Ukunakekela umntwana osanda kuzalwa (nakuba umfana, ngisho nentombazane) njalo ehlambalaza umama wesikhathi esizayo. Ngemuva kwalokho, cishe, akakaze abhekane nale nqubo ngaphambi, futhi akazi ukuthi yini engakwazi futhi engenakwenziwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunombono wokuthi ukuhlanzeka komfana osanda kuzalwa kuhlukile, kusukela ekuhlanzeni kwentombazane. Ngemuva kokuxoxisana nabangani noma umama, umama omncane, njengombuso, uxuba yonke imicabango yakhe ekhanda lakhe, futhi akaqondi nhlobo ukuthi ngubani olungile nokuthi angayinakekela kanjani kahle umntwana osanda kuzalwa. Ngakho-ke, siphakamisa ukuthi imithi yamasasa yesikhathi esizayo neyamanje iyazijwayeza izici eziyinhloko zokunakekela izindlalifa zabo.
Indlela yokugeza umfana osanda kuzalwa?
Cishe wonke umama omncane unentshisekelo kulo mbuzo. Futhi abaningi babo bakholelwa ukuthi kukhona umehluko ezindleleni zokugeza umfana nentombazane esanda kuzalwa. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi uma umama eqiniseka ukuthi abafana namantombazane bahlamba ngezindlela ezehlukene, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi lo mntwana ukhulume ngogogo (noma ngisho nakhulu-ugogo) wengane esanda kuzalwa. Isizukulwane esidala sibona kanjani umehluko ekubhukukeni izinsana zobulili ezahlukene? Umehluko, njengomthetho, ungomunye. Bakholelwa ukuthi ngesikhathi sokugeza umfana omncane kudingeka adonsele emuva isikhumba bese egeza ikhanda lepenisi. Ngokuvamise ukuthi lesi sikhundla sichazwa ukuthi ukungcola kuqoqa ngaphansi kwejwabu, okungabangela ukuvuvukala okuhlukahlukene, ngisho nezifo.
Futhi manje ake sicabange ngokulinganayo. Kungani imvelo ihlose ukudala umfana osanda kuzalwa enekhanda elivaliwe lepenisi? Mhlawumbe kwakungaleso sikhathi ngaphambi kwesikhathi lapho bengatholanga ama-germs nokudaka? Futhi ukugxila eceleni kwesikhumba futhi ugeze ikhanda, umama wangena lapho ezincane ezincane! Ngisho noma izandla zakhe zingenawo oyinyumba (okungaze zenzeke) futhi wenza le nqubo ngamanzi abilayo (okungekho okuhle kakhulu).
Mhlawumbe amanye amama azophikisa ukuthi ngaphansi kwejwabu lihlanganisa ngempela ukungcola, okuyinto abazibona ngamehlo abo. Kodwa empeleni, lokhu kufakazela ukuthi umama ngokwayo ubambelela ekusungulweni kwodaka ngaphansi kwejwabu. Emva kwakho konke, lapho evula ikhanda okokuqala, khona-ke akabonanga khona izibonakaliso zokudalwa, ukungcola noma ukubomvu. Zonke lezi zinkinga zivele kakade okwesibili (izikhathi zesihlanu, eziyishumi, eziyikhulu), lapho isikhumba sithatha iselula, futhi azikho izithiyo zokungena kwamagciwane ezincane angaphandle.
Bonke odokotela basimanje abaphakamisi ukuthinta ijwabu. Uma unganqikazi noma ukholelwa, kungcono ukubona udokotela, futhi ungabonisi isinyathelo sokungabaza.
Indlela yokugeza kahle umfana osanda kuzalwa?
Futhi kule ndaba ayikho umehluko omkhulu - umfana ohamba phambi kwakho noma intombazane. Geza usana olushintshayo ngalunye ushintsho lwe-diaper. Lapha umbuzo uvela ngokucacile, kodwa kungani umfana kufanele alingwe? Lokhu kwenziwa ngamanzi ajwayelekile asebenzayo, izinga lokushisa okulingana nalo elilingana nokushisa komzimba. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukuhlola njalo izinga lokushisa nge-thermometer. Kwanele ukuthi wena uzizwe uqobo ukuthi izinga lokushisa likhululekile.
Abafana nabanama-diapers
Ekhuluma ngabafana abasanda kuzalwa, umbuzo wokulimala kwama-diapers njalo uvuswa. Futhi, iqiniso lokuthi abafana abakwazi ukusebenzisa ama-diapers, bangasho odokotela, kodwa bayazi bonke ogogo lomfana. Kodwa njengoba imibono kagogo esazi kakade, kudingeka sifunde elinye iphuzu lokubuka.
Odokotela abangacabangi ukuthi inkinga "yabafana nabamaphepuleli" kufanele baqaphele nhlobo. Bavuma ukuthi izinga lokushisa kwesikhumba ngaphansi kwe-diaper liphakeme kakhulu kunokushisa kwesikhumba ngaphandle kwalo. Kodwa umehluko kungu-2 degrees kuphela! Lokhu akuyona neze inkomba ebalulekile. Futhi uma uqhathanisa ukulimala okusolakala ukuthi sekukhona empilweni yesilisa, okulethwa yi-diapers, kanye nokulimala okulethwe ngokulala emanzini asemanzi - ke okuqala akungabazeki kakhulu!