Noma yimuphi umzali ufuna ukubona ingane yakhe esikhathini esizayo njengomuntu ofundele futhi ophumelelayo. Sithemba ukuziqhenya ngamamaki amahle nokuphumelela kwengane esikoleni. Wonke umuntu ufuna ingane idlule abazali bakhe, kodwa ukhohlwe ngezinkinga zabo zesikole ezedlule. Abaningi bethu baqaphela ukuthi sekwephuzile ukuthi silahlekelwe yisikhathi esikoleni esiyigugu sokuthola ulwazi. Ngakho-ke, ungamangali ukuthi kungani izingane zingafuni ukufunda, kodwa kudingeke uzikhumbule.
Kungani izingane zingafuni ukufunda?
Uma ingane ingafuni ukutadisha, okokuqala, udinga ukuthola isizathu sokwehluleka okunjalo. Izizathu zokuthi kungani ingane engekho esikoleni ingaba okuningi:
- ukungavumelani nokuxabana nezingane;
- ukuphikisana nomfundisi;
- isihloko esingathandeki nesingenangqondo;
- ubunzima bokuvuka ekuseni;
- ukukhathala noma ukucindezeleka;
- ukungathandeki esihlokweni;
- ukushisekela komshini ngokweqile.
Lapho ingane ifunda kabi, abazali bazama ukuthola impendulo yombuzo, ukuthi benzeni? Okokuqala, zama ukuthola isizathu salokhu enkulumweni eyimfihlo nezolile. Ungakhuluma ngeminyaka yakho yesikole, izimo ekilasini, mayelana nezikhonzi zakho ezizithandayo nezingathandeki. Noma utshele ingane ngemikhuba yabothisha bakho kanye nobuhlobo bakho nabalingane nabo ekilasini. Ukubuyisela izimo ezijwayelekile zobungane bakhe esikoleni, uzonikeza ingane ithuba lokushintshela ezinkingeni zempilo yakhe yesikole. Ingane izovuleka ngokwengeziwe, futhi lokhu kuzokusiza uqonde ukuthi kungani ingane ingafundi kahle.
Ngokuvamile ingane ayifuni ukutadisha nokuya esikoleni uma ingenalo ubuhlobo nothisha noma ubuhlobo obuyinkimbinkimbi nabalingane nabo. Abazali kudingeka bazame ukugcina okungahambisani nakho konke ukuphila kwesikole ukuze bangaphuthelwa umzuzu futhi basize ingane ukuthi ixazululwe ingxabano ngesikhathi.
Isizathu esiningi kakhulu sokuthi kungani abantwana bengathandi ukufunda ubuvila. Futhi kuza lapho ingane inesithukuthezi futhi ingathandeki ezifundweni zakhe. Umsebenzi oyinhloko kamama nobaba ukuheha nokuheha umntwana, ukuze inqubo yokufunda ibe mnandi.
Ungachazela izingane ukuthi ukutholakala kolwazi kusekelwe esimisweni somdlalo wekhompyutha. Udinga kahle kahle futhi udlulise isigaba esisodwa somdlalo ukuze uhambise ezingeni eliyinkimbinkimbi, uthuthukise amakhono akho. Mchaze ukuthi ngendlela efanayo, isinyathelo ngesinyathelo, njengemdlalo, kukhona nokufunda esikoleni. Uma ingane ingafuni ukufunda ukufunda, esikhathini esizayo iyovimbela ukufunda kwanoma yikuphi isihloko lapho ukushelela kokufunda kudingekile. Lapho ingane ingafuni ukufunda ukuloba, kuyoba nzima esikhathini esizayo ukucacisa ngokushesha indaba yokufundisa. Abazali kudingeka bazame ukumchazela izibopho ezinengqondo, ukuze inqubo yokufunda iqhubeke, ngakho-ke iyathakazelisa futhi iphumelele.
Ungasiza kanjani ingane engafuni ukufunda?
Kungani ingane ifunda kabi, lapho kuye, njengokuthi, zonke izimo ziyadalwa. Amaphutha wabazali ngendlela efanayo yokufunda ingafakwa lapha. Uhlu lwezenzo ezingafanele zithathwe lingasiza ukuphendula lo mbuzo:
- Ungaphoqeleli, ukusheshisa noma ukujezisa uma ingane ingafuni ukufunda.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, kufanele isekelwe futhi idunyiswe ngempumelelo encane kunazo zonke, ngenkathi ingagxila ekuhloleni ngokwazo. - Akudingekile ukugqugquzela isithakazelo ekutadisheni nezimfundiso zokuziphatha njalo. Ungalokothi uqhathanise nomuntu futhi unikeze izibonelo zezihlobo noma ofunda nabo. Lokhu kuzokwehlisa ukuzethemba kwezingane futhi, ngokuphambene, kuzosusa isifiso esikoleni nasesikoleni.
- Ungamcindezeli kakhulu: mhlawumbe ingane ayifuni ukufunda ekukhathala. Umthwalo wakhe ngokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo empilweni yansuku zonke ingaba mkhulu kakhulu, isibonelo, uma ingane ilayishwa kakhulu: wenza imidlalo eminingi, umculo, ukudansa, njll.