Owesifazane wanamuhla akudingeki akhathazeke kuphela ngokumenza ahlanzeke ekhaya futhi aphunga njalo izimpahla ezibhakabhaka ezintsha ne-borsch elimnandi, namhlanje naye wakhela umsebenzi futhi unesikhathi sokuvakashela amaqembu empilo nokuzijabulisa ukuze athole imibono ehlonishwayo yendoda. Umdlalo onjalo wokuphila, yiqiniso, uvumela ukuba uzuze okuningi, kodwa uletha izinkinga eziningi - ukucindezeleka , ukukhathala okungapheli nezinye izinkinga ezibangelwa ukucindezeleka okuqhubekayo. Wonke umuntu ubhekane nalokhu ngendlela yakhe, futhi ngezinye izikhathi aphendukela ochwepheshe abanamathuluzi amaningi okusiza ezimweni ezinjalo. Futhi kamuva nje enye indlela yokulwa nokucindezeleka yatholwa - amanethiwekhi omphakathi, ngaphambilini ayebizwa ngokuthi yizici ezimbi.
Ukuxhumana nomphakathi kusiza kanjani ukubhekana nokucindezeleka?
Ngokwezibalo zaseRussia nase-Ukraine abantu basebenzisa amahora angu-11.3 no-11 ngenyanga ngenyanga yokuxhumana nomphakathi, ngokulandelana. Futhi lokhu kubanika indawo yokuqala emhlabeni kule nkhomba, elandelwa yi-Argentina neTurkey. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi isikhathi esichithwa ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi ikakhulukazi sanda ngokuqhubekayo, eminyakeni yamuva lesi sibalo sinezintathu. Izazi zengqondo zazinomdla kulo mzuzu futhi zafinyelela esiphethweni esinengqondo - ukuxhumana nomphakathi kunceda ukubhekana nesizungu futhi ukubhekana nokucindezeleka. Futhi lezi zixazululo zingaphezu kwezinto zangempela, ezinsukwini zamanje ezingaphezu kwesigamu sazakhamuzi zihlala zithola umsebenzi okhululekile, zihlushwa yedwa, futhi zithintekile. Abantu basebenzisa ukuphumula ngaphambi kwezikrini ze-TV, futhi manje bakwenza ngesikhathi sokuxhumana nabantu.
Le ndlela ikuvumela ukuba ubhekane nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene, isibonelo, bayakwazi ukusiza abantu abakunzima ukuxhumana nabanye. E-Intanethi, engaboni i-interlocutor, kulula ukuxhumana, ngakho-ke amanethiwekhi omphakathi angaba yisinyathelo sokuqala ekuqaleni kokuphila okusebenzayo. Lapha ungathola abantu abanentshisekelo yabo ehambelana neyakho, bajoyine ngamaqembu futhi babelane ngolwazi kanye nomoya omuhle. Futhi amanethiwekhi akuvumela ukuba uthumele okuqukethwe kwakho ukuze uzizwe ukuvunywa nokwamukelwa ukuthi abasebenzisi bakhulume ngosizo lwezinto ezizithandayo namazwana. Ukwengeza okungeziwe kokuxhumana nomphakathi kubonakala ngokungaziwa, kufihla ngemuva kwe-avatar nesiteketiso, umuntu ongaqinisekisiwe uzokwazi ukuvikela iphuzu lakhe lokubuka, okungenakwenzeka ukuba anqunywe ngaphandle kwesikhala esivamile.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi impumelelo etholakalayo ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi akuphazamisi impilo yangempela nhlobo. Khokha imizwelo emihle enkundleni, abantu bavame ukuzizwa beqiniseka ngokwengeziwe empilweni ngaphandle kwenethiwekhi, futhi abaningi bathola inzuzo enamandla yokwakha. Futhi, izixhumanisi ezisungulwe kumanethiwekhi wokuxhumana nabantu zivame ukusiza ukuthola umsebenzi othakazelisayo futhi uqaphele amandla abo okudala.
Amanethiwekhi omphakathi nawo asiza omama abancane, nabo
Yiqiniso, zonke lezi amabhonasi ezimnandi zihlala kumanethiwekhi omphakathi zinganikwa kuphela ngesicelo semitha. Uma uhlala khona unomphela, ungakwazi ukuwa ngokuphelele empilweni yangempela, ugcine ukuqonda izwe elikuzungezile.