Indlela yokutshela umyeni wami ngokukhulelwa - isimangalo

Ukulinda umntwana yisikhathi esithakazelisayo kakhulu ekuphileni komfazi. Lapho ezwa ngakho, imizwa iyamkhathaza futhi, eqinisweni, ufuna ukuxoxa nabo nobaba osasa maduzane . Ngakho-ke, ake sikhulume ngendlela yokukwazisa umyeni wakho ngokukhulelwa ukuze kube isimanga.

Imibono enesithakazelo kubalandeli bokuqala

Akubona bonke abantu abakwaziyo ukubona leso sikhathi, ngakho-ke akufanele ubenamahloni ngokushesha ngalezi zindaba, ikakhulukazi ngefoni noma nge-imeyili. Cabanga ngendlela engcono kakhulu ukumtshengisa ngezindaba mayelana nokukhulelwa, ukuze aqaphele izinguquko ezingenakuguquka eziza emkhayeni womndeni:

1. Ungabhala nge-lipstick esibukweni endaweni yokugezela ngaphambi kokuba umthandi wakho ahlambe, umbhalo othile othakazelisayo onjengokuthi "Ngekusasa likaPapa" noma "Silindele iSorkork!".
2. Uma ucabanga ukuthi kuyathakazelisa kanjani ukutshela umyeni wakho mayelana nokukhulelwa, ungalahli umqondo onjalo ongahambisani nawo njengoba uyala i-T-shirt enesithombe sokuhlolwa ngemivimbo emibili nesignesha "Ukuqagela ukuthini?" Noma ukubhala okuthinta inhliziyo ukuthi uzoba ngubaba ngokushesha.
3. Hlela isidlo sokuthandana ngesitayela se-classic: ngamakhandlela, ukudla okumnandi, umculo ophumuzayo, ekugcineni lapho ubaba ozayo azothola khona incwadi noma i-telegram ngezindaba ezimangalisayo. Njengokuzikhethela, uma ungazi ukuthi ungatshela kanjani umyeni wakho mayelana nokukhulelwa, ungenza isimanga - kusihlwa, izihlobo eziseduze nabangane bafihle endlini, ngubani ozoshayela umlingani oshayisana naye ngokuzithoba. Ukuze wenze lokhu, indlu ihlotshiswe ngendawo efanele: izithombe zezingane, ama-storks, amaqabunga eklabishi, izinto zezingane, njll. Kodwa lolu khetho lufanelekile kulabo abangesabi ukufihla ukukhulelwa ekuqaleni kwesikhathi.
4. Uma unesithakazelo kumbuzo wokuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umyeni wakho ngokukhulelwa kwakho, uthenge ibhokisi elihle, ulihlobe ngesitayela sesipho bese ubeka uvivinyo lapho.
5. Abasekeli bezixazululo ezingavamile ngokuqinisekile bayoba namagama amahlaya afana nokuthi "Ngiyabonga, ngiyahalalisela, nginayo imichilo emibili - manje ngingumphathi wesigceme" noma "Awucabangi ukuthi sisanda kuvakashelwa ngu-stork?".
6. Enye indlela enhle yokuthandana nomyeni wakho mayelana nokukhulelwa ukubhala esiswini sakho ngepeni elizizwayo "Bheka umuntu uhlala" noma "Ngikhulelwe!" Futhi umeme umngane wami othandekayo ukuba abukeke.
7. Ubaba ozayo mhlawumbe uyaziqonda konke, uma umnika amakhokheji ahlelwe kahle, i-pacifier noma ibhodlela.
8. Inketho enhle yokuveza ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa kumyeni wakhe izoyifihla ebhokisini ngaphakathi kwekhekhe elimnandi, ukufaka ngephutha ephaketheni lamabhulu noma amahhashi noma uthumele imivimbo emibi encwadini eneposi.