Thola isihloko esihlukile, okwenza imibono ehlukene kakhulu njengoba ubuhlobo phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane kungenakwenzeka. Ukuze uthathe okungenani ubuhlobo kude , umbuzo wokuthi ungayakha kanjani futhi usindise unomdla wabaningi. Futhi ngisho nangaphezulu, lesi sici sinengxabano. Omunye uthi ubudlelwane bebanga buhlolwe kuphela, kanti omunye uyaqiniseka ukuthi ibanga libulala noma yiliphi, ngisho nobuhlobo obunothando nobunethemba. Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi ngubani olungile kulesi simo.
Umbono onobuhle
- Ngomuntu othandekayo ngaso sonke isikhathi ufuna ukusondelana, ngakho-ke ukuhlukanisana kuyoba buhlungu kakhulu. Ukuxhumana okungavamile akusekho, ngoba ithuba lokubona alisekho, nezingxoxo zocingo (ngisho namakholi wevidiyo) ngeke zinikeze ukusondelana okudingekayo. Umbhangqwana ongenawo ukuxhumana, uzohlaselwa.
- Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, phakathi kwembhangqwana ekude, ukungazethembi kuqala, abantu bahlukunyezwa ngomhawu, futhi ngokwabo bangabaza ngobuqotho bomlingani. Ngenxa yalokho, izimo zengqondo ziletha ukudumazeka kuphela, futhi ukusebenzisana okunjalo akuyona into ezwakalayo.
- Uma usekude, akucaci ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngokulandelayo. Ubonakala sengathi uhlangene, kodwa awukwazi ukuhlela ikusasa lakho. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, isikhathi sidlula, ubusha, ubuhle kanye nempilo kuyashiswa. Futhi, ubuhlobo obunjalo bulindele ikhefu kuphela.
- Okunye okungahambi kahle kobuhlobo obuseduze yizindleko ezikhulayo, kuzodingeka uchithe imali emgwaqweni, izipho ezidinga ukuthunyelwa kwenye idolobha, njll. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphandle kwakho, unesikhathi esiningi sokuhlangana nabangani bakho, okusho ukuthi ukuchitha imali kuyanda.
Zonke lezi zinhlayiyana ezingenhla nezinye eziningi zisenza siqiniseke ukuthi ubudlelwane obuseduze abukwazi ukuhlala isikhathi eside. Ngokushesha omunye wabalingani uzokhathala ukungaqiniseki noma ukungaqiniseki esikhathini esizayo, futhi unquma ukuchitha isikhathi ebuhlotsheni obuthembisayo noma uzoqala ukujabulela ukuphila ngokugcwele, kodwa yedwa.
Kulabo abakholelwa ekuhambeni okuhle
Ukuhlukana nomuntu othandekayo kuhlale kunzima, kodwa abaningi bayaqiniseka ukuthi lokhu ngeke kube buhlungu ukuhlala kuxhumana. Futhi labo abakhuluma ngokuhluleka komqondo, abanethemba lokuphendula bathi uma ubuhlobo obude buqiniswa kahle, khona-ke ngeke kudingeke uhlukane.
- Yini engalungile ngokungakwazi ukubona usuku ngalunye? Umuntu kufanele abe nesikhala sakhe futhi ahlale ngokwehlukana - indlela engcono kakhulu yokumgcina eqinile. Ngenxa yalokhu, izizathu eziningi zansuku zonke zokuxabana zilahlekile, uxhumana kuphela uma ufuna.
- Yebo, imihlangano ayidlangalaleni, kodwa phakathi kwabo akekho umuntu ozobhekisela ekhanda noma ekukhathaleni ngemuva komsebenzi. Ebudlelwaneni obude phakathi kwemihlangano engavamile, usuke unesifiso sokuqhuma futhi imizwelo ngokuphelele.
- Izazi zengqondo zithi ukuthi ebuhlotsheni obude kukhona ukungabi nokholo kumlingani. Ngakho-ke, indoda engalondekile neyinkimbinkimbi ngeke ibuhlungu ukuba nomona ngisho nokuthola njalo eceleni kwesigamu sakhe! Ngakho-ke le ndaba ayikho nakancane ngamakhilomitha phakathi kwabantu, kodwa ngezinga lenkululeko yabo yangaphakathi.
- Ingabe ukuphila okude kwenza ikusasa litheke? Ngakho ngubani ovimbela ukuxoxisana kusengaphambili ukuthi wonke umuntu ulindele kulezi zinsuku futhi kufanele ahlakulele kuphi? Uma wenza njalo ngesikhathi, ukungaqondi kahle okuningi kungagwenywa.
Njengoba ubona, kunezizathu eziningi zalolu hlobo lwezingxabano, futhi zizwakala zikholisa. Kuphela lapha kukhona i-nuance eyodwa - konke kungaxoxwa ngempela futhi konke kuvumelwane, futhi ukwehlukana ngeke kube yisithiyo, kodwa kuphela uma uzohlala ndawonye isikhathi eside. Esimweni esifanayo, uma ungenayo izinhlelo ezinjalo, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ifoni izozwakala "Ukukhathele ebuhlotsheni kude" noma "Angifuni ukukwenza noma yini."