Indlela yokuba ngumlumbi empilweni yangempela?

Mhlawumbe, akekho owesifazane, okungenani ekujuleni komphefumulo wakhe, angeke afise ukuba ngumlumbi. Cha, hhayi ku-broomstick, hhayi uBaba Yaga, kodwa ngomuntu ofana no-Margarita waseBulgakov. Udinga amandla ukuze athathe impilo yakhe enzima.

Kuthatha ukuthini ukuba abe withakathi?

Umbuzo wendlela yokuba ngumlumbi empilweni yangempela? Indlela yokusebenzisa amandla amasha, yimuphi umfanekiso ozowakhetha nokuthi ngabe uzozinikela abanye ekushintsheni kobuntu . Empeleni, ukutholakala kwe-intuition ethuthukisiwe kakhulu kunika owesifazane owesifazane. Abantu abaningi bazi ukuqagela hhayi okubi. Futhi uma owesifazane eqalekisa umuntu osuka enhliziyweni, isifiso singagcwaliseka. Ngakho-ke, kuzo zonke izici, isipelingi sesivele sinomvelo.

Yingakho, mhlawumbe, yonke intombazane, owesifazane, engakhulumi ngabesifazane abadala, ezwa ngemuva, noma ngisho nangomuntu siqu: "Witch!" Futhi kwakungazange kuthiwa njalo ngentukuthelo.

Amandla angaphezu kwemvelo ekusebenzeni okuhle

Iningi, noma kunjalo, cishe libuza ukuthi ungaba kanjani ulobi omhlophe. Ngakho-ke isimo salo wesifazane sihlelwe, ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuba sikhathalele abathandekayo, sibavikele, sibasize. Ngakho-ke, umgomo wabathakathi abaningi, ngokungavamile, akukubi, kodwa kuhle.

Kudingeka siqonde indlela yokuba ngumlingo wangempela. Akuyona nje u-anti ononya noma owesifazane ophakanyisiwe, kodwa indoda engakwazi ukuzitholela ekuphileni kwayo izinto ezifiselekayo. Yiqiniso, ngaphandle kokubekezela nokukholelwa okuqinile kokungaphezu kwemvelo, lokhu akunakwenzeka.

Ngokuvamile, abathakathi yibo abanesisodwa sezihlobo eziye zaba njalo noma ezazingokwemvelo. Kodwa futhi kwenzeka ukuthi intombazane ingase isencane kakhulu ukuba ikwazi ukuthola ngaphakathi ikhono elingalindelekile lokufeza okuthile kuphela ngamandla okucabanga. Kubuye kwenzeke ukuthi emva kokushaqeka okukhulu - ukufa kwesihlobo, ukulimala okuphazamisa inkambo yokuphila evamile, isiteleka somlilo, noma yimuphi umuntu ngokuzumayo uthola ezinye izici ezingenalo ngaphambili.

Omunye kufanele futhi azi ukuthi angabe ngumlumbi empilweni. Ngokwayo, lesi sipho asinalutho. Into esemqoka ukufunda ukuthi ungayilawula kanjani: ukukwazi ukusebenzisa amandla owesifazane othola ngokuthola amathuba amasha. Uma usuvele enikezwe okuthile okungaphezu kokumane nokuqonda, umuntu kufanele azame ukuthuthukisa la makghono ngokuzimela noma okungenani angaphazamise nabo ukuzithuthukisa. Ungayinaki izwi lakho elingaphakathi, unake izibonakaliso zesikhathi esizayo kanye nezenzakalo, ugcine ngokucophelela abantu, izilwane kanye nemvelo.

Kulabo abanesithakazelo sokuthi bangaba kanjani inkohlakalo, kodwa abanalo ithalenta langempela kulokhu, iseluleko sinye kuphela eyodwa - yokuqala, udinga ukuqaliswa, okungukuthi, inqubo yokuqalwa kwaba withakathi. Kodwa kulokhu, ngaphezu kweziphonso, udinga ukukholwa okuphelele kuwe nasemandleni akho. Kubalulekile ukuphupha, ukulinda isimangaliso, ukuzama ukuyiheha, ukuzama ukulandela iqiniso ukuze kube njengoba kudingekile futhi ukuxosha imvelaphi emibi evela kuzo kanye nezihlobo zayo.

Ngakho-ke, ukuze ube ngumlumbi kufanele afunde zonke izinhlobo zobungqingili obungabonakali, ngaphandle kwalokho enye izwe engeyona into engeke ilalelwe, futhi ngeke ivuleke. Yiqiniso, zonke lezi zinguquko kufanele zigcinwe ekusithekeni okuqinile kakhulu. Leli zwe aliyithandi uma i-curious ibheka kulo. Futhi, yebo, akufanele silindele imiphumela ngokushesha. Izinselelo zansuku zonke zizoqala ngokuzumayo ukuphenduka ngokungaqondakali, bese zivele zicacile ukunqoba.