Omunye umuntu ohlakaniphile wathi: "Okwenziwe ngenjabulo kwenziwa kahle." Lokhu kuhlobene ngqo nokuzilibazisa. Ukuzilibazisa okungenza kube nemizwa emihle, ngisho noma bengenayo inzuzo, futhi badinga izindleko. Noma kunjalo, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuzilibazisa kwabesifazane kuba umthombo wemali engenayo.
Ungakhetha kanjani ukuzilibazisa?
Ekuphileni kwethu, kunezinketho eziningi zokuzilibazisa, kepha ngisho hhayi wonke umuntu anele, futhi kukhona njalo labo abaza nomoya omusha wokuzilibazisa kwabesifazane. Kunezinketho eziningi, kungase kube nokuzilibazisa kwabanye besifazane hhayi emzamweni wokuqala, kodwa uma kukhona isifiso, ngokuqinisekile kuzovela futhi kuzojabulisa. Yini engasiza ekunqumeni ukuthi yikuphi ukuzilibazisa okumele ukhethe, ake sizame ukucabangela ezinye izindlela zokwenza lokhu:
- Ake sibuyele ebuntwaneni. Inkumbulo yabesifazane abaningi, izinkumbulo zikagogo, umama, ugogo noma umngane nje uhlale, owakhuthele wadala izinto ezinhle kakhulu, ngokwesibonelo, ama-shawls amancane aphansi, amathawula aqoshiwe noma amaconsi, ama-lace capes. Uma ngabe kubonakala kuyisimangaliso, khona-ke lapho usukhulile ungafunda ukudala lesi simangaliso ngezandla zakho.
- Ekuphileni kwanamuhla akukho ukunyakaza okwanele, futhi ukuhlala ngezinyosi zokugaya kanye ne-crochet akuyifaki, kulokhu imidlalo, ukuqina, ukudansa, yoga kanye nezinye izinhlobo zokuphumula okusebenzayo kungaba yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuzilibazisa kwabesifazane.
- Ngokuba abathandi bokufunda abangaziwa bazovela ezokuzilibazisa ezingavamile kanye nokuzilibazisa, njengokubhula ngezinkanyezi, isotericism, palmistry. Bangakwazi ukujula ngaphakathi emfihlilweni yokuqaphela, zama ukunciphisa amaphupho, imicabango, ufunde ngezinto ezedlule nezesikhathi esizayo.
- Asikho isikhathi esengeziwe, khona-ke ungakhetha ukuzilibazisa okusebenzayo njengokupheka, ukuthunga, ukwenza isobho, ukuklama.
- Kubantu ababukeka bezobuciko ungazama ukwenza imidwebo, imidwebo yokudweba, izinkondlo zokubhala, izindaba, ukucula nezinye izinhlobo zobuciko
Okudume kakhulu okuzilibazisa
Ukuzilibazisa ngabesifazane kungahlukaniswa ngokwesiko kube yindabuko, okwakuyiminyaka eminengi ekhona ekuphileni kwethu. Okokuqala, yimisebenzi yezandla, ukupheka, ukulima, ukulima, ukubhula ngezinkanyezi, ukufunda izincwadi nokuqoqa. Futhi eminyakeni yamuva, izinto zokuzilibazisa ezithandwayo ziye zagcwaliswa ngezinhlobonhlobo zezinhlobo, lapho ngisho namagama angahlali ecacile ngaso sonke isikhathi:
- ezinsizeni - i- frivolite (i-lace yokugqoka), ukubopha emfolokheni, imidwebo yemishini;
- ekuphekeni - ukunamathela okuhlobisa, ukudweba imifino, izimbali zezithelo;
- ukulima - izindlu ezincane zasemakhaya, izingadi zokubhebhezela, izakhi ezivela ezitshalweni ezomile;
- ezemidlalo - i- aqua aerobics , umzimbaflex, i-strip-plastiki, imidanso yase-oriental;
- ukuzilibazisa okudala - ukudweba nesihlabathi nosawoti, amatshe okudweba, ama-eggshell okusika;
- ukuhlakanipha - ukufunda okusheshayo, ukuqagela nokudala amapuzzles, puzzle puzzle.
Ezemidlalo Nemisebenzi
Umdlandla wokuphila okunempilo uthola isilinganiso esikhulu. Izemidlalo nezokuzilibazisa zihlangene zibe yinye, ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kwakukhona amathuba amaningi. Kuhle uma ungavakashela izakhiwo zezemidlalo nokuzijwayeza ngaphansi kokuqondiswa kochwepheshe. Kodwa, manje kungadinga izindleko ezinkulu zezinto ezibonakalayo hhayi wonke umuntu ongazikhokhela. Kunezentengo ezishibhile, kodwa ezingekho ngaphansi kokusebenza ezemidlalo nezithakazelisayo. Kungaba ukuhamba kanye nokuhamba ngebhayisikili, i- rollerblading kanye ne-skateboarding, i-yoga eyenziwe, i-pilates.
Ukuzilibazisa - izithombe
Ukuthuthukiswa kobuchwepheshe bedijithali kuye kwabangela ukuthakazelisa ngokuthatha izithombe ngokweqile. Abanye abantu bamane bacabangi ngokuphila ngaphandle kokubika okuningiliziwe mayelana nosuku abahlala ngalo. Futhi namanje akakho abantu abaningi kakhulu abathwebula izithombe hhayi nje ukuthatha izithombe, kodwa ukungena ezithokozisayo ezithakazelisayo futhi ubuciko. Bazuza imishini yobuchwepheshe, bafunde amathuba awo, bathole izindlela ezithakazelisayo, izindlela ezingavamile zokucubungula izithombe futhi bangamukeli nje isithombe, kodwa umsebenzi wezobuciko.
Ukuhamba nokuvakasha
Ukuhamba kuthandwa cishe wonke umuntu. Nje-ke wonke umuntu unezintandokazi ezahlukene namathuba okuhamba. Ukuvakasha nokuhamba mhlawumbe yizinto ezithandwayo kakhulu nokuzilibazisa kwabesifazane. Manje sinethuba lokuhamba emhlabeni ngokukhululekile. Lokhu kwenziwa ngisho nabasempesheni, ukulawula ukugcina ingxenye yempesheni, bese uthola amahostela ashibhile futhi ujwayele amazwe angatholakali ngaphambili.
Futhi ezweni lakini kunezindawo eziningi ezinhle ezifanele ukuvakashelwa nokugcina ememori nasesithombeni. Ngisho eduze nendlu ungathola ukuphumula okungabizi, uhamba endaweni enhle kakhulu. Izinkampani eziningi zokuhamba zinikeza izinkambo zamasonto onke izindawo ezinhle, ezingavamile noma ezingasoleki. Ukuhamba ngezintaba nemililo akuzange kutholakale kancane. Manje, ngenxa yalokhu, kukhona imishini eyenza induduzo enkulu kunoma yiziphi izimo
Ukuzilibazisa - izincwadi zokufunda
Khumbula izikhathi lapho sithathwa njengezwe elifunda kakhulu, lapho izincwadi nomagazini bethathwa ebusuku futhi bafundwa emigodini. Kodwa ngisho nokufunda manje akulahlekelwa ukuhambisana kwayo futhi kungena ezithakazelisayo nokuzilibazisa. Ngenxa ye-Intanethi kwakukhona ukukhethwa okukhulu kwezincwadi zezincwadi zakudala, ezangaphandle, ezithandwayo, ezingokoqobo, nezesayense. Manje kulula ukufunda izincwadi ngolunye ulimi, noma ngabe izinga aliphakeme kakhulu. Ungasebenzisa njalo umhumushi nesichazamazwi. Ukuzilibazisa okunjalo kwabesifazane kuyophinde kube usizo ekutadisheni izilimi zakwamanye amazwe.
Ukuzilibazisa - yezandla
Amathuba angapheli okuzibonela ngenjabulo ahlinzeke ngezandla. Futhi uma kukhona ukukhetha, yikuphi ukuzithokozisa okungenziwa, kudingekile ukuzama ukuzikhethela enye yezinhlobo eziningi zezinsiza. Ungayifunda ngezifundo zangempela nezenzakalelayo, futhi ungazimela ngokuzimela kwividiyo, ukuqeqeshwa izithombe, izincazelo eziningiliziwe zemikhiqizo ethile.
Needlework ikuvumela ukuthi ulondoloze imali. Gcwalisa ikhabethe ngezinto eziboshiwe, eziboshwe, unikele ngezipho zakho, sebenzisa izikhwama zemvelo, isobho, impofu, yenziwe ngokuzimela. Ngokuthola amakhono nesipiliyoni, le ndlela yokuzilibazisa ingaletha imali eyengeziwe futhi izokwenza kube lula ukwenza umsebenzi wakho ozithandayo kakhulu njengomsebenzi wakho ozithandayo.
Ukuzilibazisa - ukudansa
Uma ubheka izinketho zokuzilibazisa ezisebenzayo, khona-ke amadansa aphelele njengebukeka obuwusizo, obuhle futhi obusebenzayo. Ubunzima bukhona ekukhethweni. Izinto zokuzilibazisa eziwusizo ikakhulukazi ngabesifazane zingumdanso waseMpumalanga. Ukuthi ukunyakaza kwabo kunemiphumela emihle ezingxenyeni zabesifazane, isigqi sokunyakaza sithuthukisa ukuphulukisa, futhi ukushelela ukuguquguquka kwenza kube nesifazane. Ungaphumeleli ukudansa kwebhola lezinwele ze-ballroom, isiLatini esincisha. Kukhona ukudansa okungewona wonke umuntu ongawuthandayo, isibonelo, kunzima, ukuphumula, i-jazz-fan, kodwa banqoba abalandeli.
Ukuzilibazisa - ukupheka
Umdlandla wesifazane wokupheka kubhekwa njengesijwayelekile, nakuba akuwona wonke owesifazane olungiselela isifiso futhi ubeka umphefumulo wakhe. Ukuzilibazisa okunjalo kwenza ukuphila komkhaya wonke kujabulise, kugcwaliswe ukuthanda izinto zeholidini, ukuhamba kwamakholi kanye nokuhlolwa okudliwayo okunesibindi. Amakhono atholakalayo angakhula ngempumelelo ngendlela yokuthola imali, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukudala ibhizinisi lakho. Futhi hhayi ukuthi lokhu kuzoba ukuvulwa kwendawo yokudlela, inzuzo ingalethwa kanye namabhulogi abo, ukudala zokupheka zakuqala, amavidiyo kulezi zokupheka, ukuqeqesha ukupheka kwabanye abantu.
Ukukhathazeka kwe-esoteric
E-esotericism iza ngezindlela ezahlukene. Omunye ubheka kuye izimpendulo zemibuzo, kumuntu uba ngumthamo wokulondoloza ezimweni ezinzima, abanye bakhangwa izinto zokuzilibazisa ezingavamile. Ukuthakazelisa ngolwazi lokuzibandakanya kwabesifazane nolwazi lwezimfihlakalo zokwazi kanye nokungazi lutho akumangazi. I-psychology yabesifazane ibangela ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, ngokungafani nombono wesilisa onengqondo wezwe. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo abesifazane babe ngabaholi, abathakathi, abaphulukisi, abakwazi ukubona abangabonakali, bazi okungaziwa futhi babone ikusasa.
Ukuzilibazisa - I-Floriculture
Ukuzilibazisa kwamandulo, okubambisana kakhulu, kodwa okuhle kakhulu kuwu-floriculture. Isizukulwane esikhulile sikhumbula isikhathi lapho i-geranium efasiteleni yayiwuphawu lwe-philistinism, kodwa kwakunezinsiza eziningi ezifana nezindwangu, njengezivande zangaphambili ezinemibhede yemifula emangalisayo ngokuxokozela kwemibala ehlukahlukene. Ukutshala izimbali ezidumile nokufuna izimbali ezingavamile ngokuvamile kudonsela abesifazane. Namuhla, kunezithuba ezengeziwe zokuthola imbewu nezinhlumela zezitshalo zangaphandle kanye nomhlahlandlela wokulima kwazo. Lokhu kugcwalisa izimbangi zabathandi bezimbali, futhi kuphinda kubonakale njengento yokuzilibazisa yabesifazane.
Ukuzilibazisa - Amaqoqo
Kukhona abesifazane abambalwa abangenalo ulwazi lokuqoqa ebuntwaneni. Ukuqoqa ama-candy wrappers, ama-postcards, amadonki, amathoyizi avela ezimangalisweni ezinomusa nezinye izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu nezibalulekile kakhulu. Iningi lezingqoqo ezinjalo njengoba zikhula. Abanye, lapho bebuzwa ukuthi bangayithola kanjani indlela yokuzilibazisa, baze bakhumbule izindinganiso zabo zezingane ezithinta. Futhi uma zigcinwa ezindaweni ezikude zendlu yabazali, ezindaweni ezisezindaweni zasehlobo zasehlobo, zingaba yingxenye yokuqala yeqoqo, lapho sekuvele khona imibukiso ebalulekile eye yaba amashumi ambalwa eminyaka.