Abanye besifazane abakhulelwe, ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene (ngokuvamile kaningi ngokwemvelo) banganaki usizo lwezokwelapha. Lokhu kungenxa yokunakekelwa kwe-obstetric kuphela, kodwa nokuhlolwa okudingekayo nokuhlolwa okudingekayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Abesifazane abanjalo abahloli ukuhlolwa kwe-ultrasound, okusho ukuthi bangakwazi ukubona kuphela ubulili bomntwana ngokuma kwesisu kanye nezinkolelo ezithandwayo ezihambisana nokuthandwa kokudla komama ozayo.
Indlela yokunquma ubulili bomntwana esiswini?
Umama wesikhathi esizayo uhlale ekwazi ukuhlala ngaphakathi kwakhe. Futhi le nentshisekelo yayihlala njalo, futhi ayizange ivele nje nje nje ngenxa yesidingo sokuthenga i-dowry yombala othize. Ngaso sonke isikhathi, kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, abesifazane bazi ukuthi banganquma kanjani ubulili bomntwana ngokuma kwesisu.
Ngomunye wesigamu sesithathu, i-tummy ithola ifomu ehlukile kakhulu nomama, ukwazi ukuthi kunjani ukucacisa ubulili bezingane ezizayo ngesisu, ukubheka esibukweni kuzokwazi ukuthi ngubani ongayilindela. Noma, lokhu kubonakala kahle kwabanye.
Uma owesifazane elindele umfana, khona-ke yena, ngokungavamile, akalokothi alahlekelwe umuno wakhe. Okusho ukuthi, ngeke kubonakale kusuka phambili, kodwa awukwazi ngisho nokuqaphela ukuthi owesifazane ukhulelwe.
Isici sesibili samamama abafana siyisisu esinzima esinenkinobho yokuvuvukala esiswini. Kubonakala sengathi iqondiswe phambili, yingakho izinhlangothi zigoba futhi isihlalo sibonakala. Ngaphandle kwefomu lakhe, isisu nomfana sisezingeni eliphansi kakhulu kunalo ntombazane.
Kodwa, naphezu kwezibonakaliso ezibonakalayo zokuba khona emzimbeni womfana noma intombazane, akukhona njalo ukukwazi ukuthola lokhu ngamathuba angu-100%. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukuma kwesisu kusencike endaweni ye-placenta.
Uma ifakwe emhlane noma ohlangothini oluhlangothini, isisu sisindilinga, kodwa uma sibheka phambili-ke siba nzima nakakhulu noma sinengqondo-njengomfana. Ngakho-ke, ngokuzikhandla, ukuma kwesisu akusiyo yonke inkomba yezocansi ezithile.