Abaningi bayathandana, bahlangane, baphile ndawonye futhi baqiniseka ngokujulile ukuthi, kubonakala sengathi uthando lwabo olungapheli futhi alupheli, bonke abathandi kufanele balingane nabo. Kodwa kufika isikhathi lapho omunye wabalingani eqaphela ukuthi ngemuva kwesihenqo sothando kukhona uthando oluvamile, ukuthembela ngokomzwelo , okubangela isizathu sokukhanga kumlingani wakhe wangempela. Futhi-ke umbuzo uvela, kanjani ukubulala lolo thando olungathandeki kuwe? Phela, akukho mqondo wokuhlukunyezwa omunye ngamanye amaphupho aphuzi kanye nethemba elingeke ligcwaliseke.
Yini ebulala uthando?
Ngaphambi kokuqala ukubhujiswa okukhulu ekuphileni kwakhe kukho konke okubangela ukucindezeleka nokunye ukuthembela kumlingani, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yini ebangela lokhu kukhanga. Ngakho-ke, isizathu singase sibe ukuntuleka kwento ethile. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukunakekelwa noma ukhathalele lokhu ebuntwaneni futhi ngesikhathi osikhokhela ngokungazi lutho. Akukhipha eceleni futhi ukwaneliseka kuphela kwezidingo zabo zobulili kulezi zinsuku.
Kungenzeka yini ukubulala uthando? Ngokungangabazeki. Udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungayilawula kanjani imicabango yakho, akwenza umqondo nsuku zonke ukuzidla ngokuzimela ngokuzenzekelayo okungenakho "uthando" lomuntu onjalo nomuntu ongeke ujabule. Funda ukuba umuntu onamandla . Ungaba umuntu ojabulayo kuphela ngenxa yakho.
Uthando alukwazi ukubulawa?
- Iphuzu lokuqala elizokusiza ukuthi usondelane nomgomo wakho - ukuqeda imizwa, kuzoba okulandelayo: zama ukuhlola isimo sakho sengqondo kumngane wakho. Ungathola ukuthi akukho okunye okunye, ngaphandle kokuzwelana, intshiseko noma izinto zokuzilibazisa ongazitholi. Futhi mhlawumbe kwakunguwe okwamanje sonke esithatha umuzwa ophezulu. Hlola imbangela eyinhloko yesifiso sakho somzimba somngane wakho.
- Ukuziqhenya kubulala uthando, okusho ukuthi udinga ukuzihlonipha ngokwakho, ukubaluleka impilo yakho. Akusizi ngalutho ukubulawa ngoba lo muntu ngeke abe ngaphezulu ekuphileni kwakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi kunamathele kumuntu ongakuvumeli ukuthi uphinde uphinde ujabule futhi ubuke impilo yakho ngendlela enengqondo, enomgomo.
- Ukuthula kubulala uthando - noma ngabe umlingani wakho uzama ukukubuyisela nganoma iyiphi indlela. Khumbula ukuthi konke okushoyo kungakuvukela, ngakho-ke, landela kokubili imicabango yakho nalokho okushoyo. Kungcono ukumisa ukuxhumana naye kuze kube yilapho imizwa yakho ipholile. Isibonelo, faka indaba yakho yothando emaphepha. Zama ukuchaza zonke izinhlungu, izinkinga ozibonele phakathi nesikhathi sonke sobuhlobo. Gcwalisa indaba ngombhalo othi "Kwakukhona futhi wadlula." Bhubhisa ishidi.
- Ukuphila kubulala uthando - hamba phambili ekuhleleni isidleke sakho. Ungakhathazeki yilokho ozizwayo ngomuntu, kodwa yini okusha namuhla ukuze uziphekele ekudleni. Ekugcineni, hlambulula indlu yakho yezinkumbulo ezidlule, uhlanza zonke izingxube ezifothulile.
- Qala usuku ngalunye ngokumomotheka. Phonsa imicabango emibi. Ungavumeli ukuba bagxume. Lala phansi ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ekuqaleni kokuhlukana kobudlelwane, uphuze ngaphambi kokulala ngesikhathi sokulala kusukela emthonjeni we-motherwort ne-valerian. Lokhu kuzosiza ukuphumula ngokuziphatha.
- Isikhathi sibula uthando - ukuhlupheka ngeke kuhlale kuze kube phakade. Ngokuvamile uzikhumbuze ngakho. Ngokushesha uzoshiya ngekhanda
ngokuzithuthukisa ngokwakho , kungenzeka ukuthi imizwa endala iyopholisa. Isikhathi esiningi, sinikeze ekufundeni. Gwema ukusebenza ngendaba yothando. Amanxeba angqondo aphulukisa izincwadi-ukulandelwa kwemvelo kwabanye abantu. Isakhiwo sabo kufanele sitshele ngamasu okuthola impumelelo, amandla omoya. - Nsuku zonke uthola ngisho nesenzakalo esincane kakhulu senjabulo. Zithokoze nge-update ku-wardrobe noma i-dessert enhle. Sebenzisa amafutha anamakha esikhundleni samafutha. Bazokwazi ukukuqeda phansi.
Khumbula ukuthi konke okudlula kanye nothando olungathandabuzwayo kungekudala noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzosuka empilweni yakho, ukunikeza imizwa yangempela.