Uma kwenzeka ukusola ngo-ADHD, umama nobaba kufanele babuze abazali babo, ngoba ngokuvamile inkinga enjalo ebuntwaneni yayinabo futhi yona ngokwabo, futhi lapha kukhona inzalo. Uma ingane ingasebenzi kahle, khona-ke kufanele ukwenze - abazali abaqondakali, futhi baphendukela kwisazi sengqondo sokuthola iseluleko.
Uma kusukela useneminyaka encane nezingane ezincane kwakungekho amakilasi okuthuthukiswa adinga ukukhuthazela, noma akazange abe khona enkulisa enemisebenzi efanayo, bese inkinga ingazibonakalisa ngokucacile kuphela uma ingane ihlala edeskini. Phela, kulesi sikhathi lapho ingane kufanele iqale ukulawula imizwelo yakhe ngokucacile, ukuthi izingane ezingenakukwazi ukuzenza.
Izici zezingane ezingasebenzi kahle
Ungaqonda kanjani ukuthi ingane inenkinga? Phela, ngokuvamile abazali ngokwabo bahlonza ukuxilongwa okunjalo, ngokusekelwe ekuziphatheni kwakhe okungenakubekezelelwa, ukungakwazi ukuhlala isikhathi eside endaweni futhi ukungalaleli. Ngezinye izikhathi lezi zibonakaliso zingabonisa ukuthi kukhona i-ADHD, kodwa isinqumo sokugcina senziwa udokotela ogcina ingane, eqhuba ukuhlolwa ematafuleni akhethekile, efuna ukuphambukela emazingeni. Kufanele uqaphele uma indodana noma indodakazi:
- Akahlali ngokuthula ngomzuzu, futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi athatha ibhizinisi elisha, engagcwalanga lokho aqale;
- ezwela kakhulu, engaphenduli ngokuphendula ekugxekeni, "uvala" kuye, uma ezwa okungalungile ekhelini lakhe;
- ayikwazi ukugxila emaminithini angama-5-10 (kuye ngokuthi iminyaka);
- akukho lutho okufanele lunentshisekelo kulo;
- ijwayele ukukhohlwa, ngisho noma isicelo senziwe kamuva.
Ungasiza kanjani ingane engasebenzi kahle?
Izingane ezinomqondo ongathandeki, ngenxa yezimpawu ezibonakalayo zesakhiwo sobuchopho, azikwazi ukufunda kahle, ungabalaleli abazali bazo, ngakho-ke ngeke zijeziswe ngenxa yalokhu, njengoba zingekho esimweni sokuzilawula.
Uma ukuxilongwa kokungabikho kokukhathazeka nokukhathazeka kwenzelwe, udokotela ngokuqinisekile uzosinikeza izincomo ngendlela abazali okufanele baziphathe ngayo nengane yabo esikhathini esizayo ukuze bathuthukise izinga labo lokuphila futhi bavumele izingane ukuba zizibonele emkhakheni wezenhlalakahle azibi nakakhulu kunabo ontanga:
- Kulezingane ezinjalo, ngokukhushulwa kwemizwa yomshuwalense, isimiso sosuku olucacile siyadingeka, okungafanele sashintshe kuye ngezimo, ngisho nokuphambuka okuncane kakhulu kumasiko wansuku zonke ngesikhathi esichazwe ngokucacile kungabangela ukuguqulwa kwamandla okungalawuleki kwengane.
- Abazali ngokwabo kumele bacabangele izimpilo zabo, ukuziphatha kwabo kubantwana abangasebenzi, njengokujezisa, ukuthukuthela ngenxa yokuziphatha okubi akusho lutho futhi lokhu kuholela ekuthukeni okungadingekile, okuthinta ingane, futhi akulula ukuba aphile.
- Imidlalo ngayinye iyasiza kakhulu, eqondisa amandla amakhulu esiteshini esinokuthula futhi ivumele ukuthuthukiswa kwemishini. Kodwa imidlalo yeqembu kunoma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa, lapho kukhona umoya wokuphikisana - kuvinjelwe.
- Kunconywa ukuba inyane lizoya enkulisa yangasese, lapho ezokwelulekwa khona, ngoba ingane eningi ebambene ingaba inkinga yangempela kokubili abafundi nabafundisi. Esikhathini seminyaka esikoleni, ukucindezeleka kulawulwa ingxenye ethile, kodwa kuyodingeka kube khona ukuxhumana nomfundisi weklasi, ngubani ozocabangela ukuhluka komuntu.
- Ngomntwana ongasebenzi kahle, uhlelo lokukhuthaza lusebenza kahle, hhayi izijeziso, kufanele lube yisikhathi esifushane kuphela. Isibonelo, ingane izothola ilanga, ukumomotheka, noma esinye isibonakaliso sokuhlonipha, uma senza lo msebenzi ngendlela efanele, kodwa hhayi isikhathi esingenamkhawulo, kodwa ngohlaka olucacisiwe.
- Izingane ku-ADHD ekubonweni kokuqala zihlupheka ngokukhohlwa, nakuba empeleni kuyisici esifanayo. Yingakho ungeke unikeze imisebenzi yesikhathi eside futhi ulinde ukuba kugcwaliseke, ngoba emahoreni ambalwa noma ngosuku olulandelayo ingane ngeke neze ikhumbule ngakho, kodwa hhayi ngenxa yokungabikho kwengqondo yabo.
Ngaphezu kokulungiswa kokuphila, udokotela angancoma ukwelashwa. Kubalulekile ukuthi ochwepheshe bakwazi ukunikeza ulwazi olugcwele mayelana nemithi enqunyiwe, ngoba eziningi zazo azihlolwanga kubantu. Ngakho-ke, ukhetho lokugcina oluzosiza ukwelashwa luyoba ngabazali bencane abangekho abakhona.