Ezingqondweni, kunezindlela eziningi zokuphatha abantu. Angabasiza kuphela labo abafuna ukuwasebenzisa ukuze bafeze imigomo yabo, kodwa futhi bonke abanye besigaba, baphoqelekile ukuba bazivikele ethonyeni labanye. Lesi sihloko sizokutshela ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuxhaphaza.
Indlela yokuphatha abantu ngamazwi nezenzo?
Nazi izindlela ezivame kakhulu:
- Indlela ehlobene nokunakekelwa nothando. Into esemqoka ukukwenza umuntu abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyomsebenzi , futhi engazi lutho. Isibonelo, umfazi ufuna ukuthola okuthile kumyeni wakhe futhi uyilungiselele kusengaphambili ingxoxo, ukuhlangana ngokumomotheka, ukuthatha ukugeza okufudumele nokwenza ukuphumula okuphumuzayo. Ngemuva kokuthakazelisa, umyeni akakwazi ukumenqaba.
- Indlela ehambisana nokuphindaphinda, okuyaziwa ukuthi ungumama wokufunda. Le ndlela yokuxhaphaza iyona eyinhloko ebanjini labakhangisi. "Ngempela, ufanelwe!" - ukukhangisa kanye nabesifazane besenziwa, bechitha imali eningi ekuthengeni kwezimpahla.
- Ikhono lokuxhaphaza abantu lihlanganisa indlela ehambisana nesilingo. Ngumuphi umlutha wotshwala oyophikisana ngaphambi kwengubo egcwele noma othandekayo besifazane ngaphambi kwesinye isiketi? Zonke izinhlobo zezenzo nezaphulelo ezitolo, ukukhamuluka okungukuthi namuhla ungaba nesikhathi sokuthenga izinto ngezindleko, uphishekele umgomo wokuthengisa lo mkhiqizo.
- Labo abanesithakazelo sokufunda indlela yokuxhaphaza abantu kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, kubalulekile ukwamukela indlela enjalo ehambisana nokugxekwa komphakathi, okuyinto evamile kakhulu ngesikhathi se-USSR, lapho abantu bebizelwa iphepheni futhi bebikwa obala nganoma yikuphi iphutha.
- Labo ababuza ukuphatha kahle abantu, ungasebenzisa indlela yokufumbathisa. Njengoba wazi, ukulwa nokukhwabanisa kuqhutshwa kuwo wonke amahlangothi, kodwa kuze kuphele ukuqedwa, kukhona namanje abazimisele ukukhokha nokunikeza izinsizakalo.
- Indlela ye-psychology eguquguqukayo, eyenza abantu bathole ukusabela okulungile. Ngokwesibonelo, umfazi ufuna ukuchitha ngempelasonto nomthandekayo wakhe, futhi uzohamba ukudoba njengenhlanhla. Khona-ke umtshela okuthile okufana nalokhu: "Ngiyajabula ukuba nethuba lokuphumula komunye nomunye futhi kulobubusuku ngizohamba nabangani bami ku-nightclub." Umyeni uyashaqeka, akafuni ukuvumela umkakhe ukuba ahambe yedwa futhi ahlale ekhaya.
Yiqiniso, lezi akuzona zonke izindlela ezikhona, zikhona ezinye. Ukuhlukumeza okuphumelelayo kuncike kakhulu ekutheni umuntu wazi kanjani omunye, imikhuba yakhe, ubuthakathaka, njll. Kodwa-ke, ukusebenzisa ukuxhaphaza, akudingekile ukuchitha ukuziphatha kombuzo, ngoba kusasa othile uzokusebenzisa le nqubo kuwe.