajabule.
Indlela yokufunda ukucabanga kahle?
Okokuqala, akufanelekile ukukhumbula okwedlule futhi ikakhulukazi uzizwa unecala ngezenzo ozithathile, ubheke kuzo kusuka kwelinye ilanga elihle - lokhu kuyinto ewusizo nolwazi.
Zonke izinkinga nezinselele zihlangana ngokumomotheka, ungazwakali. Ungavumeli izinkinga ezincane zibe yizwe lonke, khona-ke uzokwazi ukuphulukisa ngendlela entsha. Ungakhathazeki futhi ungahlupheki ngenxa yezibi. Inkinga ngayinye ivula amathuba amasha ngokuphelele kumuntu.
Zama ukuphupha nokucabanga, futhi ukumomotheka kuzovela ebusweni bakho. Kuyinto emnandi futhi imicabango emihle, amaphupho okuvumela ukuba ufeze impumelelo kanye nezenzakalo ezinhle ekuphileni.
Kodwa lezi ziyizindlela ezimbalwa kuphela zokuthi ziphile kanjani futhi zijabule. Kuzuzisa umzimba ukuba usebenzise umzimba, basiza ukugcina umzimba nomsebenzi wengqondo ithoni. Ngakho-ke, isimo sakho sengqondo nempilo yakho kuyoba ngcono, ukuzethemba kwamakhono akho kuzokwandisa kakhulu. Sicela uqaphele ukuthi ukudansa kusiza ukukhokha okuhle ngezinsuku ezimbalwa.
Isimo sengqondo esifanele usuku nosuku ngabesifazane?
Ungesabi ukuthatha izingozi bese uya ukuhlangabezana namathuba amasha, lokhu kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo! Ngokuvamile, abesifazane abanesimo sengqondo esingalungile baqaphela konke okusha futhi abahluleli ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ekuphileni kunezimo ezinjalo ukuthi kusasa kubonakala kuyingozi, namhlanje kuvula ngaphambi kwakho umnyango ekuphileni okusha futhi kuyamangalisa! Uma ungasazi ukuthi ungacabangela kanjani kunoma yibuphi ubunzima, thatha konke ngokuthula. Ukuqonda okuwukuphela komuntu kuzokusiza uthole isisombululo kule nkinga. Uma usukwazi ukubhekana nemicabango yakho nokwesaba, uzobona indlela izwe elizungezile elishintsha ngayo, ukhohlwa ukucindezeleka nokucindezeleka , empeleni ukholelwa emangalisweni.