Ubani phakathi kwethu ebusheni bami engazange aphuphe indlu, igumbi, ikona, okuwukuthi, indawo lapho ungahlala khona wedwa, ufihle amathoyizi futhi ugcine izimfihlo, wamukele abangane - wangempela futhi ucabanga? Yiziphi izinketho kuphela esingazange sizenzele: ukufihla ekamelweni, ukwakha "halabuds" ehlathini nasemgwaqweni, ukumboza itafula ngengubo futhi ugibele ngaphansi kwalo, ukwakha imiklamo eyinkimbinkimbi yezingubo zokugqoka nokunye okunye. Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuthi izingane zethu zinesifiso esifanayo, thina abadala esingabasiza ukuba bazibone, ngoba manje kungenzeka ukuthenga amatende abantwana abahlangabezana nokuthanda okukhululekile kakhulu.
Izingane zendlala-amatende zikhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa kwenganekwane - ingane ivela ngemidlalo ehlukahlukene, kuhlanganise nendima yendaba, imfundisa ukuthi ahlomise impilo yakhe futhi agcine isikhala sakhe siqu, ukuze enze ukunambitheka kokuhleleka. Ziyinkimbinkimbi, kulula ukugoqa nokuvuleka, kulula ukuyihlanza futhi zime ngokushesha.
Indlela yokukhetha itende lezingane?
Qonda ukuhlukahluka kwamatende okunikezwayo akulula: izitolo futhi zigcwele zonke izinhlobo zemibukiso nemibala. Yini okufanele ngibheke kuqala?
- Ukuphepha. Khetha umkhiqizo wenkampani eyaziwayo endaweni yokufakazela - lokhu kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi itende lizokwenziwa ngekhwalithi nakwezinto ezingenayo izinto ezinobuthi. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba ingane izochitha isikhathi esiningi endlini yakhe entsha, ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni, futhi itende ngokwayo ngokuqinisekile kuyoba ekamelweni labantwana, ngakho kufanele ugweme ukuvuselela imfucuza eyingozi.
- Ukukhetha ukuklama. Kulapho ukuphendukela khona - khetha ukuthi inhliziyo yakho ifisa yini. Kunezitende zezingane zamantombazane nabafana - amafomu afanele nezihloko. Thola ukuthi yini ingane yakho eyithandayo, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi itende elikhanyayo nelinambala alinakuqothula i-nursery ekhona kakade.
- Ukukhanyisa. Qaphela ukukhanya okwanele ukungena etendeni, futhi ingane yakho, ethandwa yizingane eziningi, ingadala ingane yakho ngokumboza amafasitela ngamakhethini - okwenziwe ngokukhethekile noma okuthuthukisiwe.
- Usayizi. Ingane kufanele ihlaziye ngethende etendeni ngenkathi imile, kuhle ukuba nesitokisini esithile - mhlawumbe ingane izodlala itende iminyaka eminingana, lapho ezoba nesikhathi sokukhula. Ngaphezu kwalokho, indawo yalo kufanele ibe ngokwanele ukwamukela izivakashi, ngokwesibonelo, wena.
Amathenda angaba neminye imisebenzi eyengeziwe, ahluke ukugcwalisa futhi "ukuhlela".
Itende lezingane nge umhubhe
Uma indawo ivumela indawo, thatha itende ngomhubhe - ingane izoba nesithakazelo ukuhamba nayo ngokuphindaphindiwe, ukubeka amarekhodi esheshayo nokuqamba izithiyo ezengeziwe.
Amatende omntwana aphethe amabhola
Imidlalo yezingane ingahle ihlukanise ngokugcwalisa itende ngamabhola epulasitiki ngamachibi owomile. Ngokuyinhloko ujabulela ukulala emabhola ezinqabunga, okuyizinto ezinwabuzelayo kuphela. Ukuhlukunyezwa okuphela kwalesi sinqumo ukuthi kuzodingeka uhlale njalo
Amathempeli aphuze abantwana
Amathempeli angatholakali izingane akuyona inketho yefulethini, ngoba ibiza kakhulu futhi idinga isikhala esiningi, futhi mhlawumbe indawo evulekile eduze kwendlu yangasese. Ngokuvamile, amatende anjalo ayinkimbinkimbi yokudlala ekhona emapaki.
Amatende emidlalo afanele izingane zanoma yimuphi ubudala, ngoba zihlanganisa uhlaka lwensimbi, zimbozwe ngendwangu futhi azikho izingoma ezibukhali. Kodwa-ke, udinga ukuhlola ubuqotho bayo njalo - isisekelo sensimbi singadabula izicubu bese silimaza ingane.