Ufuna ukulungisa isimanga kumuntu othandekayo wakho, kodwa ungazi kanjani? Mhlawumbe imibono yethu yezimangalo zomuntu othandekayo futhi oyithandayo, futhi indoda yakho izothanda lokhu "isipho".
Yimangalisa kangakanani ukuhlela othandekayo?
Yeka ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukumangalela othandekayo uma kunesifiso esikhulu sokujabulisa indoda, kodwa ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani, awunalo mqondo. Le nkinga kufanelekile ukuhlola ngokuningiliziwe.
Okokuqala, ake sibone ukuthi yikuphi okumangazayo abantu abayithandayo. Mhlawumbe labo abajabulisa iso, bajabulele ukunambitheka, futhi yibo labo abagcizelela uthando nesithakazelo kowesifazane wakhe kuye.
Manje khumbula ukuthi yini ongayithanda kakhulu indoda yakho, futhi wenze ngale ndlela. Uthanda ukudla okunomsoco - upheke isidlo sothando, uphuphe udumo, ulandele isihloko esiphephandabeni noma umagazini wendawo, ngentshiseko uphatha ukuhlolwa kobulili - cabanga ngokushesha ukuthi awuzange umangaze yini okwamanje.
Yini, futhi akukho mqondo noma kwenzeke konke? Bese nanka ezinye izinketho ezimbalwa mayelana nokuthi ungamangala kanjani othandekayo wakho.
Indlela yokuhlela ukumangalela othandekayo wakho?
- Ufuna ukuhlela ukumangala okungavamile kubathandekayo bakho? Kumemele ekuhambeni okuhlangene epakini (okungcono kusihlwa), okuzophela ngezimoto. Ukuhlelwa kwezibhamu kungcono kwesokunxele kwenkampani ekhethekile ngalokhu. Futhi okukhethwa kukho okuhle ukuqaliswa okuhlanganyelwe kwezibani zaseShayina ezikhanyayo. Lapha angenziwa ngezandla zabo.
- Ungenza isimanga esincane, kodwa esimnandi kumuntu othandekayo ngokushintsha isithombe sangemuva kwideskithophu yakho kwikhompyutha yakho jikelele. Noma ungashintsha isilondolozi sesikrini, ulobe lapho okungahle kumnandi noma kumnandi. Vele usethe isikhathi esilandelayo lapho lesi sibukeli kufanele sivele, hhayi esikhulu kakhulu. Isibonelo, imizuzwana engu-2-5 ngemuva kokuthi ikhompyutha ingasebenzi, ngaphandle kwalokho umthandi wakho angase angakuboni ukumangala kwakho. Kodwa, uma konke kusebenza, uyojabula ukubona umyalezo onjalo kusuka kuwe ekusebenzeni kwekhefu.
- Ukumangala kwangempela kumuntu othandekayo kungaba iwebhusayithi noma ibhulogi edalwe udumo lwakhe. Lapho ungabeka izindaba ezimnandi, zothando phakathi kokuphila kwakho ndawonye, izithombe zomuntu othandekayo. Isixhumanisi sokuqala sensiza singanikezwa kuzo zonke izihlobo nabangane, ukuze ziphawulwe lapho. Ngemuva kwalokho, emva kwalokho ozithandayo ongagijima lapho, makamangele futhi ajabule, bangaki abantu abazama ukumjabulisa.
- Uma ungakaze uhlanganyele nezenzo zakhe zokuzilibazisa ngehlobo oluthile lomdlalo noma isiqondiso somculo, umangaze ngamathikithi ekhonsathi yebhola lakho ozithandayo noma umdlalo wethimba lakho ozithandayo. Ukumangaza okukhulu nakakhulu kumuntu othandekayo kuyoba uma uzoya kulo mcimbi naye.
- Emafilimu aseMelika, ngokushesha nje lapho kumangalela isoka lakhe, ngokushesha nje lapho ikhekhe elikhulu liqala ukuvela nentombazane ephuma kuyo. Kodwa-ke, asikho eMelika, kodwa akukho okubi nakakhulu. Hlela ikhekhe elinjalo, ungacela ukuba wenze ingxenye yalo, kodwa ukugcwaliswa kwekhekhe, ngokwemvelo, kumnandi kunazo zonke.
- Ukumangazwa ngokocansi kumuntu othandekayo kungaba yisiteleka esenziwe nguwe. Into esemqoka ukwehlisa amahloni akho, thola i-vestment enhle futhi udale isimo esiseduze. Lokhu kuzokusiza umculo omnandi, ukukhanya okuthulisiwe, okuyinto elula ukudala ngamacala amnyama noma amakhandlela nama-aromas amafutha abalulekile. Izembatho zakhe kufanele nazo zinikezwe ukunakwa okukhethekile, khumbula ukuthi indoda ayikuthandi ukubuka kuphela, mhlawumbe iyofuna ukuthatha ingxenye ekuvezeni kwakho. Masibeke ucingo lokuqeda, kodwa ukuthi konke akukwenzeki ngokushesha, khetha ama-corsets kuma-hooks amancane nokuchofoza okuyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa hhayi ngembani.