Izibonakaliso zasendulo zabesifazane abakhulelwe ziye zacwaningwa ngezifundiswa zanamuhla futhi zihlukaniswe ngamaqembu amabili: eziyingozi futhi eziwusizo. Iqiniso liwukuthi kwezinye izinkolelo-ze kubantu abakhulelwe kukhona ukuhlakanipha kwabantu, futhi kwabanye - ubandlululo nje. Sinikeza ukujwayele kokubili, futhi ngesinye isigaba.
Izimpawu eziwusizo nezinkolelo-ze kwabesifazane abakhulelwe
Okokuqala, cabangela izimpawu kubesifazane abakhulelwe, okuwusizo kakhulu, futhi okumele kuqashelwe.
- Owesifazane okhulelwe akakwazi ukuhlala emnyango. Ezinsukwini zakudala, izinkinga zabesifazane zabhalwa ezinkambisweni zemimoya emibi, kodwa manje konke kuphathwa ngendlela ehlukile: le nkosikazi "esimweni" iyaphikisana.
- Abesifazane abakhulelwe akufanele bahlale nemilenze yabo bawela. Esikhathini esidlule, kwakucatshangwa ukuthi ngenxa yalesi sizalo siyozalwa ngamagilenze okukhohlisayo. Manje sekuyaziwa ukuthi ukuthunyelwa komzimba akuthinti ingane, kodwa kuphazamisa ukusakazwa kwemvelo emilenzeni, okwandisa ingozi yokuthuthukisa imivimbo ye-varicose.
- Abesifazane abakhulelwe akufanele bathe. Ezinsukwini zakudala kuthiwa lokhu kubangela ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi . Kukhona iqiniso kulokhu: amanzi ashisayo kwabesifazane "esimweni" aphikisana. Kodwa emabhakeni afudumele akakho nengozi.
- Uma kukhona amajikijolo noma ama-berries abomvu, umntwana uzozalwa engenampilo. Eqinisweni, ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwale mikhiqizo kungaholela ekuthambekeni kwengane ekudleni. Imikhiqizo-izifo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kufanele zisetshenziswe ngokuqapha.
- Awukwazi ukutshela usuku olulinganiselwa lokubeletha; lapho abantu bekwazi ngokwengeziwe ngokubeletha, lapho owesifazane obelethayo ehlushwa khona. Eqinisweni, owesifazane uzobe elula ngokwengqondo uma engakhulumi futhi abuze: "Awu, wazalwa?".
- Awukwazi ukukhuluma ngokukhulelwa kuze kube sobala. Ngaphambili kwakucatshangwa ukuthi lokhu kuvimbela umntwana kumoya omubi, ezinsukwini zethu - lokhu umshwalense owengeziwe ngokuchazwa okungadingekile, uma kungazelelwe ukukhulelwa kuzophazanyiswa.
Izimpawu ezimbi kubesifazane abakhulelwe
Kunezibonakaliso ezinjalo, ezisekelwe kuphela
- Ngeke ukwazi ukusika ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Eqinisweni, ubude bezinwele abuyithinti ingane.
- Ngeke ukwazi ukuhlangana ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwengane. Kwakuvame ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ilahle ingane, kodwa empeleni akukho ngozi.
- Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ezwa ukuhlukumeza, ingane izoba nokuzalwa kokuzalwa. Kulula ukuqonda ukuthi ukuhlukumeza owesifazane okhulelwe kufanele kukhishwe ukuphumula kwengqondo, hhayi njengesilinganiso sokuvimbela ama-moles.
Ngamanye amazwi, ukulalela izimpawu ezithandwayo ukuthi awukwazi ukukhulelwa, ungakhohlwa ngokucabanga kwabo okubucayi.