Ngokuzalwa kwengane, izakhi ezintsha zefenisha zivela endlini - ukotini, isihlalo esiphakeme, umbelethi nokuningi okuningi. Kodwa induduzo nokulula akudingeki ingane kuphela, ngeke kube yinto engafanelekile yokunakekela umama.
Ukuthandwa kakhulu phakathi kweminye ifenisha yabamama abahlengikazi, babe nezihlalo ezikhethekile. Zakhiwa ngokuvumelana nazo zonke izidingo kanye nemingcele yenduduzo nokulula. Futhi, noma kunjalo, kuyadingeka ukuba usondele ngokuzwela okhethekile ekukhethweni kwesihlalo esiqongelayo somama onesihlengikazi.
Yini okufanele ngiyibheke lapho ngikhetha isihlalo somama oncelisayo?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuhlola isihlalo esitolo. Hlala kuwo, zama ukuzamazama, ulalele imizwa yakho. Linganisa ukuthi kuzoba lula yini kuwe kulesihlalo ukuba ube nosana noma uqinisiwe, ungakhululekile futhi ngokuvamile awuhambisani nhlobo futhi uvumela ukunyakaza.
Indima ekhethekile esikhwameni sokuqhakazila omama abahlengikazi idlala emuva. Kumele kube phezulu futhi mhlawumbe kube lula. Kubalulekile ukuthi liphinda zonke izindinganiso zemvelo zomhlane wakho. Uma kulesi sihlalo ungakwazi ukuphumula ngokuphelele futhi ungacabangi ukuhlukumeza komzimba, khona-ke kukufanele.
Okwesibili, qaphela ikhono lokulungisa lokhu noma eminye imingcele yesitulo sokuqhaqha. Uma bekhona, lokhu kuzokunika ithuba lokulungisa yonke into ngezidingo zakho: lungisa ukujula, ukuphakama nobubanzi besihlalo.
Okwesithathu, qaphela ukungabi nandaba kwesihlalo. Emva kwakho konke, uma kusebenza ngesikhathi sokuguga, ngeke kuvumele ingane yakho ilele futhi izokukwenza ube nesaba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isihlalo kufanele sigijime ngaphandle kokugwaza, ngokushelela.
Mayelana nekhwalithi yezihlalo zokuqhaqhazela omama abahlengikazi
Njengomthetho, ifenisha yezingane nabamnesi abahlengikazi yenziwe ngezinto eziphezulu. Noma kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuthenga, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi ngesikhathi sokusebenza isihlalo ngeke sibe yingozi - yizona zonke izingxenye ezikuyo kahle, azikho
Ngokuqondene nezinto zokwakha, kungcono ukunikeza izitulo zemvelo ngokhuni. Izinkuni azikhipha izinto ezinobuthi, azibangeli ukwelashwa futhi ziphephile izingane. Futhi ngaphakathi kwendlu noma indlu, ifenisha yokhuni izokwenza induduzo ekhethekile kanye nobuhle.
Ungathenga isihlalo noma isihlalo somama oncelisayo cishe noma yisiphi isitolo esikhulu sefenisha. Uma ufuna, ungenza umyalo esitolo se-intanethi. Into esemqoka akusiyo ukugcina ngekhwalithi futhi ukufuna izitifiketi zokuphepha zabathengisi.