Izingane yikusasa lethu futhi ukukhushulwa kwabo kuyingozi kakhulu. Emazweni ahlukene, izici zabo kanye namasiko okukhuliswa kwezingane zikhona. Kunezimo eziningi lapho, ngesifiso esikhulu sabazali sokunikeza ukukhuliswa okuhle kwengane yabo, izindlela abazisebenzisayo azikwazi ukusebenza kahle. Futhi ukuba khona emindenini ehle futhi ehloniphekile yezingane ezanelisekile, ezizidlayo kuyisibonakaliso esiqondile. Kulesi sihloko sizocubungula kafushane imfundo yasekhaya yasekhaya yase-Japan yabantwana baseJapane, ngoba kuleli zwe izici zokukhuliswa kwezingane zinomlingiswa owaziwayo.
Izici zesistimu yaseJapane yokukhulisa izingane
Uhlelo lwaseJapane lokukhulisa luvumela izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-5 ukuba zenze noma yini abayifunayo, futhi zingesabi isijeziso esilandelayo sokungalaleli noma ukuziphatha okubi. Kuzingane zaseJapane ngalesi sikhathi azikho izinqatshelwe, abazali bangabaxwayisa kuphela.
Lapho umntwana ezalwa, ucezu lwesigxobo sezinyosi luyakunqunyulwa kuso, lumile futhi lufakwe ebhokisini elikhethekile lezinkuni lapho usuku lokuzalwa komntwana negama lomama lishaywa yiyakha. Lokhu kufanekisela ukuxhumana phakathi komama nengane. Phela, ngumama odlala indima enkulu ekukhuliseni kwakhe, futhi ubaba uhlanganyela ngokuhlanganyela ngezikhathi ezithile. Ukunikeza abantwana emanzini engaphansi kweminyaka engama-3 kuthathwa njengesenzo sobugovu kakhulu, ngaphambi kwalesi sikhathi ingane kufanele ibe nonina.
Indlela yaseJapane yokukhulisa izingane kusukela eminyakeni emihlanu kuya kweyishumi nanhlanu, kakade inganiki izingane inkululeko engenamkhawulo, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, igcinwa ngokukhululeka okukhulu futhi phakathi nalesi sikhathi izingane zibekwe phansi yizimo zokuziphatha zomphakathi kanye neminye imithetho. Lapho eneminyaka engu-15 ubudala, ingane ibhekwa njengomuntu omdala futhi ixhumana naye ngokulingana okulinganayo. Ngalesi sikhathi, kufanele awazi kakade imisebenzi yakhe.
Ukuthuthukisa ikhono lengqondo yengane, abazali baqala ngokushesha kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwabo. Umama uhlabelela izingoma kumntwana, umtshele ngezwe elizungezile. Indlela yaseJapane yokukhulisa ingane ingabandakanyi uhlobo oluthile lokuziphatha,
Kunemibono ehlukahlukene mayelana nokubaluleka nokusebenza komsebenzi waseJapane ezindaweni zangempela zasekhaya. Phela, kuguquke eJapane iminyaka eyikhulu futhi kungaxhunyaniseki kahle nakumasiko abo. Ingabe kuyoba ngempumelelo futhi kusebenza kuphela kuwe.