Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ube unkulunkulu kubantwana abaningana?

Namuhla cishe wonke umndeni, okuthiwa yi-Orthodox, uzama ukunamathela kule nkolo kanye nengane yakhe esanda kuzalwa. Abazali abaningi benza ubhapathizo lomntwana ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwakhe.

Ubhapathizo lungenye yama-sakramenti ayisikhombisa eSonto Lama-Orthodox, lapho umphefumulo womntwana ufa ngenxa yokuphila okuyisono futhi uzalwa kabusha ngokuphila okungokomoya, lapho angena khona eMbusweni weZulwini. Ngokuvamile ama-christenings abe yiholide enkulu ekuphileni komntwana osanda kuzalwa nomndeni wakhe, amlungiselela isikhathi eside, akhethe ithempeli, umpristi nabazali bomama, noma abamukeli.

Ngezinye izikhathi phakathi nokukhetha kwabazali, umbuzo uphakamisa ukuthi umuntu angaba godfather izikhathi eziningana. Mhlawumbe umama nobaba bafuna ukumema abantu abanjalo ababhapathiza ingane yabo endala. Noma, oyedwa noma bobabili ababili abangabakhona kakade sebengabaqondisi ngokomoya wengane ezelwe komunye umndeni.

Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi ube nguyise wezingane eziningana, futhi futhi yiziphi izimo ezingenakwenzeka ukuba zamukele umntwana osanda kuzalwa.

Indlela yokukhetha onkulunkulukazi?

Okokuqala, kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi akudingekile ukumema bobabili owesifazane nendoda enendima yabazali bakaNkulunkulu ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ngengane ngayinye, ingane eyodwa kuphela yobulili obufanayo yanele, njengoNkulunkulu godu. Ngakho-ke, uma unomfana, qaphela ukukhetha kukaNkulunkulu, futhi uma intombazane ingunkulunkulukazi. Uma ungabaza ukukhetha kwe-receptor yesibili, kungcono ukumema noma ubani.

Abazali bakaNkulunkulu bayisiqondiso esingokomoya somntwana. Yilabo abazofanele bafundise ingane isikhathi esiyisisekelo sokuphila kobu-Orthodox, bajwayele ukuvakashela isonto, bamnike imiyalelo futhi balandele ukuphila okulungile kukaNkulunkulu wakhe. Othisha abangokomoya kanye nabazali bezinyane banomthwalo wemfanelo phambi kukaNkulunkulu, futhi uma kwenzeka unina nomama wabo kufanele babambe umndeni wabo futhi bawakhulise ngokulingana nezingane zabo.

Lapho ukhetha ozithandane , qaphela indlela yabo yokuphila. Abantu abazoba ngabantwana bakho okungaphezu nje kwabahlobo noma izihlobo, kufanele bahole ukuphila okulungile nokuthobeka, bavakashele ithempeli, bathandaze futhi bahlanzeke emicabangweni yabo. Awudingi ukumema abantu obathandayo noma obesaba ukucasula ukwenqaba kwakho njengama-godmothers nobaba.

Ubani ongeke abe nguNkulunkulu?

Okokuqala, abazali bomntwana abakwazi ukuba ngunkulunkulu, kanti ezinye izihlobo zingenza kule ndima ngaphandle kwemingcele. Le mfuneko ibuye ibuyele kubazali abamukelayo abamukela izingane zabo. Uma umema bobabili unkulunkulukazi noNkulunkulu, sicela wazi ukuthi abashadile. Okokugcina, into ebaluleke kakhulu futhi ecacile yukuthi abantu abathi inkolo ehlukile kune-Orthodoxy abakwazi ukuba yizi-godmothers.

Ingabe kuvunyelwe ukuba unkulunkulu kubantwana abaningana ngesikhathi esifanayo?

Ngokuqondene nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba unkulunkulukazi noma godfather izikhathi eziningana, isonto alibeki nanoma imiphi imingcele kulokhu. Ungamemela kalula kumsebenzi ka-godfather womntanakho omdala noma ezinye izingane, uma uqinisekile ukuthi lo muntu uzoba ngumeluleki nomngane ongokomoya futhi uzofeza ngokugcwele imisebenzi yakhe kuNkulunkulu.

Okwamanje, ukubhapathiza izingane ezimbili ngesikhathi esisodwa, isibonelo, amawele, kungenzeka ukuthi akufanele kube lula kakhulu kunkulunkulukazi. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngokweziko, umamukeli kufanele agcine unkulunkulu wakhe ezandleni zakhe phakathi nomkhosi wonke futhi awuthathe emfonini. Ngakho-ke, uma ubhapathizo lwezingane ezimbili lwenzeka ngesikhathi esisodwa, kungcono ukhethe u-godfather wakho kumntwana ngamunye.