Ngezinye izikhathi umuzwa wokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle uyangena. Uqala ukuziphatha ngendlela ehlukile, izintandokazi zakho ziyashintsha futhi unqotshwa ukunxanela okungavamile komuntu. Kulesi simo, kufanelekile ukutadisha izibonakaliso zokuthi uzwakala kanjani. I-Privorot - lokhu kungenye yezinto ezonakalisayo kakhulu kumuntu wesimanga somnyama, futhi uyisuse ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, ukuqonda kanjani ukuthi indoda noma intombazane yayidutshulwa?
- Uma kungazelelwe umuntu oyedwa kuphela waba isikhungo sezwe, lokhu kuyisifo esiyingozi kakhulu.
- Indoda ethandekayo ayiboni noma ubani eduze kwakhe.
- Indoda ethandwa yiqiniso: ngaphandle kokuthanda uthando uzofa. Noma kunjalo, ukuxhumana nalo akusijabulisi, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuveza umuzwa wecala.
- Kukhona isifiso sokuba nesizungu, kodwa ngokumelene nentando yomuntu, udonseleka kumakhasimende, okuletha ukuhlupheka.
- Le ndoda ihlale ihlushwa ukukhathala futhi inokubukeka okuqondile: kungaba ukubalekela noma ukugcoba.
- Indoda eye yachithwa ayinayo amandla okwanele okuvuma ukuziphatha kwakhe okungavumelani.
- Umuntu ulahlekelwa inzalo kuyo yonke into eyamheha ngaphambili futhi yamjabulisa.
- Uma engekho umuntu obhekene naso, ukungabi nethemba nokucindezeleka kuyazwakala, kodwa phambi kwakhe akusizi ngcono.
- Ihlukana nokuzethemba, ukwesaba ukwehlukana kunamandla kunalokhu.
- Umuntu uba yisiphakamiso esikhulu, ukholelwa wonke amazwi alowo owenze.
- Indoda ihlushwa yiziqhwaga noma ukulala . Emaphupheni ngokuvamile kunezizathu ezithandayo.
- Lapho umuntu ezama ukumelana nalokhu, uyangenandaba futhi ufuna ukuzibulala.
- Ngokuvamile, ku-bewitching (ikhasimende) kukhona ukuhlukunyezwa, ngifuna ukubulala lo muntu futhi ngizikhulule.
Ngemva kokufunda lezi zibonakaliso zokuqonda ukuthi umuntu uthathwe kanjani, ungathola iziphetho ezinembile. Kodwa ukuze ususe lesi sizwe, kuzodingeka uphendukele kulabo abanomlingo omnyama.