Sonke kusukela ekuthandweni kwamathandabuzi ebuntwaneni, iningi lalo luthando ludluliselwa kubantu abadala, ngoba bakholwa yiloyisimangaliso, ngenxa yokuthi okuhle kuzuza njalo. Kodwa njengoba ukhula, izingane nazo zinemizwa eminingi: ukwesaba, isizungu, ukudabuka, ukucasuka. Kwenzeka ukuthi isimo sokwehlela kwabo akuqondakali ngabazali noma izingane ngokwabo. Kulokhu, izazi zengqondo zincoma ukuthi zizame enye yezindlela zokwelashwa kwezobuciko - ukwelapha inganekwane. Enye yezinzuzo zalokhu kuthonya kwengqondo yengane ukuthi umama angasiza ingane ngokuzimela, kanye nokwelapha inganekwane ekuxazululeni izinkinga zezingane kungasetshenziswa ngokoqobo kusukela ekuzalweni.
Funda ukukhuluma
Izingane ezinezinkinga zengqondo zingaba nezinkinga ezibalulekile zenkulumo ngenxa yokungabi nalutho, ukucabanga, inkumbulo. Ochwepheshe abaningi bakhuluma ngokusetshenziswa okuphumelelayo kwe-therapy tale kanye nokukhulumisana kwenkulumo, ngoba ukukhuluma kwenkulumo kuncike ezintweni eziningi. Ukusiza ingane ukuba ibe ngokomzwelo, ekwazi ukuzizwa nokunye, uzofinyeza ngokusheshisa imigomo yokufunda imisindo. Ingane izokushesha ukucabanga futhi kuphumelela kakhulu ukufunda ulwazi olufundiswayo.
Lahla izinkinga
Noma kunjalo, umsebenzi oyinhloko wezokwelapha ingane ukulungisa isimo sengqondo nengqondo yengane, ukuziphatha kwakhe, ukuqeda ukwesaba nama-phobias. Akusikho ngaphandle kokuthi kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo abantu basebenzisa lezi zindaba ukuze badlulise isipiliyoni esiqoqiwe, ngakho izingane ziyaqonda futhi ziqonde into esemqoka kakhulu, yingakho ukusetshenziswa kwezindlela zokwelapha inganekwane kubaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni ingane.
Sakha indaba yezinganekwane
Esigabeni sokuqala, abazali bangadinga usizo lochwepheshe, uzosiza ekudaleni indaba ngokwayo - isisekelo sokwelapha inganekwane. Ukuza ukubhala, kubalulekile ukulandela umyalelo othize:
- khetha umlingisi oyinhloko - kufanele kube njengento efanayo nengane yakho: uhlamvu, imicabango, izenzo;
- chaza indlela yokuphila komlingiswa ukuze isidalwa esincane siqonde ukuthi sinokufana okuningi;
- tshela ngenkinga yeqhawe noma isimo esikwethusa ingane yakho;
- futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - bonisa izitolo ezimbalwa ezivela esimweni esinzima, ukhethe okulungile, futhi, kubalulekile, uchaze iqhawe eliye lasiza ukuxazulula le nkinga;
- ekuphetheni, umlingisi kumele aqonde ukuthi wenze okungalungile, futhi yikuphi ukuziphatha okungashintsha konke ukuze kube ngcono.
Ukusebenzisa ukwelashwa kwama-fairytale ekusebenzisaneni nezingane, ungaphinda uhlanganise nezingane ekudaleni indaba. Vumela ingane ngokwayo iphakamise izindlela eziningana zokuxazulula inkinga yeqhawe futhi ikusize ukhethe okulungile. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuba uqonde kangcono ukuthi yini ephazamisa ukuhlukumeza kwakho, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukulungisa isimo sayo, ukuqeda ukwesaba, ama-phobias, ukucasuka, futhi lokhu akuyona umgomo oyinhloko wokwelapha inganekwane? Ngesikhathi sokulungiselela, abazali bangabhekana nobunzima bokubhala indaba, ngakho kubaluleke kakhulu esigabeni sokuqala ukufunda izincwadi ezikhethekile, noma ukucela usizo kumuntu wezokwelapha ozophinde anikeze izibonelo zezinganekwane ze-therapy tale.
Isibonelo sezinganekwane
Kwesinye isikhathi kwakune-Vasya encane encane. Wayenomama owayemthanda kakhulu, futhi naye wamthanda. I-kitten yayijabule kakhulu, idlala usuku lonke, futhi kusihlwa yatshela umama ukuthi ngeke alale. Ngakho wagijima wagijima ubusuku bonke, kwathi ekuseni wakhathala futhi walala. Futhi ntambama umngane wakhe umngane wayenosuku lokuzalwa, lapho bonke abanye abangane bamenywa khona. Kodwa inkinobho Vasya ayikwazanga ukuya lapho, ngoba wayelele. Futhi lapho ngiphaphama kusihlwa, ngathukuthele kakhulu. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, uye wanquma ukulalela njalo unina futhi alele embhedeni.
Izinzuzo zezinganekwane
Amathuba kule ndlela yokwelashwa kwezobuciko iningi: ngosizo lwayo ungasiza nje kuphela ingane, kodwa futhi nomuntu omdala. Ukufingqa, singasho ukuthi ngaphezu kokuhlanganyela isipiliyoni, incazelo yokuphila, ukuqonda "okuhle nokubi,
Ngingathanda ukuphawula ukuthi ngaphambi kokuthi uqale "ukwelashwa" ngendaba yezinganekwane, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ngabe izwe lakho elincane eliyingqayizivele lihlukile yini eqinisweni. Qiniseka ukucabangela izici zomuntu ngamunye. Ukusebenzisa ukwelashwa kwama-fairytale ekuthuthukiseni izingane zabo, abazali bafaka isandla esimweni sakhe esizayo esijabulisayo nesempilo. Le nqubo izosiza ingane yakho ukuba izwe ukuqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ekukhuleni, futhi uthando lwakho nokunakekelwa kuzokwenza izimangaliso zangempela!