Umama uMvelo usibamba njalo ngezimangaliso. Esinye sezibonakaliso ezinjalo sinelungelo lokubizwa ngokuthi ukuvela kokuphila okusha, ingane ekulindelwe isikhathi eside futhi efunwa. Kubazali abaningi, usuku lapho ingane yabo izobonakala khona akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu, uma kuphela umntwana ezalwa enempilo. Abanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, zama ukuhlela ukukhulelwa ukuze ulungiselele kahle ukuvela kwesimangaliso, ukulungisa izingubo zonyaka, ukulungiswa okudingekayo kusengaphambili, futhi ukhethe igama lomphathi wegama elizayo. Kodwa yini ngempela okudingeka iqondiswe lapho ikhetha igama lomntwana? Akubona bonke abazali abazi impendulo yalo mbuzo.
- Kunezindlela eziningi ezihlukahlukene zokukhetha, sizogxila kubaluleke kakhulu: okokuqala, igama kufanele lihambisane negama eliphakathi futhi lichazwe kalula, isibonelo - u-Alexander Sergeevich noma u-Elena Lvovna. Kodwa akukho okungahambi kahle uma ufuna "ukuhlunga" bese uthola igama elingalindelekile ngokuphelele. Kodwa-ke, ulungele ukuthi, isibonelo, uSigismund Arsenievich ngokwakhe uzothatha amandla amakhulu, ngoba abantu abanamagama angavamile nabangavamile babe nezici ezifanayo.
- Okwesibili, akudingekile ukubiza lo mfana igama elinguqhawe eliqhakazile lezincwadi ezingcwele enkolweni, okuvela kuyo futhi ongazibiza. Khona-ke kungenzeka kube nezinkinga ngokubhapathizwa kwengane. Yiqiniso, uzobizwa ngegama elithile ukukhombisa ubhapathizo emaphepheni esonto, kodwa, uyazi ukuthi cishe umprofethi Muhammad ngokwakhe akafuni ukubiza igama lakhe nommeleli wenye inkolo.
- Omunye umthetho ovamile ngokuphathelene nokholo lobuKristu kuphela ukubiza ongcwele ohlonishwayo ngosuku lokuzalwa kwengane. Kukholelwa ukuthi ngaleyo ndlela ingane izoba ngaphansi kokubambisana kwayo yonke impilo yakhe.
- Uma abazali abasha bengenayo imibono nhlobo, kufanele siphenduke, sihlole umhlaba osizungezile, ngezinye izikhathi isimo noma ukungqubuzana kwezimo kubonisa ukukhetha okuwukuphela kweqiniso. Isibonelo, uma intombazane izalwa ngoMeyi 1, ngisho nasemzaneni wase-Maiskoe, u-Elena uvele engqondweni? Lapha icala ngokwalo litshela amaMaya ukuba avele ngaphambi kwezwe kuyo yonke inkazimulo yayo!
- Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ingane ayikwazi ukubizwa ngegama lezihlobo ezifile. Kukholelwa ukuthi uyodla ifa elizayo, futhi kanye nayo izinsizi kanye ne-fiasco yomnikazi wokuqala wegama. Kodwa-ke kukhona nalabo abacabanga ukuthi lo mthetho "uzongena ezindlebeni" futhi ungaboni lutho olungalungile ngendodana ethwele igama lomkhulukazi othandekayo, onomusa nodumo, okuyizinkumbulo ezinhle kuphela eziye zagcina inkumbulo.
Ukukhethwa kwegama kuyinkqubo ngayinye. Abavame ukuzitholela abazali, ngezinye izikhathi izimo zokubeletha izingane ziqondisa isinqumo, ngokuphambene nezifiso zabanye, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu ukukholelwa okuqinile komzali ukuthi ingane yakhe, ephethe leli gama, iyojabula, inempilo futhi inamakhono. Futhi ngosizo kolwazi esiteshini sethu ungathatha igama labantwana abasha, thola incazelo yamagama, izinsuku zosuku lobizo, nokuhambisana kwazo.