Umama oqaphelayo

Umama wokuzikhethela ungenye yezindlela zokwelapha ukungasebenzi - ukuhluleka ukuba nezingane nokuhluleka ukuqhubeka nomusa wabo. Ukuze usize umama ohlala endaweni yokubeletha ezimweni zokungabikho kwesibeletho noma ukuguqulwa kwayo, nezifo ezingapheli zendlela yokubeletha yabesifazane, ngemizamo eminingi engaphumeleli yokukhulelwa.

Umama okhungathekile waba khona ngenxa ye-in vitro fertilization (IVF). Okuyinhloko yenkambiso ye-IVF ukuthola amaqanda amaqanda amancane emaqanda amaqanda ngokufaka umanyolo oqhubekayo we-spermatozoa yomyeni. Imibungu ekhulayo iyalinywa esikhulwini esikhethekile ku-incubator, ngaleyo ndlela imibungu idluliselwa ngqo esibelethweni somama wokubeletha. Umama obelethayo ukhulelwa futhi uthwala ingane efana nokukhulelwa okujwayelekile.

Uhlelo lokubeletha lomama

Kuze kube manje, uhlangothi lwezokwelapha lohlelo lokubeletha kwabazali luye lwaqhubeka kakhulu, futhi lwenziwa ezingeni eliphezulu kakhulu ngosizo lwezobuchwepheshe zakamuva zanamuhla. Ingxenye esemthethweni yaloluhlelo emazweni amaningi ayikaqondwanga ngokuqondile.

Umthetho wezomthetho wokuzala umama emhlabeni

Emazweni amaningi omama womhlaba wokuzikhethela awunqatshelwe. Ezindaweni zase-Austria, eJalimane, eNorway, eSweden, eFrance nakwamanye amazwe ase-US uthi ukwelashwa kwabantwana abangenalo ukubeletha ngosizo lokuzalwa komama kubhekwa ngokungemthetho. EBelgium, eGreece, e-Ireland naseFinland, ukwelashwa kokungabi nabantwana ngokusizwa komama wokubeletha akulawulwa umthetho, nakuba kusetshenziswa. Ezingxenyeni eziningi zaseMelika, eNingizimu Afrika, eRussia, e-Ukraine naseGeorgia, ukusetshenziswa komama ozithandayo kungavunyelwe kuphela kwezohwebo. Uma umama ozithandayo ezimisele ukusiza mahhala, lokhu akuphikisana nomthetho.

Omama abahlukumezayo

Umama ozinikela kufanele ahlangabezane nezimfuneko ezithile ukuze asebenzise izinsizakalo zakhe. Izidingo eziyisisekelo zabakhanti zilandelayo:

  1. Ubudala kusukela eminyakeni engu-18-35.
  2. Ukuba khona kwezingane eyodwa noma ngaphezulu.
  3. Impilo yengqondo nengqondo.
  4. Ukungabi nemikhuba emibi.
  5. Ukungabikho kwezigebengu ezedlule noma izinkolelo.

Ngokusho kohlelo lokubeletha kwabazali, ukuze kutholakale omama ababeletha emininingwaneni ye-Surrogate Motherhood Center kubalulekile ukuba bahlole lezi zivivinyo ezilandelayo:

Isikhungo sokubeletha kwabazali sinikela ikhasimende ithuba lokukhetha umama ovela emininingwaneni yesithombe, ecabangela izifiso zomuntu ngamunye.

Inkontileka yokubeletha ngomama

Inkontileka yomama wokuzalwa kufanele iphethwe ngokubhaliwe futhi iqinisekiswe ngumbhalisi. Ukuqedwa kwenkontileka yokuba ngumama wokubeletha kunikezwa, uma umama ozithandayo ephula ngokweqile imithetho yemodi yokubeletha ingane.

Izinkinga zokuzalwa komama ngokuvamile zihlotshaniswa nokungafundi ehlelwe yisivumelwano. Inkontileka esebenzayo kufanele ihlinzeke ngokuvikeleka okuphelele kubo bobabili abathintekayo, ngoba kunezimo lapho umama obelethayo, ngemuva kokubeletha ingane, enqaba ukuwunika abazali abaphilayo. E-Russian Federation, umama onesizukulwane unelungelo elingokomthetho lokwenza kanjalo, futhi kulokhu, abazali abaphilayo ababuyiselwa imali kanye nezindleko. Ukuze abazali abaphilayo babe nengane, umama obelethayo kufanele abhale ukwenqaba kwengane, futhi abazali kufanele babambelele kuye. E-Ukraine naseBelarus, abazali abaphilayo bayabhekwa njengabazali bomthetho wengane, futhi umama ongenamuntu akatholakali emibhalweni.

Kukhona nezinkinga zokubeletha komama ezihlobene nomngane womama onobubele babazali bezinto eziphilayo, kunamacala uma umama oneminyaka eyishumi nambili esongela ukubhema noma ukuphuza utshwala uma engayitholi imali efanele. Futhi kukhona ukwehluleka kwabazali bezinto eziphilayo kusukela emntwaneni ozelwe kanye nezinye izinto eziningi.

Isampula yesivumelwano sokubeletha kwabazali singabuzwa ku-notary, futhi ungenza isivumelwano, ucabange ngezidingo zomuntu ngamunye.

Esikhathini sethu, isidingo sokuba umama wokukhululwa siphezulu ngokwanele. Kusukela amanani aphansi kunazo zonke izinsizakalo zokubeletha ezinganeni zase-Ukraine naseRussia, abantu bezinye izizwe beza kithi, futhi bakhetha ngokuzithandela omama ababelethi ezindaweni zokubeletha izingane. Ngokusho kwedatha etholakala ezindaweni zokuzalwa komama, ukufunwa okukhulu kwabangaphandle kungokwemvelo, ukwakha okunamandla nokukhula okuphezulu, futhi abantu basekhaya bavame ukukhetha umama othanda ukufana nomunye wabazali bezinto eziphilayo.