15 izingcaphuno ezihlakaniphile ezokukwenza ucabange

Ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukuyeka, khumbula ingqondo yezwe, uthathe umoya ojulile ucabange ngekusasa. Quo vadis? - Siya kuphi? Ingabe siyahamba ngendlela efanele? Mhlawumbe kufanele ushintshe inkambo? Yini esizama ukuyifinyelela? Kungenzeka ukuthi izitatimende zabameli abakhulu besintu zizokusiza ukuthi uthole iziqephu ezidingekayo.

Ukuphila komuntu wanamuhla ongeyena ukugeleza kolwazi kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi kunamakhono amaningi futhi ngokuvamile abantu balahlekile phakathi kwezimo ezihlukahlukene nezindlela zansuku zonke. Kubalulekile ukwazi ngesikhathi ukuthi uqala ukuhamba nokugeleza, futhi ungavumeli izimo zithathwe. Yiba ngumdali wempilo yakho, ungathembeli ekupheleni kwesikhathi - inhlanhla - intombazane enhle, ungase ungamomotheka.

Funda lezi zitatimende ezijulile zabantu abadumile, zicabangele, futhi, mhlawumbe, zizokusiza ukuba uhlanganise impilo yakho. Thatha isikhashana emisebenzini yakho yansuku zonke bese uthola isikhathi sakho.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unomatasa - emsebenzini noma ekhaya nezingane - zama ukubeka eceleni okungenani amaminithi ambalwa nsuku zonke ukushintshela komunye umvuthwandaba futhi ucabange ngokubaluleka kokuba khona. Futhi-ubani owaziyo? - mhlawumbe lezi zingcaphuno ezinkulu zizokusiza uthole indawo yakho empilweni.

1. "Ngolunye usuku esikhathini esizayo uzoqonda ukuthi iminyaka yomzabalazo yayiyiyona engcono kakhulu ekuphileni", uSigmund Freud.

2. "Uma ungathandi into ethile, yishintshe. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuwuguqula, uphathe ngokuhlukile, "uMaya Angelou.

3. "Inselele enkulu kuleli zwe ukuthi iziwula nezixuku zihlale zizethemba, futhi amadoda ahlakaniphile agxeka ukungabaza," kusho uBertrand Russell.

4. "Ukuzindla, lapho thina siphila khona, kuhlukile kulabo abaholayo lapho sifuna khona," u-Albert Einstein.

5. "Ngitshele futhi ngizokhohlwa. Ngibonise - futhi ngizokhumbula. Ngenze ngikwenze futhi ngizoqonda, "u-Confucius.

6. "Ngikholelwa ukuthi konke kunesizathu. Abantu bashintsha ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungayeka kanjani ukuhamba; konke okuzungezile kugoqa, ukuze ufunde ukuqonda lapho konke kujwayelekile; ukholwa uma uqamba amanga ukuze ufunde ukuzethemba wena kuphela; futhi ngezinye izikhathi into enhle ihlukana zibe yizicucu ukuze kube ngcono okungcono, "uMarilyn Monroe.

7. "Ungalokothi uvumele ukuthuliswa, ungalokothi uvumele noma ubani kini ukuba enze umhlatshelo. Ungathathi ukuphazanyiswa komunye umuntu empilweni yakho - uzenzele wena, "u-Robert Frost.

8. "Uzoyeka ukukhathazeka ngalokho abanye abakucabangayo ngawe, uma ubona ukuthi kunqabile kangakanani," kusho u-Eleanor Roosevelt.

9. "Uma okuthile kungenzi imali, akusho ukuthi akudingi lutho," kusho u-Arthur Miller.

10. "Thembisa ukuthi uzokhumbula phakade: unesibindi kunokuba ucabange, unamandla kunokuba ubonakale, futhi uqaphele kunalokho ucabanga," u-Alan Alexander Milne.

11. "Kunendawo eyodwa kuphela emhlabeni ongakwenza kangcono ngokuzethemba - nguwe," u-Aldous Huxley.

12. "Umuthi ukwahlulelwa ngezithelo zawo, nomuntu ngemisebenzi. Isenzo esihle asisoze sishiywa ngaphandle kokunakwa. Labo abahlwanyelayo bavuna ubuhlobo, kodwa ngubani ozokhula, uzoqoqa uthando, "uSt Basil.

U-Charles Darwin uthi: "Akuzona izinhlobo ezinamandla kunazo zonke kodwa hhayi abahlakaniphile kakhulu abaphila, kodwa labo abakwazi ukuphendula ngokushesha ukushintsha."

14. "Isikhathi sincane kakhulu kulabo abalindile, abashesha kakhulu kulabo abamesabayo, futhi banelangazelela labo abalilayo, abafushane kakhulu kulabo abajabulayo, kodwa kulabo abathandayo, isikhathi siphelile", uHenry Van Dyke .

15. "Akudingeki ube yindoda enhle ukwenza okuthile, ukuncintisana nomunye umuntu. Ungaba ngumfana ojwayelekile, oshukumiseleka ngokufanele ukufeza imigomo enzima, "uSir Edmund Hillary.