Futhi udumo lucindezelekile ...
Vumelana, eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule, ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha okuhlobene "nezifo" ezithinteka kakhulu, futhi isimo sengqondo esishintsha emisha esanda kukhishwa sasihlelwa ukuhluleka kwe-hormonal okwesikhashana noma ukukhathala okujwayelekile. Futhi, kubonakala sengathi isimo sashintsha kakhulu ngemva kokuba abesifazane abadume kakhulu emhlabeni bebike isimo sabo sengqondo ngemuva kokuzalwa kwezingane!
"Ngangilungele ukuzibulala ngokuzidonsa emgodini," "Ngangizizwa ngingumuntu olahlekile," "Ngangifuna ukugwinya amaphilisi ukuze ngingakhulumi ukukhala okuqhubekayo kwezingane" - futhi lokhu kungumncipho olwandle olusuka kulokho odumile heroines, ngubani, kubonakala sengathi, ukujabulela umama ...
1. Brooke Shields
Akunakwenzeka ukukholelwa, kodwa emva kokukhulelwa kwesisu, imizamo eyisikhombisa ye-IVF kanye nokuzalwa okulindeleke isikhathi eside ngendodakazi kaRowan ngo-2003, konke okwenziwa inkanyezi ye "Blue Lagoon" kwakuyisifiso sasendle ... ukufa!
Yebo, umlingisi nomlingisi ngokufanelekayo bangabhekwa njengephayona emlandweni ngokuqaphela ukucindezeleka kokuhamba ngemuva kokugula okukhulu. Konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwami u-Brooke Shields waqoqa futhi washicilelwa encwadini ethi "Lapho kuqala imvula: uhambo lwami ngokucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha."
"Ekugcineni nginomntwana onempilo futhi omuhle," kusho umlingisi, "kodwa angikwazi ukumbuka, bambambe izandla, ngimhubele, futhi ngimomotheka! Ngaphambili, lapho ngibona ingane evela komunye umuntu, ngangifuna ukumcindezela. Kodwa lapho uRowan wami eqala ukungenangqondo, ngangifuna ukugwinya amaphilisi ukuze angalizwa lokhu ukukhala okuqhubekayo ... "
U-Brook uyavuma ukuthi wayethusa imizwa yangaphakathi:
"Kucatshangwa ukuthi ukuzalwa kwengane yinkathi ejabulisayo kakhulu futhi owesifazane kufanele ajabule ngokuzenzakalelayo. Futhi ayizange isebenze kimi, futhi akekho owangitshela ukuthi kungenxa yesifo okufanele siphathwe. Kulabo abangizungezile, ngangingowesifazane "ongalungile" noma umama omubi ... "
2. Courteney Cox
Mayelana nesifiso sokunciphisa impilo yakhe emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala - indodakazi kaKoko ikhulelwe futhi inkanyezi yochungechunge elithi "Friends" Courtney Cox:
"Konke kwakungcono kuze kube yilapho ingane yami ineminyaka eyisithupha ubudala. Ngangempela ngaqala ukuphola! Inhliziyo yami yaphuma esifubeni sami, angizange ngilale ebusuku, futhi ngangingenalutho emini. Uma kwakungeyona yokwelashwa emtholampilo nokusekelwa kwezihlobo, ngangisinyathelo ngaphambi kokuba ngiphumile emahlathini ... "
3. Drew Barrymore
Kodwa umlingisi uDrew Barrymore futhi wayengazi ngokukhona kwalesi sifo, kuze kube sekuzalweni indodakazi yakhe yesibili:
"Lapho u-Olive engena emhlabeni futhi wonke umuntu wayekhuluma ngokucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha, angizange ngikuqonde ngempela ukuthi kwakunjani, kodwa ngize ngize ngibelethe uFrankie. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi isikhathi sami sokuphila sathoma, esibizwa ngokuthi "olahlekile ngokuphelele"
Buka Kufakiwe 4 Chrissy Tagen
Ukuba umama nje ngonyaka odlule, isimo esinobuchwepheshe sitshele futhi sikhombisa i-supermodel Chrissie Teigen, owayezizwa engenelisekile kangangokuthi wayengakwazi ukuphuma, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuphuma embhedeni:
"Angizange ngicabange ukuthi lokhu kungenzeke kimi - nginompilo omuhle futhi nginezidingo ezidingekayo esandleni sami: umyeni wami, umama, umhlengikazi. Kodwa ukucindezeleka akukhethi ukuthi ubani ozayo. Angikwazi ukuyilawula, futhi kwadingeka ngifunde usizo lwezokwelapha. Angazi ukuthi abantu babhekana kanjani nalokhu. Angikaze ngihloniphe omama kakhulu ngaphambili, futhi ikakhulukazi omama abanokucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha ... "
5. Lisa Wrynn
Kodwa umcindezeli waseMelika nomsakazo we-TV umthumeli we-postpartum ngemuva kokuzalwa kwamadodakazi amabili ahlaselwa ngesimo esibi kakhulu:
"Ngangihlale ngifuna ukuthatha ummese noma uhlobo lwesikhali. Ngaze ngabuza umyeni wami uHarry ukuthi athathe zonke izinto eziphambene nokusika ngaphakathi endlini futhi athathe isibhamu, ngoba izwi langaphakathi latshela wonke umuntu ukuthi abulale. Manje nje ngiyabona ukuthi kubi kangakanani ... "
6. Gwyneth Paltrow
Awudluli ukucindezeleka kokuthunyelwe kwe-postpartum no-Gwyneth Paltrow. Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwendodana yakhe ngo-2006, lo mdlali wezemidlalo isikhathi eside wayenombuso ongathandeki:
"Nganginjengebhobhothi. Ayikho imizwelo noma isiphi isimo semvelo. Kubi kakhulu! Futhi ngisho nanamuhla, lapho ngibheka izithombe zendodana yami ezinyangeni ezingu-3, ngiyaqaphela ukuthi lesi sikhathi siphume empilweni yami ... "
7. Céline Dion
Ekuzalweni kwezingane zokuqala ezilinde isikhathi eside emndenini uCeline Dion nomyeni wakhe, manje osekupheleni kukaRene Angelil, wabhala bonke abezindaba - umculi isikhathi eside akakwazanga ukucabanga futhi wasinda imizamo eminingi engaphumelelanga ye-IVF. Futhi lapho uRenee-Charles efika, esikhundleni senjabulo engenamkhawulo lo musha osanda kumama waqala ukukhala ngobuhlungu:
"Ngingakhalela ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ngaqala futhi angikwazi ukuyeka. Ngangilahlekelwa ngokuphelele, futhi ngokungagwegwesi, ngibhekile ngikhathazeke futhi ngingenalo ukuphila ... "
8. Hayden Panettiere
Esinye sezibonelo ezivelele kakhulu zokulwa nokucindezeleka kokubeletha kwaba indaba kaHayden Panettiere. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ngemva kokuzalwa kwentombazane kaKai-Evdokia ngo-2014, lo mdlali wezezicathulo wayefanele ngisho nokuya esikhungweni sokuvuselela:
"Ngangibona yonke imizwa emibi neyinkinga phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Ngangingafuni ukulimaza ingane yami, kodwa angikwazi ukulawula isimo sami sengqondo noma. Umqondo wecala wangihlupha ngaso sonke isikhathi. Futhi inkinga ukuthi abesifazane abaningi, abafana okufanayo, abakwazi ngisho nokuyivuma! "
9. Kate Middleton
Ucabanga ukuthi emva kokuba ngumama, ama-duchesses kufanele agcine kuphela ohlangothini ukuthi anakekela kanjani ingane yakhe futhi aholele ukuphila, futhi ajabulele kuphela "izinzuzo" zesimo sabo? Kodwa akekho ... Kuvela ukuthi emva kokuzalwa kweNdodana uGeorge yokuqala, uMduduzi waseCambridge akafuni ukuwela ngisho nomngcele wendlu yakhe!
"Ngangizizwa ngedwa futhi ngedwa. Futhi ukuphakamisa ukuthi kuyoba kubi kangakanani, kodwa kuhle kangakanani, kwakungekho noyedwa ... Manje ngiyaqonda ukuthi ukusekelwa kwezihlobo nabahlengikazi kubalulekile kakhulu. Abasizi abaningi - cishe ukuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga! "
USara Michelle Gellar
Namuhla, u-fighter we-cinematic fighter oshade noFreddie Prince Jr. ukhulisa izingane ezimbili - indodakazi kaCharlotte nendodana kaRocca, futhi ujabulela umndeni ujabule, kodwa, njalonjalo ... Umdlali wezemidlalo uvuma ukuthi konke akunjalo ngaphandle kokusiza kochwepheshe, ngisho nasekhasini lakhe ku-Instagram unikeza oxhumana nabo esikhungweni, lapho bazokwazi ukusekela bonke omama abancane:
"Ukuba nezingane kuyamangalisa. Ukuphila kwakho kuyashintsha, kodwa hhayi njalo ngendlela oyilindele ngayo. Ngithanda izingane zami ngaphezu kwanoma yini. Kodwa, njengabesifazane abaningi, ngabona ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha. Kwadingeka ngicele usizo namuhla, ngicabanga ukuthi lesi sinyathelo yisipho esingcono kakhulu engingakucela. Kulabo ababhekana nalokhu, yazi-awunabo yedwa. Thola iminithi, iya kusixhumanisi futhi ubike inkinga yakho kummeleli wezempilo ... "
11. Adele
Ngonyaka wezi-2012 umculi u-Adele wafunda ukuthi ulungiselela ukuba umama, wanquma ukushiya esiteji futhi azibophezele ekukhuliseni umntwana. Kodwa, ezinyangeni ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa kwendodana ka-Angelo, kwavela ukuthi indawo yindawo kuphela ayengaphunyulela kuyo ... engahambi kabi!
"Ngezinye izikhathi ngaqala ukuzisola ukuthi nginomntwana. Ngaze ngacabanga ukuthi ngenze isinqumo esibi kunazo zonke empilweni yami - ukuba ngunina. Ngaleso sikhathi kwakubonakala kimi ukuthi ngizonda wonke umuntu nakho konke. Ngangesaba ukufika kumntwana, ngicabanga ukuthi ngingamlimaza nje kuphela, kodwa nakakhulu ngangesaba ukuthi ngizoba ngumama omubi ... "
Umculi uyavuma ukuthi ugcine konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe ngesicelo sesoka, futhi kuphela uma isimo sesongela impilo sanquma ukubuyela kumngane wakhe ngokusiza nokusekelwa kwengqondo.
12. Jennifer Lopez
Ukuze wazi injabulo yokuba ngumama, futhi ngaphandle kokuphindwe kabili, uJay Lo wayenonyaka ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe kweminyaka engama-40, kuphela, amahle-okuhlangenwe nakho kweminyaka ayephila akuzange kusize, kodwa kwalimaza kuphela:
"Izimpawu zokukhulelwa emva kokubeletha ngaqala ukuzwa ezinsukwini ezimbalwa, njengoba kuzalwa uMax no-Emma. Imicabango edabukisayo yangihlasela ngokungazelelwe futhi yaletha abazenzisi. Yebo, ngakhala amahora ambalwa ngokulandelana, ngicabanga ukuthi ngizoba umama omubi nokuthi kanjani esikhathini esizayo izingane ngeke zingithande! "
Ngenhlanhla, umculi nomculi basize ukuba banqobe ukugula kwengqondo, futhi manje unyaka wesishiyagalolunye, ukuthi uphatha kanjani ngokugcwele indima yomama ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni!