Ngakho-ke ngokuvumelana nazo zonke izibalo ezifanayo, cishe amaphesenti angu-50 kubo bonke abesifazane abaneminyaka engama-18 kuya kwengu-60 bahlale bezithokozela njalo . Kulokhu, izindlela abazidela ngazo, zihlukile: kusukela eminwe yezandla zomuntu kuze kube semfudlaneni wamanzi. Ngokuvamile, amantombazane anesithakazelo embuzweni wokuthi kungenzeka yini ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhatsi sokuya esikhathini.
Ingabe kungenzeka njalo ukushaya indlwabu futhi kungalimazi impilo?
Ochwepheshe abakhulu, abakwa-sexologists bathi umsebenzi onjalo awunobungozi owesifazane ovela endaweni yokubukeka ngokomzimba. Kodwa-ke, uma owesifazane engenawo umlingani ohlala njalo, ukushaya indlwabu njalo kungabangela izinkinga engqondweni ye-psyche, njll. owesifazane uzovele ehlule ukuqonda nokufisa isilisa ocansini.
Futhi, ngokuvamile abesifazane bacabanga ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini nokuthi ukushaya indlwabu kuyathinta le nqubo.
Ngakho-ke, akukho ukuphikisana kwalolu hlobo lokuqeqesha ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Kodwa-ke, kulokhu kubalulekile ukucabangela kanye nemithetho yokuhlanzeka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokusho komagazini owodwa odumile waseWestern, ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini kungasiza ngisho nomzimba.
Ngakho-ke, kuye kwafakazelwa ucwaningo ukuthi ukwaneliseka okwenza ukwelaphe imishanguzo yezinyawo ezingenalutho (umsebenzi okwandisiwe wezitho, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokulala).
Ngokuqondene nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukudala ukushaya indlwabu yenyanga, kuthiwa lokhu kungenzeka, kepha ngokwenza lokhu akubonwa.
Yini ewusizo ngokushaya indlwabu emzimbeni wesifazane?
Ngemva kokubhekana neqiniso, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba uhlanganyele ekushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, kuyadingeka ukuthi usho ngezinzuzo zale nqubo yomzimba. Ngakho, okokuqala, ukushaya indlwabu kuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo. Lokhu kuchazwa ukuthi lapho kutholakala isimo se-orgasm, i-hormone serotonin ikhiqizwa emzimbeni, owaziwa ngokuthi i-hormone "yenjabulo".
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukushaya indlwabu ngezikhathi ezithile kungathuthukisa ubuhlobo bobulili nendoda. Abesifazane abanjalo, njengomthetho, bayazi ukuthi bayajabula kakhulu futhi bangatshela umlingani wabo ngemfihlo yabo.
Futhi ukushaya indlwabu kungasetshenziswa njengenye yezindlela zokuphumula nokuphazamisa ekucindezelekeni okuqhubekayo, ngaphezu kokunye. Ngaphezu kwalokhu okungenhla, abesifazane abaningi bathi ukushaya indlwabu kubavumela ukuba babhekane nobuhlungu obunzima bokuthi ubuhlobo be-premenstrual syndrome bubuhlungu.
Okubalulekile ukuthi abesifazane abahlala bezithokozisa ngokwanele ngesikhathi socansi bazwa ama-orgasms ecacile nangaphezulu.
Ngangaki ungakwazi ukushaya indlwabu owesifazane?
Uma ucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kokuya esikhathini, noma ekupheleni kokuya esikhathini, abesifazane abavamile ukucabanga ngendlela yokushaya indlwabu,
Ngakho-ke, kwatholakala ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu njalo kungabangela ekuthuthukiseni ukuxhomeka kwengqondo. Lokhu kuholela ekukhuleni kokungenakwenzeka kokuthola i-orgasm nomlingani wezocansi.
Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe abancoma ukuthi basebenzise ukuzethemba ngokweqile kaningi - kungabi ngaphezu kwezikhathi ezingu-1-2 ngesonto, ngaphandle kwalokho amathuba okuthuthukiswa kwenkinga engenhla aphezulu.