Ungazijwayeza noma kuphi noma kunini. Umuntu wanamuhla, ngenxa yokuqashwa kwakhe, izindawo zokungcebeleka ngisho nakwabajwayele nge-intanethi. Kuyinto elula futhi umphakathi awunqatshelwe. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi lowo oxhumana nabo cishe, waba ngumuntu owanele futhi othakazelisayo empeleni.
Kuphi, kanjani futhi nobani?
Enenethiwekhi kunamasayithi amaningi ongabeka ngayo iphrofayela yakho bese uxhumana nabantu abahlukene. Ukuqondiswa yimithetho eminingana mayelana nokuthi ungazijwayeza kanjani futhi kuphi lapho usebenzisa i-intanethi, uzokwandisa ngokuphawulekayo amathuba okuxoxisana okuhle
- unquma "indawo" yomhlangano. Khetha enye yezindawo zokuphola mahhala bese udala ikhasi lakho;
- zizinqume ukuthi yini ekugcineni ofuna ukuyithola kusuka ekuthandeni okubonakalayo. Uma uphishekela umgomo wokuthola "umlingani wakho womphefumulo", khona-ke ungavinjelwa, uziqiniseke futhi unemvelo ekukhulumisaneni;
- layisha izithombe ezinhle. Kungcono ukwenza ngaphandle kwemiphumela, okuvame ukulimaza ubuhle bomvelo bomuntu;
- zama ukujwayele kwi-intanethi ngendlela yokuqala futhi ungabhala imishwana encane njengokuthi "Sawubona!" noma "Ingabe sizokwazi omunye nomunye?";
- Ungasebenzisi ama-templates ekuhambeni, izindlela zokukhuluma zingenakuchazwa ngokuphelele kuwe;
- ngokusho kwezibalo, abasebenzisi abangu-95% besayithi lokuphola baphendule ngemuva kwesipho esivele sinikezwe;
- ngaphambi kokuba ubhale umuntu oyithandayo, funda iphrofayili yakhe ngokuningiliziwe - thola izintshisekelo, izindawo azivakashelayo;
- uma ufuna ukuhlangana ku-intanethi nendoda ehloniphekile ebuhlotsheni obunzima nomndeni, qaphela isimo sakhe somshado. Amadoda ashadile, njengomthetho, afune ukuzijabulisa enetheni, khetha ukuxhumana okulula futhi angakunikeza "imihlangano esondelene kakhulu" kuphela.
Ngemva kokuxhumana "okuqinile" kwinethiwekhi, ungesabi umhlangano wangempela nomuntu. Yiba ngokwakho futhi uchaze ngokucacile imicabango yakho. Lowo ozothola umphakathi wezithakazelo nokuqonda okuhlangene, ngokuqinisekile uzolungisa lokho okulindelekile mayelana nokuthandana okungokoqobo.