Ukukhulelwa kwesibili, njengomthetho, akufani nesikhathi sokuqala. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane olungiselela ukuba umama ngezikhathi ezimbili nezilandelwayo angase abhekane nokuqala komsebenzi emsebenzini wesonto lama-38 lokukhulelwa ngisho nangaphambili.
Ngokuvamile, ukukhulelwa kwesibili nokwalandela kuqhubeka kancane kancane, futhi ngokulandelana, ukubeletha kwesibili nokwesithathu kungenzeka esikhathini esidlule, cishe emasontweni angu-38 okukhulelwa, ngoba i- perenashivanie kulabo besifazane abanomjaho wama- molecule ayivamile.
Amaviki angu 37 kuya ku-42 abhekwa njengendlela efanele yokubeletha, ngoba umntwana usevele egcwele, ekhulile futhi ekulungele ukuzalwa. Kodwa ukuze lokhu kwenzeke, ingane kufanele ilungele ukubeletha, kodwa futhi nomama, emzimbeni lapho ibhalansi ethile ye-hormonal kufanele ifinyelelwe.
Ungazami ukwenza ngokulingana ukubeletha kokubeletha, ngisho noma kungewona owokuqala, ngoba noma yikuphi ukugqugquzela kubhekene nezinkinga. Ngalesi sikhathi, izithelo cishe azitholi isisindo, liyeka ukukhula, ngoba liqinile kakhulu esibelethweni. Kancipha kancane kancane inani le-amniotic fluid.
Izici zokukhulelwa kwesibili nokuzalwa kwesibili
Izingane zesibili ngokuvamile ziningi kunezokuqala. Ngaphambi kokubeletha kwesibili, isisu somfazi angeke siwile, kanti isikhala singasuki kuze kuqale ukusebenza.
Ukuzalwa kwesibili kuqhubeka ngokushesha, kodwa kubonakala sengathi kubuhlungu kakhulu kuneyokuqala, njengoba umlomo wesibeletho uvulwa ngokushesha.
Ngisho nangomntwana okhudlwana, ukubeletha kokubeletha kuhamba kalula, njengoba umzimba ukhumbula lokho okudingeka kwenziwe. futhi isisu sowesifazane angeke siwile, futhi isikhwama singasuki kuze kuqale ukusebenza.
Ukuzalwa kwesibili kuqhubeka ngokushesha, kodwa kubonakala sengathi kubuhlungu kakhulu kuneyokuqala, njengoba umlomo wesibeletho uvulwa ngokushesha. Ngisho nangomntwana okhudlwana, ukubeletha kokubeletha kuhamba kalula, njengoba umzimba ukhumbula lokho okudingeka kwenziwe.
Isikhathi sokuqala, esihlala amahora ambalwa nje ngaphambi kokubeletha, sikhulunywa kakhulu ekuzalweni kwesibili. Emasontweni angama-38 wokubeletha futhi okuqhubekayo owesifazane angase angazizwa njengabaphambili, njengaphambi kokuzalwa kokuqala. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane kufanele anakekele ngokwengeziwe isimo sakhe. Mayelana nokusondela kokubeletha kungasho ubuhlungu bokudonsa esiswini, ithoni yesisu , ukukhishwa okuqondile.
Ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwesibili, izimpi zokuqeqesha ziba ngokushesha.
Uma ukuzalwa kokuqala kuhamba kahle futhi ekukhulelweni kwesibili umntwana unesethulo esifanele, usayizi ojwayelekile, nokukhulelwa kuvela ngaphandle kokucindezeleka, kanti okwesibili owesifazane uzophinde abelethe yedwa.
Uma ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili kuphelile ngesigaba sokudla, cishe cishe, okwesibili owesifazane uzophinde ahlinzwe, njengoba odokotela abambalwa bengengozini yokuvumela owesifazane ukuba abelethe ngokuzimela ngaphandle kwesibazi esibelethweni.
Kodwa-ke, uma owesifazane efuna ukuzala yena ngokwakhe, khona-ke emavikini angu-38 sekuyisikhathi sokuya esibhedlela, lapho bekulungele ukubeletha ngokusebenzisa izikhumbuzo zokubeletha zemvelo ngemuva kwesigaba sokugcina.
Kodwa kaningi ngemva kokuba odokotela abaqashile ngaphambili bangavumeli owesifazane ukuba abelethe yena ngokwakhe, ngoba ugcwele umgoqo wokuhlukanisa. Isigaba sokuphinda esiphezulu esiphezulu ku-2, 3 kanye nokuzalwa okulandelako kwenziwa ngokuqondile emavikini angu-38 wokukhulelwa.
Abesifazane abaningi abakhulelwe izingane eziyisibili nabalandelayo abanenkinga enkulu futhi bazizwa ngaphambi kokubeletha futhi bekhululeke kakhulu ngalokho okuzayo.
Ngesonto lama-38, owesifazane ongasengumntwana wokuqala, kufanele alungiselele ngokugcwele ukubeletha. Kumele abe nefoni yesidakamizwa ayoyizala yona; izinto ezidingekayo kuye kanye nosana esibhedlela kumele ziqoqwe; Kumelwe kube nesivumelwano nezihlobo noma abangane abangakwazi ukuletha ngokushesha owesifazane esibhedlela nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sosuku.
Ngezinye izikhathi abanye omama abasazoqhubeka befuna "ukudonsa isikhathi" ngaphambi kokubeletha, kodwa lokhu okunethezeka okwesibili kungase kungabi khona.