Ukuze izivakashi ezimenywe zingabheki ukuzalwa ngosuku lokuzalwa, kunemiqhudelwano eminingi ehlekisayo futhi ehlekisayo ngosizo lweholidi ezoba mnandi futhi libaleke isikhathi eside. Inhlangano ehlelekile, ehlelwe ngaphambili, imincintiswano engenangqondo, izosiza ukuqoqa inkampani, ngisho noma abantu abancane abaziwa omunye komunye bemenywe ngosuku lokuzalwa kwabo, izenzakalo zokuzijabulisa ezihlangene zizokwazi ukuzihlanganisa futhi zenze ukukhulumisana kwabo kube okungakahleleki futhi kuphumelele.
Kukhona imincintiswano eminingi enhle kakhulu ekwazi ukuxoxa izingxoxo zokuphuza, ukuguqula umkhosi wokuzalwa ngosuku olulodwa olungenakulibaleka okuzoletha injabulo nokujabula kubo bonke abakhona. Kubaluleke kakhulu, ukukhetha imincintiswano yokusebenzisa kwabo eholidini, ukugwema izikhathi ezihlaselayo, ezinonya ezihloswe ngazo izivakashi ezizimele noma ezifaka izinto ezingamjabulisi kubo.
Ezinye izibonelo zenhlangano yemincintiswano
Uma usuku lokuzalwa lugubha ekhaya, khona-ke umncintiswano omnandi kuwo, ohlelwe ngabantu abadala, ungaba okulandelayo:
"I-Milkmaid"
Lo mncintiswano uhleleke kangcono uma amalungu ayo ephuzile kancane, lokhu kuzoba yisihluthulelo sempumelelo. Phakathi kwemilenze yesigodi esiphendukile, udinga ukulungisa iglavu ye-raber, ngaphambilini igcwele amanzi. Izimpande eminwe yakhe yizimbobo ezincane, abahlanganyeli bamenywa ukuba "ubisi inkomo," lowo onayo "inkomo" uzoba "penny" ngokushesha.
"Thatha isikhwama"
Kulo mncintiswano, abadlali ababili namathimba amabili bangamenywa. Umjikelezo oveziwe uhlanganisa ababambiqhaza, abanesandla sabo sokunene siboshelwe emzimbeni, futhi ijaji lifakwa ekhanda. Umsebenzi ukuphuca ikhanda elikhanda lesitha, ngenkathi lingavumeli ukuthi livele lisuka kulo. Uma ithimba lidlala, bese kukhishwa isicocu ngasinye sekhanda, kunikezwa iphuzu.
Imincintiswano engcono kakhulu yosuku lokuzalwa yilabo abaphatha kahle amahlaya, bafaka isandla kumnandi wonke, bavuselele umkhosi futhi bakwenze kube lula. Ngokucophelela kufanele ucabange futhi uhlele imincintiswano emnandi ngosuku lokuzalwa lwezingane. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane ngayinye ikwazi ukuhlanganyela kuzo ukuze kungabikho muntu okhubazekile ngaphandle kokuba abe umqobi. Kuyadingeka kusengaphambili ukulungisa ingane ngayinye isipho esincane, sithole njengomklomelo wokubamba iqhaza emncintiswaneni, hhayi nje ukunqoba.
Ungakhethi imincintiswano yabantwana, okuyinto ezoba nzima iminyaka yabo, ngosuku lokuzalwa kufanele lithandeke, kunokuba libhekane nokuhlukunyezwa. Ngokuvamile, ngenhlangano yeholide yamazingane, mema abahleli abanokuhlangenwe nakho abangakwazi ukunakekela ukuzijabulisa kwezingane, imiqhudelwano emihle kanye nemibuzo eyokwenza isisekelo semikhosi yabantwana.
Imincintiswano yezingane ingahlukaniswa ibe yamaselula, imidlalo, kanye nemincintiswano yobuhlakani ihlelwe. Kunconywa ukubandakanya zonke izingane ezimenywe ephathini ngesikhathi esifanayo emincintiswaneni yezingane. Imincintiswano enjalo ingaba okulandelayo:
"Qagela umbala"
Kumculo, umethuli uyakhamuluka egameni lombala omele uthintwe futhi acabange, isibonelo, kuze kube ngu-10. Izingane ziqala ukubheka izinto zombala ofanelekayo, zibamba izingubo. Abahlanganyeli abangatholi into ngesikhathi ngombala ocacisiwe, kancane kancane baphuma.
"Zhadina"
Umninindlu usakazela inqwaba yebhola eligcotshwe phansi, futhi abahlanganyeli kumele bafake izandla bese bamba amabhola amaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Umnqobi nguye "ohahayo" kakhulu.
Ukuze usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana lujabulise konke kubalulekile: kokubili izipho ezilinde isikhathi eside, amaswidi ozithandayo, nokuzijabulisa okuhlelekile, okuhle nokuhle.