Ukhohlakala ngumkhiqizo womona, ngenxa yalokho, ulwazi oluningi olubi luthunyelwa kuwe, ukubhubhisa i-aura nokuxosha amandla kuwe. Inkohlakalo ihluke kakhulu - ekuwehleni kwezimali, ukwehla kokudala, isehlukaniso, kodwa okuvame kakhulu futhi, okushoyo, kuyingozi ekufeni noma enesizungu. Phela, impilo enhle nobuhlobo obuphumelelayo ngokuvamile bangela ukuba abanye babe nomona.
Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isiphambeko esibi kangakanani, uma wazi ukuthi uyayibona yini futhi uyayibona ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngemva kokuzama, ungagwema imiphumela eyingozi noma eyingozi.
Uzungu
Ake siqale nendlela yokuqaphela ukubhujiswa noma iso elibi ngesizungu. Isibonakaliso sokuqala yiqiniso ukuthi ukungabi nobuhlobo obude nobulili obuhlukile esikhathini esithile. Kulesi simo, ufisa ukuthanda nomndeni, futhi amadoda angamahloni kuwe, noma isikhathi eside angahlali empilweni. Futhi, ngisho nangemva kokusondelana, bazama ukuphuma endlini yakho ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Kunezinye izibonakaliso eziningi, ukuthi ungabona kanjani ukuphulukiswa kwesizungu. Nazi okuyinhloko:
- wena uphupha umshado nezingane, kodwa uzwa ukuthi amaphupho akho ngeke agcwaliseke;
- uzizwa nokuba khona kokuthile noma omunye umuntu endlini yakho, ikakhulukazi ekamelweni lokulala; ngaphezu kwalokho, zonke izivakashi zakho zisho okufanayo;
- izilwane zikugwema;
- amadoda afuna ukuba abangane nawe, abazinandaba nobuhlobo obuseduze;
- unezinkinga zobusuku, lapho uthola khona khona endaweni engafani.
Inkohlakalo yokufa
Ukulimaza ekufeni kungumonakalo omkhulu kakhulu, lapho umuntu onomona efuna ukubhujiswa okuphelele nokunyamalala ngokuphelele ebusweni bomhlaba. Kodwa uqaphele, futhi wazi izibonakaliso ukuthi ungabona kanjani umonakalo wokufa, ungenza amalungiselelo okufika ngesikhathi.
Izimpawu zokukhwabanisa:
- uvame ukugula, nodokotela benze ukuxilongwa okungaqondakali;
- ngemuva kokwelashwa, une isifo esisha, emva kwesinye;
- awuthandi ukucabanga kwakho esibukweni;
- Ukukhathazeka okubi kuyakuhlupha;
- Uma unomlingani ohlala njalo noma umyeni, ushintsha kakhulu isimo sakho sengqondo;
- izilwane, zikubona, zibalekela, zixosha;
- wena nje awukwazi ukuthola isiphambano sakho, noma uhlushwa yisifiso sokukukhumula, sekube nzima kakhulu;
- unemiqondo ejulile, uhlushwa yiziqhwaga;
- noma yimuphi umsebenzi ohlulekayo;
- emngceleni unayo ngezizathu ezingenakucaca, kunezinaliti, izikhonkwane, izipikili, izintambo ngezimpawu;
- uzizwa iphunga elimnandi lemvelaphi engaqondakali.
Futhi iphuzu elilodwa elibaluleke kakhulu: udinga ukuba uqaphe futhi kubathandekayo bakho. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungabona kanjani ukuthi kukhona umonakalo komunye umuntu. Akusilo lutho abakushoyo ukuthi kusukela ohlangothini luyabonakala nakakhulu.
Izimpawu:
- Ukubukeka okubukhali kwenani elikhulu lamabala okushisa;
- izinguquko zesisindo - ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngokuzumayo noma ukuzuza kwesisindo;
- ukubekezelelana kwamasonto, ukugcoba ngenkathi ufunda umkhuleko;
- impendulo enganele ngokwamagama abantu abavamile.