Ukuletha iphakethe elincane ekhaya lakho lokubeletha, lapho ingcebo yakho igubha khona, kunzima ukukholelwa ukuthi eminyakeni engama-15-20 umfana omncane uzoba mkhulu kunomama wakhe, izwi lakhe lizophenduka libe yizinsiza, bese kubazukulu bakhe bengekho kude. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, kunzima ukumelana nokungathinti izindebe zakho ngezimbambo ezincane, imilenze ye-chubby kanye nesisu se-tender. Nazi izibonakaliso ezibonakalayo zomzimba ezifihlekile ngaphansi kwe-diaper, okwenza umama omncane abe namahloni. Yini engingayisho, ngisho noma izingane zedlula le ndawo ngokuhlolwa okuhleliwe ngandlela-thile ngokushelela futhi ngokushesha.
Futhi unjani imizwa yabomama, ebona ukulungiswa kokuqala kwabafana, okungenzeka kwenzeke kakade ngosuku lokuqala noma lwesibili lokuphila kwabo, ngisho nokulukhuni ukucabanga. Lapha, futhi kusimangaze, futhi kuhlazeka, ngisho nokuziqhenya kumuntu wakhe omncane.
Izimbangela zokumiswa
Njengoba sikhuluma ngabafana abancane, isizathu esiyinhloko, okuhlangenwe nakho okukhathazayo, sizohamba eceleni. Ukulungiswa kokuqala kwezingane kuyisihlobo sokuhlola. Umzimba uhlolisisa ukuthi ngabe konke kulungile yini ngawo. Ukwakhiwa kwasekuqaleni kwezinsana kuyinkqubo yemvelo yemvelo, okungakhathaliseki ubudala, ihlangene nabo bonke abantu besilisa besilisa. Amama njalo aqaphele lapho abafana beqala ukulungiswa, kepha ukulalela ngokukhethekile akudingekile. Eminyakeni emibili noma emithathu ubudala bafunda umzimba wabo, futhi i-penis inesithakazelo esikhulu. Isignali ye-alamu yikhuphuka elikhudlwana ekukhenizeni esikhathini esingaphezulu komdala. Lokhu kungaholela ekwenzeni umzimba ngokweqile, ukudla okungafanele, ukutheleleka kwegciwane lesandulela ngculazi, isifo sikashukela nezinye izifo. Uma kukhona izinsolo, xhumana nomfana nodokotela.
Umuntu ozayo
Lapho ingane ifinyelela eminyakeni eyishumi, ingena esigabeni sokukhulelwa. Ngakho-ke, ukulungiswa kwentsha kuwubufakazi obuqondile bokuthakazelisa kobulili obuhlukile. Kodwa abazali abasuka kumbuthano wabantu abakwazi lokhu, cishe kungenzeka, bazobe bengavunyelwe, ngoba ukususwa kwentsha kwenzeka ngokungahambisani nezinkimbinkimbi, inkinga yobudala kanye nezinye "izinto ezijabulisayo" zalesi sikhathi. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi abazali kufanele bazenze sengathi abasoli lutho. Ngalesi sikhathi kubalulekile ukujwayela le nsizwa ngemithetho yokuvimbela ukukhulelwa, ngoba ukucabanga okuqala ngabazukulu, okwakubonakala ngemuva kokuphuma esibhedlela, kungaba khona phambi kwakho futhi wayekufuna.