I-Syndrome yomfundi ohloniphekile (noma umfundi ohloniphekile) - ongokoqobo kwezinye izingane kanye nabantu abadala, ukuphrinta amakhono abo, ukuwacabangela, ngenkathi egxile kwezinye izindlela zokuziphatha. Ngamanye amazwi, inkimbinkimbi yomfundi ohloniphekile ingabizwa ngokuthi i-perfectionism efana nezingane eziningi, ikakhulukazi kwentsha ekushintsheni.
Ukuziphatha kwengane ene-syndrome enhle kakhulu yomfundi
Ingane ene-syndrome enhle kakhulu yomfundi akudingeki ikhokhwe ukusebenza isikhathi eside, funda izincwadi eziningi futhi ufunde ngezikali ezibekwa esikoleni somculo. Ngaphandle kweluleko oluvela eceleni, ingane enjalo iyaqonda isidingo sokutadisha. Asikho isidingo sokusetha ingane enjalo njengesibonelo. Ngokuvamile, ingane ene-syndrome enhle kakhulu ihlale ikhona phambi kwamehlo akhe futhi izama zonke izindlela zokumlingisa. Kodwa-ke, isithakazelo ekufundeni kanye nesifiso sokufeza imiphumela engcono kuyathinteka kakhulu ikhono lomntwana onjalo ukuba ahlanganyele. Ngokuqondene nokuthi ingane ene-syndrome enhle kakhulu yomfundi yenza izidingo ezingaphezu kwezingane zakhe, akakwazi ukuxhumana nabalingani nabo ekilasini, noma akakwazi ukuxhumana nabo ngokulingana okulinganayo. Inkinga enkulu abafundi abahle kakhulu ukuthi abakwazi ukuphatha abanye njengabalingana.
Ungasiza kanjani ingane ukulahla isisindo / isifo somfundi omuhle kakhulu?
- Yeka ukusekela inkolelo yengane ngokuzikhethela kwakhe. (Ezimweni ezinjalo kuyingozi kakhulu ukukhuluma, awufani nabo bonke abanye, wena ungcono kakhulu.)
- Kuvame ukuba nezingane ezinkampanini lapho kuneontanga. (Kulesi simo, kubalulekile ukuthi ingane ikwazi ukuthi abazali bayo baphatha ngenhlonipho abazali babazali bayo, ngaphandle kwalokho imiphumela yalokho kuxhumana kuyoba yilapho.)
- Gcina ukukhulumisana kwengane nontanga. (Kodwa hhayi ngesimo esithi "Nika izincwadi zakho zokufunda, uye egcekeni kangcono!", Kusukela kulokhu ingane izohlala ngisho nezincwadi.
Uma ingane ingafuni ukusiza ngemisebenzi yasendlini, tshela ukuthi ungamvumeli ukuba ahambe nekilasi ukuvakashela elinye idolobha noma i-movie uma engagcini izitsha ngemuva kokudla ngesonto. Esikhathini esitatimendeni sombuzo, ingane ngesikhathi esifanayo izofuna ukwenza noma yenza lokho ekuqaleni kungayikufisa.) - Ungazami ukushukumisa ingane enhle, ubonise ukwehluleka kwakhe. (Uma inkanyezi engaziwa iyisithombe somntwana, njalo ulethe ulwazi olusha mayelana nalo, ukuchofoza kumamagazini, ama-posters. Uma le nkinga ingane ithola, i-passion yakhe ihamba ngokushesha. Futhi uma ngabe ingane yakho inhle kakhulu phakathi kwalabo obaziyo, bamba ingane ngalomuntu. Ungavumeli ingane ukuba ingathintana nabantu abanjalo, kungenjalo i-ideal izoba ne-aura enkulu yobungcwele. Futhi lokhu kuyingozi kakhulu.)