Indlela yokuphila yanamuhla idinga intshiseko enkulu, siqhubeka sifunda futhi sikhula, sizama ukunikeza izingane zethu imfundo enhle futhi siqhubekele kuzo zonke izikole zentuthuko nokunye. Kodwa futhi kubalulekile ukuthuthukiswa kwamasiko kwengane. Ungahambaphi nengane ukukhulisa leveli yamasiko? Indlela yokuchitha isikhathi ngenzuzo futhi ushiye imizwa ecacile? Ake sibone ukuthi ungacabangani nokuthi ungachitha kanjani ngempelasonto nengane, lapho ungahamba khona nomndeni wonke.
Uzoya kuphi ukuhamba nomntwana?
Ngokuvame kakhulu kusihlwa, omama nabababa bathatha ingane yabo ukuhamba futhi bangene ngaphambi kombhede, kodwa, njengomthetho, awuhambanga ngaphezu kwepaki yesifunda. Ingane ithanda futhi ixhumana noontanga, abazali phakathi kwabo, kodwa kunezindawo eziningi lapho isikhathi singasichitha khona kumnandi kakhulu futhi sinenzuzo! Nazi amathiphu ambalwa kubazali lapho ungaya khona nengane yakho mahhala noma ngokusebenzisa imali encane kakhulu:
- Imibukiso yezilwane. Asikhombisi kahle amaphosta kanye nezimemezelo mayelana nezenzakalo edolobheni lethu. Imizwa eminingi yengane idala ukuxhumana nabazalwane abancane, ukunciphisa imvuthu embukisweni wamakati noma izinja, amathikithi lapho (uma ikhona), njengomthetho, engabizi.
- Kunezindawo eziningi lapho ungaya khona ingane ukuze uphumule ngemva kwesonto lomsebenzi. Uma umuzi unomfula , kuhle kusihlwa (ikakhulukazi ehlobo) ukuhlela isidlo sakusihlwa ngendlela yepikinikini ogwini.
- Uqinisekile ukuthi uyazi mayelana nayo yonke iminyuziyamu edolobheni lakho ? Ngokuqinisekile awusenayo emnyuziyamu isikhathi eside, kungani ungahambi lapho nengane - kufundiswa kakhulu kunanoma yiliphi ikhasi le-intanethi!
- Kunzima kakhulu ukukhetha ukuthi ungahamba kuphi nengane encane . Kodwa kusukela eminyakeni engu-2.5 kuyafaneleka kakhulu ukukhombisa ingane yaseshashalazini - kuyisimo sezinzwa. Ngendlela, kubazali, nalokhu ulwazi lokuzindla: inothi elithakazelisayo lokuqubuka, ungakwazi ukuhlela indawo enjalo yaseshashalazini ekhaya.
- Eholidini, ungaya nomntwana lapho uye khona isikhathi eside, kodwa uhlehliswa njalo ngenxa yokungabi nesikhathi. Isibonelo, amahora ambalwa e- zoo nakanjani azoshiya okuvelayo izinsuku ezimbalwa!
- Ukuya kuphi ukuphumula nomntwana osekhulile . Yenza ngokucophelela, cela ingane lapho ifuna khona
hamba, mhlawumbe, le ndawo iyoba isikhungo sokuzijabulisa. Yebo, ukhetho akuyona into embi kunazo zonke, kodwa kudingeka futhi uzilungiselele kahle! Yilapho abazali bengatholi khona isikhathi sokuhamba nengane, ngakho-ke lokhu kuyindawo yokudlala. Futhi kuyize! Akudingekile ukuba ukhethe ukusebenza okungaqondakali, qala ngomkhankaso wokudlala, umeme umngane wakho oseduze naye, ngakho-ke uzochitha isikhathi ngenzuzo, futhi ingane izokubonga kabili.
Isikhathi esichithwa nabazali esikhathini sethu sifanele isisindo sabo ngegolide. Thuthukisa ingane yakho ngokomoya nangokwemvelo, izibalo zizomfundisa futhi esikoleni, kodwa uzomsiza ukuba abe umuntu! Yiba nesithakazelo kukho konke okungathandeka kumntanakho: imiboniso, iminyuziyamu, ukusebenza, esekisini. Ngakho uhlale wazi ukuthi ungaphi ukuhamba nomntwana namahora ambalwa ayigugu onayo, ungachitha kumnandi futhi usebenzise kahle.