Amaphupho lapho ubona othandekayo, lokhu kuyiqiniso elijwayelekile. Mhlawumbe awuzange uvumele ukuhamba kwesikhathi esedlule futhi ezingeni elingenakuqhathaniswa osizwayo. Amaphupho anjalo angaba yinkinga kuwe ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuqhubekela phambili esiteshini esisha empilweni bese usho lokho okushiwo esikhathini esidlule. Umhumushi unikeza izincazelo ezimbalwa zezithombe ezibonwayo.
Ngokusekelwe ezinkolelweni ezidumile, umuntu ovela emaphupheni akho, ngokuqinisekile ucabanga ngawe, ukuthi ngokuphathelene nomlingani wangaphambili ngeke akwazi ukuhlehlisa ukuzethemba.
Yini umlingani wangaphambili ophuphayo?
Ukulala kuxwayisa ukuthi empilweni yangempela uzokwenza isenzo sokukhwabanisa, okuzoholela emiphumeleni engathandeki. Lapho umuntu osemusha ebonisa ukuzwa okufudumayo - kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi kufanele ulungiselele izinkathazo, hhayi nje kuphela okuhle. Uma ephusheni ubanga nomlingani wangaphambili, khona-ke, esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, ulindele ukumangala okukhulu. Ubulili naye buthembisa ukuhlukumeza kwengxabano endala.
Esinye isizathu esenza ukuba amaphupho asengumfana abe ukulinganisa okungaqondakali kwakhe nomlingani wakhe wamanje. Zama ukuyeka lokhu, ngoba lokhu kungabangela izinkinga ezinkulu empeleni. Iphupho ngomuntu owangumlingani wangaphambili lingabonisa ukuba khona kokwesaba ukuhlubuka noma ukukhashelwa ngabathandekayo. Uma ubona umlingani owedlule eshadile futhi ejabule - isibonakaliso sokuthi empeleni uzothethelela umuntu ngokuthuka. Uma uzibona njengomfazi wendodana eyayiyinsizwa, kufanele ulungiselele izinkathazo nokukhathazeka. Ukuchaza ukuthi kungani umlingani wangaphambili ephupha okomomothekayo olandelayo - cishe empilweni yangempela wena ungabaza ngokungathandeki ubuhlobo bakho bamanje.
Ephusheni, wabona uthando lwakho lokuqala, cishe, lubonisa ukuthi ukhathele impilo yabantu abadala, egcwele umthwalo wemfanelo, ukukhathala, njll. UDreambook uncoma kuleli cala ukuphazamisa, isibonelo, uyahamba noma wenze umhlangano wothando.
Thola isipho sokuphupha kusuka kumuntu owayengumthandi wangaphambili - i-harbinger yokukhokha okungenzeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Uma ushaya noma ubulala umlingani kusuka esikhathini esidlule, khona-ke esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzoba nenhlanhla kuyo yonke imizamo. Umqashi uyala ukuthi angesabi futhi anqume ngisho nasezintweni ezimbi. Iphupho lapho ubona owake wangithanda khona ebuhlotsheni obusha, umemezela omaziyo omusha oyokuvumela ukuthi udale ubuhlobo. Uma ungaqapheli umfana wangaphambili ephusheni - luphawu lwezinguquko ezibalulekile ekuphileni, hhayi kuphela ezakho. Futhi, leli phupho libikezela ukuthi kungenzeka umhlangano nomlingani wangaphambili.
Kungani uthando lwangaphambili luhlala luphupha?
Kulokhu, kufanele ucabange ngokucophelela futhi uziqonde ngokwakho, mhlawumbe imizwa nokuxhumana phakathi kwakho okwamanje, futhi usengakwazi ukulungisa. Indoda yangaphambili iphupha, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo usunalo uthando olusha, ngakho-ke, cishe awunalo uthando olwanele nothando,
Usho ukuthini umfana owake wafa?
Kulesi simo, iphupho lingase libe yisixwayiso sokuthi usengozini enkulu. Uma umuntu oshonile ephusheni kukusiza ukuba ubhekane nenye inkinga noma ikulondoloze engozini enkulu - lesi isibonakaliso esihle esizokutshela ukuthi ungaphansi kokuvikelwa okungabonakali okuzobhekana nezinkinga eziningi.