Ingane ikhala. Le nhlekelele ingase ivele ngokushesha noma kamuva empilweni yomndeni ngamunye. Yiqiniso, akujabuli ngalokhu. Ikakhulukazi uma esinye sezihlobo singalunywa, kodwa umakhelwane noma ingane evela enkulisa. Kunezizathu eziningana zalesi simo. Kodwa zonke zixazululwe ngokuphelele. Into eyinhloko ukuqonda inzalo yakho futhi ube nokubekezela okwanele ukumvimbela emsebenzini onjalo ongajabulisayo.
Kungani ingane iyaluma?
Uma uqala ukubona ukuthi umntwana wakho waqala ukugxila amazinyo enyameni yomunye umuntu, hlola isimo esenzeka ngaso. Kuncike eminyakeni yobudala yengane, izizathu zingahluka. Futhi ngokufanele, izindlela zokulwa nokuluma kufanele futhi zihluke. Sizohlaziya ngamunye wabo ngokwehlukana:
- Uma ingane ineminyaka engu-5-7 ubudala, isizathu esiyinhloko ekulumeni kwayo akusizi kahle emlonyeni noma ebuhlungu obuhambisana ne-teething. Izisulu zakhe eziyinhloko kuleli cala ziyisihlobo esilandelayo. Ngokuvamile omama balezi zingane bakhononda ukuthi ingane ishaya isifuba. Yini okufanele uyenze kulokhu? Kunezinketho eziningana: ukuthenga izibhamu eziplastiki ezikhethekile ezingeke ziphazamise ukudla nokuvikela isifuba ukukhala, smear the nipples ngeendlela ezikhethekile zokudla okuzokwenza ngcono ingane ukuhlupheka. Kodwa ngokucabangela iminyaka yengane, ngezinye izikhathi ungase ukhuthazele, ngoba ukulimala okuhlobene ne-teething kuyinto engenakugwemeka.
- Izinyanga ezingu-8-14 yisikhathi lapho umntwana ehlabelela ngenjabulo eqinile. Imizwelo igcwala umntwana, futhi ukuze abhekane nayo, ubeka wonke amandla ku-bite. Ukuze ususe lo mkhuba, ungasebenzisa ukuphazanyiswa kwengane, "cha" kanzima noma ngosizo lwezinye izihlobo "ukucasuka" futhi ubonise ukuthi kubuhlungu futhi awukwazi ukukwenza.
- Lapho uneminyaka engu-15-36 izinyanga abazali bebhekene nenkinga lapho ingane ihlaya enkulisa. Lokhu kuziphatha kubangelwa isifiso sokulawula bonke abanye nokuwalawula. Futhi ingane ngokwayo iyabamba futhi igwebe kuphela nabantu abangabazi. Cishe ayithinti izihlobo zakhe. Ukuqeda ukukhala kule minyaka kungachaza ingane yakhe ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo akumukeleki. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, udinga ukufundisa ingane ukuba ikhulume ngamazwi, uma kukhona okungahambisani naye. Isibonelo, njengokuthi: "Ngithukuthele", "Angifuni", "Angijabuli," njll.
- Uma umntwana ehlaba futhi elwa ngemva kweminyaka emithathu, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uyesaba noma uzizwa engenasici. Isibonelo, uma elwa nezingane ezincane ezimbili zizwa zibuthakathaka, khona-ke ingane enjalo ikhala ezinye izingane ngezinhloso zokuzivikela. Ngisho noma ukulunywa kwasusa omunye umntwana, udinga ukukhombisa ingane yakho kudokotela. Kungenzeka ukuthi ingane inenkinga yokuzithiba noma ukuzwakalisa ukuzwakalisa, okuyinto engathwala isimo sezinzwa.
Kuthiwani uma ingane ikhale?
Futhi kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ingane ihlaba umama wayo noma yena ngokwakhe esimweni sokuhlukunyezwa. Kungabangelwa ukuthi ingane ayitholanga eyifunayo, ayikwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwabantu abadala noma isesimweni esithakazelisayo. Lapho uneminyaka emithathu ubudala, ochwepheshe kuphela ezengqondo nokuzifundisa bangaphendula umbuzo wokuthi ungamlonda kanjani ingane. Ezinganeni ezincane, ukulunywa kuyinto evamile. Futhi ungayilahla ngezindlela eziningana:
- utshele ingane ngokuqinile ukuthi awukwazi ukuluma, futhi kwenzeka futhi, yiza nomntwana ukuze ulunywe futhi uhlasele phezu kwendawo lapho umonakalo owenziwe khona.
- khumbula ukuthi ukunciphisa ukuhlukunyezwa kunconywa yimidlalo ngesihlabathi, amanzi kanye nobumba. Futhi, njalo ngangokunokwenzeka, udinga ukunika ingane yakho ukudweba ngamapensela, amapende kanye namakhrayoni;
- phakathi kwamathoyizi wengane kumele kube yilapho engumklami kanye namacube;
- unikeza ingane kaningi ukugaya ukudla okuqinile: ama-apula, izaqathe, ukhukhamba, ukomisa, njll;
- ungalokothi ucacise ubuhlobo nengane, ikakhulukazi ngokukhala kanye nezinkuni, tk. lokhu kungaholela ekuhlaselweni kwakhe;
- ubheke umbuso wosuku lomntwana, ukushintsha phakathi kokulala, umsebenzi, ukudla nokuhamba emoyeni omusha.
Khumbula ukuthi ingane ikhophi ukuziphatha kwakho ngisho nesibonakaliso sakho sobuso. Mnikeze ngezimo ezihle zokuthuthukiswa okuhambelanayo futhi umungeze nge caress nokunakekelwa. Khona-ke izinkinga zokukhala ngeke zikuthinte.