Kwabesifazane abaningi, uhlamvu lomuntu weCancer luyisimfihlakalo esingenakufinyeleleka, ngoba lo muntu uvame ukuveza umbono owodwa, kodwa ngaphakathi kuhluke ngokuphelele. Lokhu kubangelwa ukuhlupheka kwakhe kanye nesifiso sakhe sokufihla isisekelo sakhe ukuze kungabikho muntu ongamlimaza.
Iyini isimo samadoda amaKhansela?
Ngaphandle, umdlavuza uyindoda enemikhuba emihle, ethembekile, ehloniphekile, ehambisanayo. Abavumelani nabantu abangaziwayo, kodwa nabathandekayo bangakhululeka futhi bavuleke. Emphefumulweni labo bangabantu abahlekisayo, kodwa bavame ukuba nezikhathi zokudangala, ukucindezeleka, ukungakholwa kwabo ngokwabo. Njengomthetho, imizwa yabo ingashintsha ngomzuzwana owodwa, futhi kuzothatha isikhathi eside ukuba aphinde aqinise isibindi sakhe.
Ingxenye eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ukuthi isimo sengqondo seCanscer sithathelwana, futhi uma kukhona uhlobo olulinganiselayo noluthile olukude eduze kwalo, khona-ke uzohlupheka kanye nalo.
Izici zobuntu zesifo somdlavuza wesilisa
Cabanga uhlu lwezici ezibaluleke kakhulu ezichaza umdlavuza futhi uvumele ukuqonda kangcono umuntu onjalo ophikisanayo:
- ujwayele ukuzwa futhi u-samoyedstvu;
- ungamniki isizathu sokungabaza izinhloso zakho ezinhle;
- unesidingo esikhulu sokuba nobuhlobo obuhle nabanye;
- unamathele kakhulu kubazali bakhe, unina;
- Kumelwe azizwe ehlonishwa futhi ethandwa ukuba ajabule;
- I-Cancer ingaba i-despot inayo
umndeni, uma ungawubeka endaweni ngesikhathi; - uyazishada, ngoba akayithandi ushintsho;
- I-Cancer iqinisekile ukuthi ibaluleke kakhulu kunowesifazane wayo nezidingo zakhe ziphakeme futhi ziphakeme;
- uyakhetha owesifazane ngesizathu, eqhathanisa nabanye;
- Uma umdlavuza uthola owesifazane wakhe, usekulungele ukubeka umhlaba wonke ezinyaweni zakhe;
- indlu yakhe iyinqaba yakhe.
Ukuze uhambisane neCanscer, udinga ukuzethemba owesifazane owaziyo ukuthi ufunani futhi angasabele kanjani ukujula komuntu wakhe.