U-idyll womndeni onokuthula, umyeni onothando, izingane ezikhuthele - wonke umuntu uyakona, futhi uthi: "Awu, makube njalo! Ngifanele injabulo yami! ". Maye, umona ngokwawo awunjalo, ubonakala ngesifiso se "konke okuhle" kulabo abanobukhwele. Futhi ngolwazi lwesilulumagama esisebenzayo, umona ngesifiso kubizwa ngokuthi i-spoilage.
Futhi-ke ngesikhatsi esithile, konke, kusuka noma, noma kusuka kulokhu, kuqala ukuqubuka. Umyeni uba nobudlova nawe kanye nezingane, ungakhulumi ukungabi nandaba okuphelele emndenini nawe. Lapha ngezikhathi ezinjalo, bese siqala ukucabanga (imicabango enjalo ivame ukuhambela amakhanda ethu edlulisa), ukususa kanjani kumyeni ukukhunjulwa. Futhi njengoba ucabanga, khona-ke kukhona isizathu. Phela, i-aura yethu iyashesha kakhulu kunengqondo ethinta izinguquko.
Inkohlakalo yokuhlukanisa
Uma othile efuna ukubhubhisa umndeni wakho oyisibonelo, efisa ukuthatha umyeni wakho noma akukhiphile kumyeni wakho, athunyelwa kuwe ngenhlukaniso. Umonakalo onjalo njalo uqondiswa komunye wabashade, okuyinto ngenxa yalokho kuyoba "umlandu" wokuwa komndeni. Ake sibhale izibonakaliso eziyinhloko zokwehliswa komyeni:
- umyeni uyaba nandaba;
- Uvame ukuya endlini kanina, abahlala nabangane, emsebenzini;
- ukuziphatha kwakhe kuyashintsha: uqala ukudlala ngothando nomunye wesifazane wokuqala oza naye;
- ucabanga ukuthi uyisitha esabulala impilo yakhe;
- iba lula ukuphuza utshwala ngobuningi.
Ukuthumelela "isipho" ngendlela yokubhubhisa noma ubani ongakwazi, kufike kubantu bakho abaseduze kakhulu. Kungaba udade ongazange ashade, umphikisi, isoka lakho langaphambili, owatshengisa umyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo, izingane ezivela emshadweni wakho wokuqala, njll. Uma kungenangqondo ukuqonda indlela yokunquma ukuchithwa komyeni, kunzima kakhulu ukwazi isithunywa sakhe, futhi akudingekile ngempela.
Manje kubalulekile ukunakekelwa kokususwa kokukhunjulwa kumyeni wakhe.
Kuthunyelwe ekudleni
Indlela elula yokukhipha ukususwa kumyeni ngokungaziwa, ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe - ukukhuluma ngokudla. Amadoda avame ukuthambekela ekukholweni kobuciko kanye nokubhujiswa okuhlukahlukene, ngakho uma ubuhlobo bakho busuvele buhlakazwe ngomlingo , kufanele usebenze ngokuthula, uqiniseke ngamakhono akho.
Kungakapheli isonto, funda ukunyundela okulandelayo ekudleni komyeni wakhe:
"Kubhaliwe emibhalweni ngo-Adamu:
U-Adamu wanika u-Eva imbambo, futhi babenothando,
Futhi izingane zazalwa ngabo, futhi thina zivela ezinganeni zabo.
Ngibeka uthando luka-Evin
enhliziyweni yeNceku kaNkulunkulu (igama).
Ngithandaza, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), iNkosi yaseZulwini,
Theotokos, Umama wakhe:
Isibhamu, usiphuphuthekise, izinceku zikaNkulunkulu (amagama).
Yeka indlela ama-hops akha ngayo ezungeze izibonda,
Vumela amahlombe ethu ahlangane.
Futhi ngubani osilimazayo, osivimbela ukuba siphile,
Togo, iNkosi mayisuse.
Susa, Nkosi, konke okubi, konke
Nginomndeni wami, nomyeni wami.
Sithumelele eminyakeni yobudala,
Ukuthanda nokungakhohlwa ukuthi u-Eva wayemthanda kanjani u-Adamu,
Indlela u-Adamu amlandela ngayo kusukela epharadesi kuya emhlabeni.
Egameni likaYise neNdodana noMoya oNgcwele. Amen. "
Uma ubuhlobo bungaphuthuki, kuzodingeka uphendukele kuchwepheshe - uloyi noma uloyi.