Lapho izingane ezintathu zihlala egumbini lezingane, izingxabano nokulwa kwenzeka kaningi. Kuvame ukuthi amacala uma omunye wezingane, njengombuso, encane, engamukelwa emidlalweni yabadala. Uma umntwana ejabulela ukunakekelwa okujulile kubazali, khona-ke ezinye izingane zingase zibe nomhawu nokufutheka. Abazali kufanele bazwele kakhulu izingane zabo futhi bangavumeli ukuxabana nokucasuka kulokhu.
Ukwakhiwa kwegumbi labantwana kwezingane ezintathu kudingeka kucatshangelwe ngendlela yokuthi ingane ngayinye inesikhala sayo siqu. Lokhu kungenziwa ngehlukaniso noma ifenisha.
Ukukhethwa kwemibhede ekamelweni labantwana labantwana abathathu yisenzakalo esibaluleke kakhulu. Abakhiqizi befenisha banamuhla banikeza ukhetho olubanzi lwezinto zangaphakathi zamakamelo ezingane. Inketho ekahle yezingane ezintathu imibhede emibhedeni eyodwa. Kodwa, ngeshwa, akuzona zonke izindlu ezikwazi ukufaka ifenisha eningi kangaka. Ngakho-ke, ekamelweni labantwana labatsatfu, ungasebenzisa: imibhede emibili neyodwa kanye nombhede owodwa wezintathu (uma kwenzeka igumbi liphezulu). Ukukhetha umbhede ngomklamo othakazelisayo - umbala, isiteleka esingavamile noma ifomu, abazali bazinikela ngemini yokuthula eningi. Izazi zengqondo zithi ukuthatha umhlalaphansi kukhula ngokushesha futhi akudingi ukukholelwa okuningi, uma ingane ngayinye ithanda umbhede wayo.
Inhlangano yendawo yokusebenza noma yokudlala yengane ngayinye ekamelweni labantwana labantwana abathathu nayo ayiyona into elula. Njengoba kungakhathaliseki ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukwakha isikhala esinqunyelwe ingane ngayinye, indawo yamakilasi kufanele ihlukaniswe ngezingxenye ezincane etafuleni. Izingane zeminyaka yobudala kufanele zinikezwe ithuba lokuzikhethela isihlalo sabo etafuleni. Ezinganeni zasenkulisa, indawo yemidlalo ingabelwa.
Ikamelo labantwana labantwana abathathu akuyona indlela engcono kunazo zonke kubazali nakwabantwana ngokwabo. Ngakho-ke, ngesikhathi sokuqala, izingane kufanele zixazululwe.
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