Amadoda awela kanjani othandweni?

I-algorithm yokuvela kwemizwa emadodeni nakwabesifazane ihlukile, engamangali. Kusukela ku-physiology kanye nesizinda se-hormonal, ukuphela ngemigomo kanye nezinto eziza kuqala ekuphileni - sihlukile. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi amadoda awela kanjani othandweni, ubulili obufanele kufanele buqaphele kancane emicabangweni yakhe kanye nemigomo.

Abesilisa bathandana kanjani ne-psychology?

Inqubo yokuthandana namadoda iqala ngentshisekelo futhi igxile kowesifazane. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi, okokuqala, kufanele anakekele lona wesifazane, kumele amthathe okuthile. Ngamafuphi, zonke izigaba zokuthandana namalungu obulili obunamandla zingahlukaniswa ngezigaba eziningana:

1. Inentshisekelo nokuhlola. Uthando ekuboneni kuqala, yiqiniso, kwenzeka, kodwa kubabesifazane kwenzeke kaningi futhi ngokusheshisa ngenxa yemimoya yabo. Amadoda aphezulu kakhulu kulokhu, okungukuthi, ekuqaleni uheha isikhalo sangaphandle nokuziphatha.
2. Ukuheha nokuqaphela. Ngokuvamile abesifazane abamahloni abaphenduli ukubukeka, ukumomotheka noma ukwelashwa komuntu futhi ngaleyo ndlela bavale futhi bavuselele indoda. Impendulo ibaluleke kakhulu. Uma indoda enomuntu othanda owesifazane ethandeka, uyomane eya kumuntu ozoba lula naye futhi elula.
3. Ukukholelwa kwangaphakathi. Izinyathelo zokuqala zalowo muntu ezimweni eziningi azikazanga ukuthi uyamthanda. Kumele aqiniseke ukuthi lo mzwa, hhayi nje ukudlala ngothando nokudlala. Ukuthembela ngemizwa yabo kuvela kumuntu onokuqonda ukuthi eduze kwalesi wesifazane, uyajabula futhi umkhonza njengesizathu sokuthatha isenzo.

Ngokwemvelo, ukuhlaziywa okunjalo kwemizwa yendoda kungenasisekelo futhi kujwayelekile, inqubo ngayinye yothando ithatha ngamunye. Kodwa-ke, umbuzo wabesifazane abathandana namadoda awunzima kakhulu. Ubuhle kule ndaba kubalulekile, kodwa namanje kudlala indima yesibili. Amadoda aqaphele (futhi lokhu kuyinto eyinhloko) ukulungiswa kahle, okuthakazelisayo, owesifazane, okhangayo futhi oziqinisekisayo. Ekubukeni kokuqala, ukukhulumisana, ngakho-ke owesifazane kufanele kube mnandi futhi kube lula. Izinkinga zokuxhumana ngokuvamile ziba ngamatshe aphula amagciwane emizwa.

Ukuqonda kanjani ukuthi umuntu uwile othandweni?

Izimpawu indoda ewile ngothando zingase zingabonakali kakhulu esigabeni sokuqala sobudlelwane. Uma umuntu, ngisho nalapho ekhuluma nomunye, ekuthola ngeso lengqondo, unesithakazelo kulokho owesifazane othandayo, olalelisayo, onamahloni okuncane lapho ekhuluma, ezama ukuphazamisa ngengozi futhi angalokothi alahlekelwe yinkampani, ngakho-ke singasho ngokuphepha ukuthi inqubo yokuthandana iyaqhubeka.