Ochwepheshe emkhakheni wezokwelapha baye basungula ukuthi ukwesaba ukukhuluma ngomphakathi kungenye yezinto ezinamandla kakhulu futhi ezivamile. Abantu abesabi ukwesaba ukufa njengendawo yesehlakalo. Indlela yokunqoba nokuthi ungasusa yini ukwesaba kwendawo, sizokhuluma namhlanje ngokuningiliziwe.
I-Megalomania
Kunombono wokuthi abantu abamesabayo bendawo bangenalondekile futhi banesizotha esincane. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuyiphutha elikhulu. Isimo, ake sithi nje, kuhambisane nalokho. Bahlushwa " megalomania ".
Iqiniso liwukuthi umuntu akesabi ngesimo ngokwawo njengento ebonakalayo, kungaba okungenangqondo. Abantu besaba isixuku, imibono yabanye ngokwabo. Ngokungazelelwe bazocabanga kabi, bazoxoxa, bahleke? Kuthiwani uma bengathandi ukukhanda kwekhanda lami? Noma bazobona ukuthi nginezinyawo ezinzima? Yonke le mibuzo ifika engqondweni ngenxa yemizwa eqinile ngomuntu wayo. "Kanjani, ngemuva kwakho konke, ngiphelele kakhulu, ngiphelele, bese ngilahla ngokuzumayo, ngiphinde ngiphumelele ..."
Ukukhathazeka kwesihloko
Kungani umuntu ehamba ngesiteji? Hlanganisa imibukiso yemfashini kanye nefayili ehlukahlukene. Ezimweni eziningi, abantu baphuma kubantu ukuze babelane ngolwazi nabo.
Ukuze isikhulumi kufanele kubaluleke kakhulu hhayi "ukuzibonakalisa" njengokudlulisela okuthile okubalulekile kwabanye. Uma isikhulumi sibhekisela kulokho akushoyo, angaba nesithakazelo. Uma ephumelela ekwenzeni isithakazelo, yena ngokwakhe uzohileleka esihlokweni senkulumo yakhe, okusho ukuthi angabonisa amakhono akhe okukhuluma ngomphakathi kwabanye . Lezi zinsuku zizoholela ekutheni umuntu uzothathwa ngenkulumo futhi ngeke kube khona isikhathi sokwesaba ngaye. Ingabe lokho kungakapheli ukuphuma ukuthuthumela kancane amadolo.