Kuze kube manje, amasiko namasiko omshado womlobokazi asuke ekhohliwe kancane kancane, ngokuya kunomkhawulo wesidlo esisemthethweni nabajwayelene nabazali babo, lapho lo mbhangqwana usakaza isinqumo sabo sokushada. Futhi ngaphambi kokuba umdlalo womlobokazi ungenye yamasiko acacile, futhi kwakungemva kokuba umdlalo ubonakale ukuthi ngabe lo mshado uzobanjelwa noma cha.
Wedding of the umakoti - amasiko
Ngaphambilini, indlela yokwenza umakoti awazi ngayo yonke into - isiko kuyinto evamile. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kwakuhilele umkhwenyana, izihlobo zakhe - umkhulukazi, umalume noma umzalwane omdala. Ngokuvamile ukulinganisa kwakungaphambi kombukiso womlobokazi, lapho umakoti enikelwa khona ukuhamba ekamelweni, ukukhombisa amathalenta akhe. Ngemuva kwalesi sigaba somkhwenyana nomkhwenyana, uma intombazane imthanda lo mfana, khona-ke ngesikhathi esifushane abakwa-matchmakers bafika endlini yomakoti. Ngendlela, ukuthi ungashada kanjani umakoti, umkhwenyana akakwazi ukutshela kuphela isihlobo esilandelayo, kodwa futhi abakwa-professional matchmakers. Bayilawula yonke umshado womlobokazi, balandela umkhosi wamasiko. Ngokwesiko lomakoti, yonke imihlangano yayithule, ishintsha izingubo kuphela futhi ibonise amathalenta. Emva kwalokho umakoti angenqaba umfana, ngokumnikezela i-garbuz (ithanga), kusukela emaceleni abadlali abalinganayo nabo bangenza "baqambe" kumakoti - bevale umnyango ngemuva, baqalekisa le ntombazana embusweni ongashadile. Uma umakoti engamthandi umakoti, wabe eseletha ingilazi yamanzi emlonyeni wakhe, alethwe izihlobo zomakoti. Uma umakoti ayeyithanda, khona-ke ingilazi yayiphuza. Esikhundleni samanzi, kwakungaba noju egumbini.
Kube nesibonakaliso sokuthi ukufana kwezimoto kwakungeke kwenzeke ngo-13, kanye nakwesithathu nangoLwesihlanu. Futhi izinombolo ezingcono kakhulu kulo mkhosi zazibhekwa njengezingu-7 no-9. Ukuthengwa kuvame ukuqala ngemva kokushona kwelanga, kwenziwa ukuze abantu ababi bangenakudinga noma ubani. Ngemuva kokuba abadlali bemidlalo behamba, bekuvame ukubopha zonke izinto ezibukhali endlini ukuze inhlanhla ingahambi futhi umshado ujabule.
Indlela yokushada kahle umakoti, imibono ye-matchmaking yanamuhla
Namuhla, umkhosi womshado womlobokazi ushintshile, ngakho-ke lesi script singaba yinoma yini. Ungavumela umakoti, njengoba kwakungokwesiko e-Ukraine, ngezingubo zezwe, ungacacisa isenzo sonke seqembu le-gothic, ngama-waswolves, ama-vampires nezinye izindaba ze-horror, noma ungadlala nabashadi bezimoto ezivela emoyeni we-mafia onamandla, lapha kanye nezigqoko eziqinile, nabalindi, imishini othomathikhi ngesikhathi esilungile, nomakoti okhangayo ngokumangalisayo. Ngokuvamile, konke kunqunywe umcabango wakho, into esemqoka ukubonisana nabazali bakho - akuwona wonke umuntu ozokhululeka nge-zombie noma isibhamu. Futhi-ke, ngenxa yezenzakalo ezinkulu ezinjalo kungcono ukubiza abangani bakho, bazokwenza isimo futhi uzokwenyuswa futhi uzijabulise ngokwabo.
Yini ongayisho, lapho enikeza umakoti? Ngokwesiko, konke kwaqala ngamagama abakwa-matchmakers "unomkhiqizo, sinomthengisi". Manje izinkulumo zokuvula zixhomeke esitayela lapho uzoqhuba khona ukufana. Ngomshado wendabuko wase-Ukraine, ukukhuluma ngezimpahla nomthengisi kuzokwenza, kodwa izinhloko zamaqembu ase-mafia zivezwe ngendlela ehlukile. Ngakho-ke, lo script kuzodinga ukucatshangwa kahle. Emakethe, umkhwenyana ngokuvamile unikeza umakoti isinkwa, lesi siko kuvame ukulandelwa namuhla. Futhi, umkhwenyana uphoqelekile ukuba alungiselele izimbali zomlobokazi nezipho ezincane kumama nobaba wakhe. Ngemuva kwenkulumo yomkhwenyana kanye nokubonakaliswa kwamathalenta omakoti, lo mdlalo wafinyelela ekuphethweni kwawo okunengqondo. Umkhwenyana nabalingani bakhe bahleka bahamba baya ekhaya. Ngemuva kokuba umakoti nezihlobo zakhe babuyele ekuvakasheni. Namuhla, umkhuba wokufanisa umdlalo uvame ukubambezeleka, njengoba iseluleko asiqapheli isikhathi sokudla ngesikhathi sokudlala. Emva kwesibusiso sabazali, umakoti uthola indandatho njengesibonakaliso sokubandakanya.