Umqhele wokungathembeki uhlobo oluthile lwesiqalekiso, okuletha ukungezwani empilweni yomuntu siqu. Kuze kube manje, kunezindlela eziningana zokushintsha lesi simo. Uma umqhele wokuqhaqhazeka kuyinto karmic, okungukuthi, umuntu wathola lapho uzalwa, ngakho akufanele kususwe, ngoba lokhu kuyingxenye yesiphetho. Kusukela esiqalekisweni esenziwe ngosizo lomlingo omnyama , kubalulekile ukuqeda, njengoba kuletha ukukhathazeka okukhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona umqhele wokungathembeki noma cha, ungabheka umugqa womshado, uma ulahlekile, khona-ke inkinga ikhona. Ukuthi isiqalekiso somuntu siboniswa nokuzizwa unesizungu njalo, ukucindezeleka okukhulu, njll.
Ungasusa kanjani umqhele we-celibacy?
Kungcono ukufuna usizo ochwepheshe bezengqondo, kodwa kunezinqubo eziningana ongazenza ngazo. Nansi omunye wabo: thatha ikhandlela, ulikhanyise bese uthi:
"Ngiyakulahla izenzo zami ezingalungile, ngilahle imicabango yami emnyama nomona. Inhliziyo yami iphelile ukuhlupheka kusukela manje kuze kube yilapho ithanda ukukhanya. Futhi njengoba uthando luya ngokuya ludumo, kanjalo nesifiso sami semfihlakalo sigcwaliseka. Injabulo, ungene empilweni yami, uyikhanyise ngokukhanya kokuthandana. Kwangathi izwi lami lingagcwaliseka! "
Shiya lelikhandlela, futhi ngokushesha nje lapho selivutha kuze kube sekupheleni kwalo, tshela isipelisi ukususa ukuchithwa okubizwa ngokuthi umqhele wokuqothula:
"Hamba, usomile, hamba, uhambe, ubheke ubuhle. Ngiyaxosha emzimbeni into emnyama, ngibone isizungu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi singahlala kanjani. Njengejuba eliya ejuba, ligijimela, ngoba lingathandi ukuyeka, ngakho liyogijimela kimi, uthando aluzange luyeke noma kuphi - uthando lwangempela, uthando lwama-beckons, uthando luhle, uthando luhle. Crown of celibacy, ngikukhipha kuze kube phakade. Ngakho makube njalo! "
Khona-ke kunconywa ukuthi uqhube umkhosi ukuheha uthando empilweni yakho. Kubalulekile ukuyiqhuba ngenyanga edlulayo, okungcono kunazo zonke ngoMgqibelo. Yiya ekuhlanzeni futhi ubeke umqhele wezimbali, usho la mazwi:
"Umama Obhujiswa wangibamba, wambamba indandatho yokuzibandakanya, futhi waxosha uthando. Yebo amandla ami amnandi futhi zonke izinhlekelele ziyowina. Ngisusa umqhele we-celibacy, ngiqala ukubhukuda emfuleni. Washisa emlilweni, wangena emanzini, futhi uthando olukhulu lwazalwa emlotha. Izwi lami linamandla! "
Bese ubeka i-wreath ekhanda lakho, ushiye imizuzu embalwa, bese uyisusa, uthi:
"Kwangathi indawo yonke ingangisindisa kulo mqhele!"
Burn the wreath esigxotsheni,
Ngabe ungayiphatha kanjani enye umqhele wobunqunu?
Kungenzeka ukubamba lesi siko kuphela ngoJanuwari 19. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuthola amanzi angcwele emasontweni ayisikhombisa ahlukene. Ngaphambi kwelanga 19, uthele amanzi alungile ekhanda lakho bese uthi:
"Chur igazi lakho ngawe, igazi legazi lomunye umuntu. Inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), hlambulula. Amen. "
Thatha isiphambano bese usibambe eduze kobuso bakho, tshela isakhiwo futhi. Ukuze ususe umqhele wokungathembeki, qiniseka ukunikela ngemali esontweni bese ubeka ikhandlela ngokubonga abangcwele.