Njengomthetho, ekupheleni konyaka wesikole, othisha nabafundisi baxoxisana nabazali ngesihloko salokho okufanele bakwenze ehlobo. Kodwa uma ngesizathu esithile ulahlekelwe inkulumo, sizokunikeza imibono eminingana eyithakazelisayo yokuhlelwa kokuzilibazisa kwezingane.
Kungani uthatha ingane ehlobo edolobheni?
Ukuhlala ekuthunjweni kwedolobha elikhulu, ungaba nesikhathi esihle. Ngakho-ke, ake sicabange ngalokho okufanele sikwenze nengane ehlobo edolobheni. Amapulazi, amapaki edolobha, izinkundla, izindawo zemidlalo - akudingeki ukuthi ehlobo ingane kufanele ichithe isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka emoyeni omusha.
Ngisho noma abazali bephoqeleka ukuba bachithe usuku lonke emsebenzini, kusihlwa nangezimpelasonto udinga ukuphuma ukuhamba noma ipikinikini. Uma uhlala eduze nedamu noma umfula, qiniseka ukuthi uya ebhishi kusihlwa. Ngolunye usuku, amanzi azofudumala kahle, futhi ilanga ngeke lishise kakhulu. Ngamafuphi, zonke izimo, ukuze ingane ikwazi ukudoba futhi ibe nesikhathi esihle kanye nabazali bayo.
Uma uya ogwini ngeke kwenzeke, ungazifaka esiteshini esiseduze noma endaweni yokudlala. Futhi ukuze ungadingi "ukugubha ubuchopho bakho", kunokuba uthathe ingane ukuhamba ehlobo, thatha nawe imishini yokudlala yezingane ezidingekayo.
Ama-Rollers, i-scooter, ibhayisikili, i-badminton yizinsizakalo ezithembekile zabazali enhlanganweni yokuzilibazisa okuwusizo kwengane yanoma yisiphi isigaba seminyaka. Kubantu abahlala emadolobheni amakhulu, lo mbuzo unzima kakhulu kunokuthatha abantwana ngaphandle kwehlobo, ngoba akusondeli eduze kwendlu ongathola indawo yokudlala yezingane noma ipaki. Ezimweni ezinjalo kuphakanyiswa ukubuza mayelana nokutholakala kwezikhungo zokuzilibazisa kanye nokudala kwezingane.
Ngezimpelasonto, uhlelo lokuzijabulisa lungahlukahluka uhambo oluya ehlathini, uhambo oluya e-zoo. Kulesi simo, umbuzo wokuthi yini okufanele uyenze nabantwana emvelweni ehlobo nakho kusho izimpendulo eziningi. Konke kuncike ekucabangeni kwabazali nezimo zezulu. Ungamane ubheke izilwane ezinqolobaneni zasehlobo, utshele ingane ngezitshalo eziseduze naye, udwebe ibalazwe lokuhamba, ekugcineni lapho ingane ikulindele khona ukumangala.
Manje njengoba sesihlehlisile ukuhamba okuhlwa kanye neveki ngempelasonto, sizobe sithinta kwenye, hhayi isihloko esivuthayo kunokuba sithathe izingane ehlobo lendlu. Kuyacaca ukuthi, lapho abazali basebenza, izingane zabo zishiywe zona. Ngokuqinisekile waphawula ukuthi ezinye izingane zesikole, naphezu kokushisa nesimo sezulu esibi, zichitha izinsuku ezindizeni emagcekeni, kanti ezinye zichitha ubusuku emakhompyutheni abo. Uma kungenjalo ukhetho lokuqala noma lwesibili kuwe, ngokuphathelene nabazali abanakekelayo nabanomthwalo wemfanelo bayamukeleka, shiya ezimbalwa "ezibaluleke kakhulu" ukulungisa usuku ngalunye ingane. Ungakwazi futhi ukuhlukanisa impilo yansuku zonke yomfundi wesikole ngokufunda izincwadi ezithakazelisayo. Ungakhohlwa ngamakamu ehlobo e-ezikoleni - lokhu akuyona into embi kunazo zonke, okungenani ngaphandle kokuqondisa kanye nebhizinisi, ingane ngeke ihlale kahle.
Kunokuba uthathe izingane endaweni yokuhlala ehlobo endaweni yokuhlala ehlobo?
I-Dacha akuyona nje imifino nezithelo zendlu, kodwa futhi nethuba elihle kakhulu lokuba neholide ejabulisayo futhi ewusizo ehlobo. Ngandlela-thile, iningi labahlengikazi liyaqiniseka ukuthi indlu yezwe iyindawo engcono kakhulu yokuthola ingane. Ukuphendula umbuzo, kunokuba uthathe izingane kuleli lizwe ehlobo, ungahlinzeka abazali:
- ukuhlanganyela ekuvuneni, hhayi kuphela ukulondolozwa, kodwa futhi impahla yezobuciko;
- uhlanganiswe nomntwana, ingadi yakhe encane. Vumela i-crumb ikhule lapho izitshalo nezimbali ezikhula ngokushesha, ngoba impela umsebenzi onjalo uyomnika injabulo enkulu;
- khetha usuku uhambe ukudoba noma upikinikini;
- ukunamathisela ingane ebuciko bokubheka izithombe, futhi ekupheleni kwenkathi ehlobo ukwenza isithombe se-collage;
- njalo ngempelasonto ukuhlela amaqembu ezingane zabo, ngempela kungenzeka, uma ingane isivele inabangane bayo "ku-dacha."