Kunzima kakhulu ukuthatha isikhwama sesikole intombazane noma umfana osemusha, ngoba ngalesi sikhathi abafana bahle kakhulu kakhulu ngokubonakala nokusebenza kwezinto zabo. Kulesi sihloko sizokutshela lokho okumele sikubheke lapho ukhetha lokhu okutholakala khona, ukuze ungalimazi impilo yengane futhi ukwanelise izidingo zakhe ezidingekayo.
Izici zezikhwama zesikole zabafundi besikole esiphakeme
Namuhla ezinqolobaneni zezimpahla zezingane izinhlobonhlobo ezinkulu zezikhwama zesikole zezingane ezineminyaka ehlukene zimelelwa. Izesekeli zabafundi besikole esiphakeme zivame ukuhlukaniswa nomklamo wazo ocacile futhi zibe nezici ezilandelayo:
- Amanye amamodeli anesimiso esinqunyiwe emuva, eqinisekisa ukuma okulungile. Ngokuvamile, kubafundi besikole esiphakeme, ukuba khona kwale nuance akusekho isidingo, kodwa uma ingane inenkinga ngemuva, kungcono ukukhetha lokhu okukhethwa kukho;
- Izikhwama zesikole zabafundi basezikoleni esiphakeme, ikakhulukazi abafana, zihlale zilukhuni kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, kufanele kucatshangelwe ukuthi kanye nawo wonke amadivaysi ubuningi bale nsizakalo akumele kudlulele amaphesenti ayishumi esisindo somzimba wengane;
- Kuyinto elula kakhulu, uma esikhwameni esifanayo kunezikhwama eziningi. Kuzo, ingane izokwazi ukuzibeka izinto ezibalulekile;
- Kubuye kusize kakhulu kubafundi besikole esiphakeme ukuba babe nesici esibonakalayo esikhwameni. Njengoba izingane kule minyaka zivame ukuya emigwaqweni ebusuku, kubalulekile ukuba zibonakale abashayeli bedlula izimoto;
- uma intombazane kufanele ithwale izinto eziningi ezinzima esikoleni nsuku zonke, isifuba esengeziwe kanye namabhande amabhande kuzosiza ekunciphiseni umthwalo ebhande lehlombe;
- Izikhwama zesikole ezinomfashini ezinamantombazane asetsheni ngokuvamile zihlotshiswe ngobuningi bezici zokuhlobisa. Izinketho zabafana, ngokuphambene nalokho, ezimweni eziningi zenziwa ngohlelo olulodwa lombala futhi azidingeki ngokweqile;
- ngokuvamile ukukhetha kwentsha kuwela esikhwameni esikoleni phezu kwehlombe, okwamanje, akufanelekile ukugqoka isikhathi eside nokusetshenziswa nsuku zonke. Ukuthi ukutholakala okunjalo akubangeli ukubunjwa okungalungile kwikholomu yomgogodla, akufanele baphathwe kabi.
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